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melita916

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She's frying fish.

And you should never break up with chocolate. Lol
 
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skylove7

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I tell you I will always remember last night for the rest of my life. I danced and got hugs and lots of chocolates. HaHa...I was on cloud nine and I wasnt even the bride. teehee :) I think I found that part of me that I had been missing. I was like : " Oh yea Sky...there you are. Where did you go lately" lol...lots of fun! I am still tired from the dances lol sigh. How beautiful to celebrate two people in love. :) Praise God...:)
 
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LittleBit1987

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hello, darlin'.

how was the day for you? ♥

Extremely....

Rough. Sigh......

But YOU are here... and that makes me smile... I havent cried like today since the day my dad passed.... and wow... talk about God AND my dad both speaking me to during praise and worship!!!

My heart aches. but I keep telling myself my dad is building our manor, and I will get to go home someday... I just want to live life and experience joy... and give joy to others... :)
 
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Rosesrock

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Extremely....

Rough. Sigh......

But YOU are here... and that makes me smile... I havent cried like today since the day my dad passed.... and wow... talk about God AND my dad both speaking me to during praise and worship!!!

My heart aches. but I keep telling myself my dad is building our manor, and I will get to go home someday... I just want to live life and experience joy... and give joy to others... :)
Hurting is not a bad thing..grieving is needed. Hugs sweetie, im sorry you hurt, but i praise with you that your dad is with the Lord.
 
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psychomom

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Extremely....

Rough. Sigh......

But YOU are here... and that makes me smile... I havent cried like today since the day my dad passed.... and wow... talk about God AND my dad both speaking me to during praise and worship!!!

My heart aches. but I keep telling myself my dad is building our manor, and I will get to go home someday... I just want to live life and experience joy... and give joy to others... :)
hang on to that last part.
there are some very good things in life still.

i love you :)
 

blue_ladybug

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Feb 21, 2014
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could you guys please pray for me? This place has the spirit of depression on me right now and I can't shake it.. I'm sooo sad right now.. :( This place pulls people apart more than it builds us up..and that's the truth.. in fact, I need to rant right now..if you dont like it, tough, plug your ears..

I am sad that good people come here and get driven off by the contention and hate in this forum. Both newbies AND regulars. I'm tired of being happy.. tired of PRETENDING to be happy.. tired of laughing and smiling and hiding the fact that I'm sad as he** that alot of my friends have left and are leaving.. some days I wish I'd never found this site, because there's so much hate and contention on here.. it permeates from the BAF to all the other forums.. everybody trying to prove a point, and why theirs is right and everyone else is wrong.. who frickin' cares?! Agree to disagree and move on for goodness sake!! But nooooooooo, everyone has to be self-righteous and rude and sarcastic, and be sexist or racist and name call those who they deem stupider than themselves.. You are all adults!! Act like it and stop disappointing your Lord.. the KIDS on here act more mature than alot of adults on here, and that fact alone should ashame the adults on here.. I'm sure God's doing a constant facepalm when he visits this site.. :/

I need a break from this place.. rant over.. carry on..
 

Blain

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Aug 28, 2012
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could you guys please pray for me? This place has the spirit of depression on me right now and I can't shake it.. I'm sooo sad right now.. :( This place pulls people apart more than it builds us up..and that's the truth.. in fact, I need to rant right now..if you dont like it, tough, plug your ears..

I am sad that good people come here and get driven off by the contention and hate in this forum. Both newbies AND regulars. I'm tired of being happy.. tired of PRETENDING to be happy.. tired of laughing and smiling and hiding the fact that I'm sad as he** that alot of my friends have left and are leaving.. some days I wish I'd never found this site, because there's so much hate and contention on here.. it permeates from the BAF to all the other forums.. everybody trying to prove a point, and why theirs is right and everyone else is wrong.. who frickin' cares?! Agree to disagree and move on for goodness sake!! But nooooooooo, everyone has to be self-righteous and rude and sarcastic, and be sexist or racist and name call those who they deem stupider than themselves.. You are all adults!! Act like it and stop disappointing your Lord.. the KIDS on here act more mature than alot of adults on here, and that fact alone should ashame the adults on here.. I'm sure God's doing a constant facepalm when he visits this site.. :/

I need a break from this place.. rant over.. carry on..
If God doesn't do the face palming I sure do, your rant is understandable I have felt this way many times.
 
