Is there something wrong with me?

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Brother_J_BELGIUM

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Olerica said:
This may sound condescending to you, but it's not meant to...

Brother, you are TWENTY years old. To have this attitude of cutting yourself off now? Man, you've got a lot of life left to live. Please don't shut down now. Keep seeking God and submit your heart to Him to keep soft.

I know that you feel very lonely, and when you aren't involved with someone and it seems everyone else is, and there seem to be no prospects? Yes, it's VERY frustrating. I can identify with this. But please don't close yourself off to God's miracle in your life because right now it seems that you are in a very long hallway with no open doors. Just keep your eyes on your Savior.
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Thanks, Olerica. It's hard to explain, but I just wouldn't know where to look for the right woman. There aren't many churches here and I know that most of those Christians there are living very worldly.. I have even known many of them personal, I can tell. I do not say that it is impossible for the Lord to find me a woman but neither do I state that I will. I simply do not know whether or not I will find someone and I think that's even more frustrating than the fact that I don't have someone right now.
 
Olerica

Olerica

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Brother_J_BELGIUM said:
Thanks, Olerica. It's hard to explain, but I just wouldn't know where to look for the right woman. There aren't many churches here and I know that most of those Christians there are living very worldly.. I have even known many of them personal, I can tell. I do not say that it is impossible for the Lord to find me a woman but neither do I state that I will. I simply do not know whether or not I will find someone and I think that's even more frustrating than the fact that I don't have someone right now.
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Man, I get it. But I was nearly 27 years old when I married. Please don't limit God, pray for the people of your community, for The lost to be reached, and then do what God says. Just because right now you can't see the answer doesn't mean that God isn't working.
 
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Brother_J_BELGIUM

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Olerica said:
Man, I get it. But I was nearly 27 years old when I married. Please don't limit God, pray for the people of your community, for The lost to be reached, and then do what God says. Just because right now you can't see the answer doesn't mean that God isn't working.
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I agree.. :) I will and maybe I'm jumping to conclusions too fast. I hope He has someone for me out there. God bless!
 
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honestjenn

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THIS IS FOR ORIGINAL POSTER: Do you have any actual pictures of yourself? Did you send pics of yourself to these girls? Maybe they didnt like what they seen and were being shallow, in which that case, keep looking. Someone will like you for you!
 
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garet82

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Monnkai said:
Id like to know the reason. It might be because im not aggressive enough......or something
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maybe but you can try to text them n ask or you may ignore it n looks for other friends. Dont give up, please :)

GBU
 
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Practice-English

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Willie-T said:
Grammatically, the way you expressed it was perfectly accurate, and it told all that was necessary.
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I just wanted to make things clear!
 
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