Girls deserve respect!

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Mari

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Maddog said:
So we agree that sexual attraction is okay?

And that giving in to sexual temptations is wrong (and is what understand as lust)?

I'll settle for that.
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sexual attraction is natural but like u said before it leads to lust soo ehh lol
 
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callthe5o

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THATS WHAT I WAS SAYING! but i'm 14 so i'm rong.
 
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Maddog

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callthe5o said:
ok, so i'm rong because you say so and because i'm young and everything is a blur?
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No. With respect, that's not at all what I said.

callthe5o said:
a couple should be attracted to eachother, but that doesnt give the right for ppl at school to call girls sexy when they don't even know them
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So this isn't about lust at all then, but rather about social conduct?

callthe5o said:
i think a couple should be sexualy attracted to eachother, but mostly attracted through God's love. because what do you think will happen as they get old? sexual attraction will be difficult to see. but the couple lasts not by sexual attraction, but by agape love, the way jesus loved us.
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I agree.

callthe5o said:
that is what should bring couples together. not sexual attraction, but love.
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We should love all unconditionally anyway, the sexual element is the unique 'spark' that God has given to male-female relationships. Sometimes we love someone as a friend and over time grow to fancy them. Sometimes we fancy them first which prompts us to grow to love them in a deeper sense. I don't think it matters which way round it happens as long as we love them enough through all stages to respect them as a person.
 
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Mari

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Maddog said:
So we agree that sexual attraction is okay?

And that giving in to sexual temptations is wrong (and is what understand as lust)?

I'll settle for that.
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lol yea nice little discussion God bless
 
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callthe5o

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what you said after my post was all true.well, i hope there isnt any problems between us, God bless.
 
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Maddog

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callthe5o said:
what you said after my post was all true.well, i hope there isnt any problems between us, God bless.
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No, not from my end, old chap. I clearly offended you though by bringing age into it, so I'm sorry; maybe it was a poor judgement or choice of wording on my part. I hope you understand that I didn't mean it in the way you evidently took it.
 
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callthe5o

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oh, i believe i missunderstood to bro. and i understand why you brought age into this, but not all 14 year olds are the same. well, God bless. :)
 
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BellaFlor

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callthe5o said:
oh, i believe i missunderstood to bro. and i understand why you brought age into this, but not all 14 year olds are the same. well, God bless. :)
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No, not all 14 years old's are the same. And I get very happy when seeing young people like you wanting to live according to God's Word whilst still being so young.


Psalm 119, 9-10:
"How can a young man keep his way pure?
By living according to your word.
I seek you with all my heart;
do not let me stray from your commands".

Still, it doesn't means that you won't be having times of temptations. One young guy I know of, and that I truly thought it awesome how he seemed wanting to live for God, and doing His Will, because of what he said when being still quite young. When he became some few years older, he slept with a girl he didn't loved because he wanted to experience a bit more in life, and this was something he regretted, also because he had another girl that he did loved and that didn't wanted to be with him anymore just because she got very hurt by his act done. He felt very sad and broken 'cause of this, and it truly made me feeling sad and mad about it as well. This young guy was so very strong in God for a period, but still he fell under temptation.

But if you manage keeping yourself close to God and His Word deep grounded in your heart, He can help you to win over your every temptation, if you let Him also help you through. You can make it through with God by your side. :) Keep on having faith in Him, always!
 
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callthe5o

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thnx so much for sharing that and also backing it up with scripture. God bless you. :) and i believe no matter how young or how old a person is, i'm pretty sure we all get temptations.
 
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BellaFlor

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Yes, that's sure right. But often, those who are younger fall easily under pressures than those who have become more independent, that's more how I meant to say. Still, both young and old can get temptations, that's right. :)
 
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callthe5o

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i also agree with that. for i have fallen very easely into temtations for i am spiritualy week, but i cant say that about all teens. its also true because teens try to fit in, or there hormones are like, going crazy. lol
 
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PRAIASEmyGOD

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PRAIASEmyGOD said:
just about every guy i know talks about how a girl is "hot" or how a girl is "sexy" well it really makes me frustrated when they do!

now i wont give in to them! (Proverbs 4:14-16) states don't do as the wicked!
when people say "hot" or "sexy" i find them being prejudice by calling them doming names that even some girls give in to! and it makes me sick! now here is a verse not to be prejudice!

Galatians 3:28-29

-"We are no longer Jews or Greeks or slaves or free men or even merely men or women, but we are all the same --- we are Christians; we are one in Christ Jesus. And now that we are Christ's we are the true descendants of Abraham, and all of God's promises to him belong to us."


now this verse says a lot, about how to treat each other equally and calling girls "hot" and "sexy" and maybe even "slut, whore, bitch" any other kind of dominging name you can come up with is just amazing about how much of a prejudice you are now do guys get called hot and sexy? yea well guys what do you want them to call you beautiful? because i know most guys would rather hot, but a girl ask just about any girl if she would rather be called "hot" or "beautiful" and she will say beautiful because that is how it should be!

here is another verse

Proverbs 19:22

-"kindness makes a man attractive."


now do you think calling a girl a bitch is kind?


-i will leave that up to you to decide
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id'e like to add..

Genesis 6:1-2 (New King James Version)

Genesis 6

1 Now it came to pass, when men began to multiply on the face of the earth, and daughters were born to them, 2 that the sons of God saw the daughters of men, that they were beautiful; and they took wives for themselves of all whom they chose
 
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callthe5o

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keep adding more scripture to stuff like this bro, just keep adding lol
 
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PRAIASEmyGOD

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callthe5o said:
keep adding more scripture to stuff like this bro, just keep adding lol
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hadnt found anything but i think ima research some stuff and try to get up a new post tomaro
 
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callthe5o

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awesome bro, i hope you do. :)
 
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callthe5o

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hey what should i do..... i am around the rong crowd at school and i know its rong for i feel it in my heart. what should i do.......
 
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PRAIASEmyGOD

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callthe5o said:
hey what should i do..... i am around the rong crowd at school and i know its rong for i feel it in my heart. what should i do.......
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change them or they will change you, possibly invite them to your house on a saturday night, say some prayers some bible verses and then surprise them with church the next day....

or do what i did, ditched them and made them come back to me and go with my standards of a true friend
 
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Love009

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Very much agreed :) I think it's great that you think that. Most guys at my school do say all those things and it is a total turn off when guys do say stuff like that. I'd take a spiritual compliment over a physical compliment any day.
 
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