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LittleBit1987

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Hurting is not a bad thing..grieving is needed. Hugs sweetie, im sorry you hurt, but i praise with you that your dad is with the Lord.

I was told that what I "wanted" was selfish.... and I said.."oh well... so i can be selfish for once in my life". lol Wow... just to want to hug and hold and see and hear my dad.... and I was told i was being selfish? hmmm... I love the person who said that to me.... but gotta admit... that did kinda sting a little bit.
 
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Sorry..but someone who gives creedence to 'the spirit of depression", tells the world "I"m tired of being happy",
"Tired of smiling...mad as he__. "who fr___ing cares" and such is only showing the real person they are. The bible is clear: "By your own words, you are exalted, by your own words, you are condemned". IF you found your own words above written across a mirror with lipstick, it would Scare YOU! Shouldn't that tell you something? This is the internet...how did you exist before it? How did you ventilate? DID you stand and scream this down a hallway? We all agree..YOU do need a break from this place, since you blame it for your troubles and get so upset over it. Why not go down to the local soup kitchen and volunteer and work face to face with real people in a real world and forget this internet drama that YOU freely choose to put into your life. GOD bless you as you leave.
 
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Rosesrock

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I was told that what I "wanted" was selfish.... and I said.."oh well... so i can be selfish for once in my life". lol Wow... just to want to hug and hold and see and hear my dad.... and I was told i was being selfish? hmmm... I love the person who said that to me.... but gotta admit... that did kinda sting a little bit.
Selfish? Thats extremely normal and yeah me too. I also wanted him at my highschool graduation, and wedding and birth of my childrsn, it's ok to miss your dad. Especially today. You're still letting him go day by day, but today.....cry, and remember.
 
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Rosesrock

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Sorry..but someone who gives creedence to 'the spirit of depression", tells the world "I"m tired of being happy",
"Tired of smiling...mad as he__. "who fr___ing cares" and such is only showing the real person they are. The bible is clear: "By your own words, you are exalted, by your own words, you are condemned". IF you found your own words above written across a mirror with lipstick, it would Scare YOU! Shouldn't that tell you something? This is the internet...how did you exist before it? How did you ventilate? DID you stand and scream this down a hallway? We all agree..YOU do need a break from this place, since you blame it for your troubles and get so upset over it. Why not go down to the local soup kitchen and volunteer and work face to face with real people in a real world and forget this internet drama that YOU freely choose to put into your life. GOD bless you as you leave.
Uncalled for and mean.....not nice.
 

p_rehbein

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Sep 4, 2013
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It appears I missed some things here today............goodness...........anyway........had a great Church Service this morning, and great worship and praise in song and Scripture.........and fellowship with my church family. God is surely good.

My daughter is so wonderful.............thought of her today........bunches :)

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VioletReigns

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could you guys please pray for me? This place has the spirit of depression on me right now and I can't shake it.. I'm sooo sad right now.. :( This place pulls people apart more than it builds us up..and that's the truth.. in fact, I need to rant right now..if you dont like it, tough, plug your ears..

I am sad that good people come here and get driven off by the contention and hate in this forum. Both newbies AND regulars. I'm tired of being happy.. tired of PRETENDING to be happy.. tired of laughing and smiling and hiding the fact that I'm sad as he** that alot of my friends have left and are leaving.. some days I wish I'd never found this site, because there's so much hate and contention on here.. it permeates from the BAF to all the other forums.. everybody trying to prove a point, and why theirs is right and everyone else is wrong.. who frickin' cares?! Agree to disagree and move on for goodness sake!! But nooooooooo, everyone has to be self-righteous and rude and sarcastic, and be sexist or racist and name call those who they deem stupider than themselves.. You are all adults!! Act like it and stop disappointing your Lord.. the KIDS on here act more mature than alot of adults on here, and that fact alone should ashame the adults on here.. I'm sure God's doing a constant facepalm when he visits this site.. :/

I need a break from this place.. rant over.. carry on..
That's exactly what happened with me, Lady Blue. :( I got tired of pretending that I was ok when I was tied up in knots about all the friction and debating and unreasonable meanness. I felt so sad that there was so resolution.

