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GaryA
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"Silly of you to even hope for it..."No it was not the productive discussion that I had hoped..
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GaryA
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"I'm here for the humor --- you're not getting any 'male perspective' out of me!"Gary...please be careful on this thread...
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GaryA
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I would certainly not question the possibility of such a thing in the private lives of some of the women on CC; however, it has been proven beyond-a-shadow-of-a-doubt - over-and-over-and-over-and-over-and-over-and-over-and-over-and-over - that it is an absolute impossibility in a thread on a CC forum.
I wonder what it is you wanted to get at when you started this thread. I was up for trying to merge men in a collective attempt to better ourselves for the other sex. To gain male insight into the ladies needs, adding colour to our differences and using them to fit the puzzle pieces together ever so tightly. Yet, the message is a continuation of separatism. Mens leadership is also in allowing the differences to exist, and instead of being steamrolled by them be enhanced and enchanted by them. This is a confident man who can hold his own by applauding her strengths, showing by example the differences God would include for them to understand in a never ending love that never let's the communication lines dwindle.
"It's easier to attract honeys with flies" ....is not a good game plan. Stay tight to God, and He will show you a heart for her, differences and all. We will fill the need not subtract from it if we do that. "It's easier to attract honeys with honey." Now that's a game plan God wants us to secure!
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Mitspa
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You must have missed the post where I stop being serious about this thread and it became a thread to kinda joke around about?
Well, that is where you and I differ in opinion. I don't laugh at degrading women. Or uplifting men higher than others. I also missed the part where I had made some posts of value I thought, scripturally, yet you never even responded. I am not hurt at all by that, it's oK but this could have taken another role this thread...if you didn't respond to the antagonists. Remember the verse: Slow to speak? Slow to anger? I am sorry but it is not fun to throw jabs at things I value highly. And I value women highly! I am as fun as the next guy. But where your heart is there your treasure is also. For some of us we need to understand that where our treasure is there our heart goes. Behavior is important! God bless don't worry I am not heated in the least, just sure of what I am saying.
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Mitspa
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Like I said I am not in the least bit moved emotionally, I have nothing to let go. except my point. And it is let go! The assumption thing is one of the points as well.
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Mitspa
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Ok lets just save that for another day...lets just try to get alone with each other and be nice
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GaryA
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( I can't resist --- this is classic... )
Each woman is 'defined' or 'characterized' by different positions of the knobs.
So then -- they are all different ( specifically - by the permutations / combinations of settings of the knobs ), but they are all the same ( complex - have all of the same knobs ).
( I can't resist --- this is classic... )
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Each woman is 'defined' or 'characterized' by different positions of the knobs.
So then -- they are all different ( specifically - by the permutations / combinations of settings of the knobs ), but they are all the same ( complex - have all of the same knobs ).
Gary, are you calling women knobs!? Wow Gary!
(I'm kidding)
Ok lets just save that for another day...lets just try to get alone with each other and be nice
I am sorry if you took my passion for women, and concern for family values, and understanding of Satan's way of diverting us in the little things, as a claim for un-nice. I would love to talk in private, I would love to hear your story, and get to know you better. I would love to use Scripture as our base of understanding. As the headship of a Family , as a man, I would love for you to value woman on a high place in order to give God the ability to give them what He wants to provide for them thru you. I will await your invite. God bless you brother.....by the way my name is Dan, or slave, or excuse me please, not dude. I do appreciate the notice of that.
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Mitspa
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As a woman I didnt chime in to this post except once earlier to try and add humor and ask legitimately for a recipe. However the last 3 pages I have resisted to make this comment out of cowardice.
I have read the OP and some commentees (is this a word) almost beg to let the serious debates to die because at this point due to the length and complexities too much verbage has been taken out of context, misunderstood, and has taken forms of attacks versus healthy debate and sincerity. New comments will more than likely not produce clarity or true reflection to gain deeper understanding so this makes me question the motives behind digging out previous comments. I sin daily and have said things I wish I hadnt and need my brothers and sisters in Christ to offer Grace. If someone truly wants to understand where someones view "sits" to have a healthy christian debate or discussion I would think a PM or new thread would be started to get at the heart of the matter since it is painfully obvious this thread, at times went down a road no one intended.
Just my thought from the outsider standing outside the forrest who can see the trees.
Just wanted folks to stop for a min and examine your intent and maybe choose another path to get there?
I hope this thread doesnt ignite anything further but if it does I sincerly apologize as that wasnt my intent.
I have read the OP and some commentees (is this a word) almost beg to let the serious debates to die because at this point due to the length and complexities too much verbage has been taken out of context, misunderstood, and has taken forms of attacks versus healthy debate and sincerity. New comments will more than likely not produce clarity or true reflection to gain deeper understanding so this makes me question the motives behind digging out previous comments. I sin daily and have said things I wish I hadnt and need my brothers and sisters in Christ to offer Grace. If someone truly wants to understand where someones view "sits" to have a healthy christian debate or discussion I would think a PM or new thread would be started to get at the heart of the matter since it is painfully obvious this thread, at times went down a road no one intended.
Just my thought from the outsider standing outside the forrest who can see the trees.
Just wanted folks to stop for a min and examine your intent and maybe choose another path to get there?
I hope this thread doesnt ignite anything further but if it does I sincerly apologize as that wasnt my intent.
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MadParrotWoman
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CATS????? Don't you swear at me, however I did forget parrots!you forgot cats...
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ServantStrike
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I would certainly not question the possibility of such a thing in the private lives of some of the women on CC; however, it has been proven beyond-a-shadow-of-a-doubt - over-and-over-and-over-and-over-and-over-and-over-and-over-and-over - that it is an absolute impossibility in a thread on a CC forum.
Because the men here all behave like such gentlemen....
Seriously I still remember all the misogynistic nonsense that floats around on this forum and travels in waves. Ridiculous.
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Mitspa
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This stuff gets deep sometimes... Am I the only one who sees through this kind of stuff?
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Mitspa
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Personally, I'm tired of SOME of the men acting like only women are complex creatures. Men aren't simple, women aren't simple. ServantStrike is right. There's tons of misogyny in this forum, and this thread is full of examples!
Here's a fun psychological fact. Men who tout misogynistic ideologies are those who have been wounded greatly and blame women for their problems, and/or they lack loving and meaningful interactions with women dating back to childhood. The vast majority of them are textbook narcissists, have another personality disorder, and will never change. They will only heal with Jesus, and no matter of discussion with humans will help them. It's God or bust. They choose to renew their mind or it's nothing. They truly don't see anything wrong with themselves and NEVER WILL.
Here's a fun psychological fact. Men who tout misogynistic ideologies are those who have been wounded greatly and blame women for their problems, and/or they lack loving and meaningful interactions with women dating back to childhood. The vast majority of them are textbook narcissists, have another personality disorder, and will never change. They will only heal with Jesus, and no matter of discussion with humans will help them. It's God or bust. They choose to renew their mind or it's nothing. They truly don't see anything wrong with themselves and NEVER WILL.