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hey guys, I don't know but I need help sometimes I feel lonely and I don't have anyone to talk to like before... sometimes I feel like I need a guy by my side that truly loves me...
anybody feeling the same way?
or any help?
 
Everyone, even ppl engaged have felt "lonely".

If you make it public, this way, you´re gonna get hidden wolves (and they bite)

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My recommendation is, if I´m allowed, ask God 1st. You are too young to hurt yourself that way (and your age is an advantage for you to grow from the inside out).
 
yes I think I should pray and ask God for what I need.. I feel like he is testing me though and it's taken forever.. need to be spiritually right first.. thank you sir. :)
 
liverlover said:
but I feel lonely :/ i'm going through a stage in life man
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Everyone feels lonely at times as we all want to feel loved and desired. But don't let those feelings and desires interfere with what is important, and that's Jesus. With Him, you aren't alone. A boy won't make you happy. But being the best person you can be in Christ will, and one day, maybe God will bless you with a man and not a boy.
 
you´re not spiritually wrong!

Lonelines is a feeling and, it is more felt at your age (particularlly when you possible see several ppl sorrounded by those you wish were your friends...)

Visit Teen forums, here in CC, and see YOU ARE NOT alone in feeling alone.

I hope you find ppl your age and try to talk to your parents.

My concern would be if you endangered, yourself, to say THAT on FB or in any other public site (like this).

I´d pray you find a lady or a Christian friend your age who show you why you´re feeling that way.

I hope these serve you, a little:


Why do I (teenager) feel so lonely?

Kids Helpline - Loneliness
 
liverlover said:
yes I think I should pray and ask God for what I need.. I feel like he is testing me though and it's taken forever.. need to be spiritually right first.. thank you sir. :)
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I agree.

Maybe you should pray and ask God if it's a good idea for a 17 year old girl to be looking for a date in the "Young Adult Forum" which is full of grown men.

Maybe God will have some insight.

Maybe he'll recommend that you go back to the TEEN FORUM.
 
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Liverlover,

DO NOT send me any more PMs.

I AM NOT going to exchange PMs with a 17 year old girl.


If you need to talk, you can chat with some of the women here.
I'm sure they'd be happy to talk and pray with you.
 
Please feel free to PM me and talk, if you want to talk about loneliness and depression, and how God can help you.

The teen years can be very difficult and I would be happy to mentor you, if you want. Just let me know.
 
hi, liverlover :)

don't be confused by my user name. it's only true :)

my husband and i have raised 5 daughters, and i believe i was a girl at one time, too?
(so hard to remember lol)

my PM is always open to you as well. Angela would be a better mentor, but if you just need a mom type to talk to, please feel free. :)

grace and peace to you in the Name of the Lord Jesus--
ellie
 
liverlover said:
yes I think I should pray and ask God for what I need.. I feel like he is testing me though and it's taken forever.. need to be spiritually right first.. thank you sir. :)
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First, where is your daddy? Second, what you posted is a great idea.
 
Until Western women reverse what has become a very punishing body of anti-male law in Western nations that is currently scaring men away from courting and marrying women, I'm afraid the trend of young men deciding to no longer seek intimacy and marriage with women will continue to escalate. Most will still fornicate with females (hopefully with protection) if they aren't practicing celibacy, of course, but that's not the same thing.

The truth is that there are few benefits and many serious (even life-long) liabilities up to and including being incarcerated in the nation's penal system and gaining a criminal record negatively affecting their ability to earn for the rest of their life if they become intimate and marry you and end up in divorce and then lose their job.

And shaming tactics from the pulpit and liberal media aren't working. Men are exercising their biblical and human right to stay single and retain their liberty, resources, etc... while avoiding the punishing body of law that's developed since the late 1960's in Western nations.

Unfortunately, 99.99% of the females out there have no intention on making it easier for men to marry women with most pushing for harsher laws against men so the rapid decline in marriage will continue with men continuing to abstain from courtship and marriage in ever increasing numbers.

See: U.S. marriage rate hits new low and may continue to decline | Deseret News National

See: http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nvsr/nvsr64/nvsr64_01.pdf


liverlover said:
hey guys, I don't know but I need help sometimes I feel lonely and I don't have anyone to talk to like before... sometimes I feel like I need a guy by my side that truly loves me...
anybody feeling the same way?
or any help?
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