But while I was away, I realized that this site is just one small window to the whole wide world. This site is just another social media outlet. It's not a church and it's not a body of unified believers. There's never going to be perfect peace in this place except between the Father and the ones who are His own.

Yes, there are many true Christians on this site, but even they don't all agree. Nevertheless, I got so sick and tired of harboring disappointment and agitation with those who bludgeon others with scripture, that the only way I can avoid it is to avoid them; to put them on ignore.

I hope I didn't come off sounding self-righteous. The reason I chose to ignore some people is because I don't want to be a meanie and a bully myself. Oswald Chambers ("My Utmost for His Highest" author) wrote that we should not look at others as if there's no hope for them. I don't want to do that either. So I will pray for them instead but also stay away from them so I don't interfere with what God is doing in their lives. I don't think I am better than "them", I think we are all in the same boat, learning and growing in Christ Jesus.

As for your being sad and depressed, my heart hurts to hear that. I know you go through tough battles and I long for you to be healed and feeling better. I send hugs and love your way, dear lady.

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Reborn

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Sorry..but someone who gives creedence to 'the spirit of depression", tells the world "I"m tired of being happy",
"Tired of smiling...mad as he__. "who fr___ing cares" and such is only showing the real person they are. The bible is clear: "By your own words, you are exalted, by your own words, you are condemned". IF you found your own words above written across a mirror with lipstick, it would Scare YOU! Shouldn't that tell you something? This is the internet...how did you exist before it? How did you ventilate? DID you stand and scream this down a hallway? We all agree..YOU do need a break from this place, since you blame it for your troubles and get so upset over it. Why not go down to the local soup kitchen and volunteer and work face to face with real people in a real world and forget this internet drama that YOU freely choose to put into your life. GOD bless you as you leave.
My imaginary friend said go away. :p
 
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psychomom

Guest
could you guys please pray for me? This place has the spirit of depression on me right now and I can't shake it.. I'm sooo sad right now.. :( This place pulls people apart more than it builds us up..and that's the truth.. in fact, I need to rant right now..if you dont like it, tough, plug your ears..

I am sad that good people come here and get driven off by the contention and hate in this forum. Both newbies AND regulars. I'm tired of being happy.. tired of PRETENDING to be happy.. tired of laughing and smiling and hiding the fact that I'm sad as he** that alot of my friends have left and are leaving.. some days I wish I'd never found this site, because there's so much hate and contention on here.. it permeates from the BAF to all the other forums.. everybody trying to prove a point, and why theirs is right and everyone else is wrong.. who frickin' cares?! Agree to disagree and move on for goodness sake!! But nooooooooo, everyone has to be self-righteous and rude and sarcastic, and be sexist or racist and name call those who they deem stupider than themselves.. You are all adults!! Act like it and stop disappointing your Lord.. the KIDS on here act more mature than alot of adults on here, and that fact alone should ashame the adults on here.. I'm sure God's doing a constant facepalm when he visits this site.. :/

I need a break from this place.. rant over.. carry on..
Father, i come to You for Lady Blue. she feels the sadness we all do over the way things are.
but You, oh, Lord abound in mercy and lovingkindness for Your people.
You are our stay, our sun and our shield, and very present help in time of trouble. You commend us to cast our cares on You...

because You truly do care for us. please help my sister to throw all this in Your very capable hands,
and remind her heart how very dear she is to You and to us.
remind her You will never allow the wicked to prosper and for the sake of Your great Name You will fulfill each and every good Promise You have made us.

help us to love one another, please kind Sir, just as You have loved us.
may we stand together in the day of trouble and see Your salvation, for Jesus' sake, amen.


i love you, bluebug ♥
 
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LittleBit1987

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Selfish? Thats extremely normal and yeah me too. I also wanted him at my highschool graduation, and wedding and birth of my childrsn, it's ok to miss your dad. Especially today. You're still letting him go day by day, but today.....cry, and remember.

I am pretty sure my eye ducts are empty...lol No more tears to cry. which I think is a blessing in disguise....

But tomorrow is a new day, and I will look forward to tomorrow as if it was Friday lol :)