Modesty is the only virtue that will stop your husband from cheating on you.

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Godson13

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By modesty i mean not being worldly and unnecessarily flamboyant. Modesty also means modest dressing which means no earrings, no coloured make up,no lipsticks, no short dresses etc. Once you start giving your husband immodesty then you are no longer special in the eyes of husband. Why is this? This is because your husband if he wished could have not married you, instead he could have had 4 different women on his bed every night, but he gave that up for you because he wants a Christian marriage with a modest christian woman. But what do you do? Instead of giving him modesty, you pile on the earrings and make up so that you can look "attractive". Now let me ask you, which is more attractive to a man, one immodest christian woman with earrings and lipsticks every night or 4 immodest women with earrings and lipsticks every night? Of course it is the 4 immodest women, the only way you can beat those 4 women is by being a modest and conservative christian woman. Why should i commit myself to one immodest christian woman when i can 4 immodest women on my bed every night? But if i find that modest and conservative Christian woman then i will not approach those 4 women because i know i am marrying a modest woman who is as pure as eve on the day she was created to join Adam. The point here is that you cannot be lukewarm. You can either be a pagan woman and pile on the earrings or be a strict, modest and conservative christian. Once you are in the middle then you are no longer special.

But why are christian women immodest? I believe that the majority are just ignorant, they know deep down that it is wrong to be immodest but they are probably deceived by false pastors. For example these christian women see pastors wives and female preachers like Joyce Meyer wearing lipsticks and earrings and they are like "after all Joyce Meyer wears earrings, earrings cant be wrong". You stupid fool on your way to hell! Who told you that the female preacher you see on TV wearing earrings is a true christian, she could be a devil worshiper who pretends to be a Christian and who is only wearing those earrings so that you will copy her and join her in hell. Another reason christian women are immodest is because of the majority factor, they say to themselves "after all every one does it, it cant be wrong". You stupid fool on your way to hell! if you see everyone jumping to their deaths from a cliff will you also join in and say "after all everyone is doing it, i will jump as well"? You should note that many are called but few are chosen and there are enough pits in hell to accommodate everyone of you.

So what is the argument used by deceivers to justify immodest dressing? Here it is , they claim that immodesty like earrings don't make a woman immodest as long as she is not wearing it to attract attention to herself. You stupid fool on your way to hell! don't you know that some things are clearly wrong irrespective of whether it attracts attention or not? It is not only the attraction of attention that is wrong, it is the fact that you pierced your ears just so that you can wear earrings. You pierced the temple of the holy spirit just so that you can wear earrings.

As for me, earrings and lipsticks are an exclusion criteria, when it comes to asking a woman out, i don't and will not ask a woman with lipsticks or earrings out. This is because i don't want to commit adultery after marrying an immodest woman. I will rather marry the modest woman knowing that i am marrying pure eve just like Adam was with eve.You may say to your self "after all some christian men don't mind earrings, my former christian boyfriend was ok with earrings" but note that men are of varying qualities, may be the man that tolerates earrings is the man that will cheat on you whilst you are pregnant with his child and abandon you with the children after marriage. May be the man that does not want earrings is the one that will love and care for you from the day of your marriage till the end, so make your choices wisely.

I am trying to figure out networks and christian denominations where modest and conservative Christians gather and it will be great if anyone here makes a recommendation. i know of some denominations but i will like to now more so i will welcome recommendations.
 
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Wow. I was always under the impression that a man cheated on his wife because his moral character was lacking. Who knew that it was all about how she dressed?!

I'm just imagining this cheating husband standing before the Godhead telling Him how he cheated on his wife. I'm sure God would just shrug and say, "Dude...I get it...she wore earrings!"
 
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Olerica

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Or because of lipsticks.
 
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Comparing modesty and lack of cheating with a husband having four wives, in turn 'sacrificing' his freedom for four wives if the woman takes off her earrings and makeup all together, otherwise it's her fault for him cheating.



Would Islam happen to interest you, by any chance? They allow the four wives, the burqa modesty and the woman to be at fault if the man rapes her.
 
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Godson13 said:
if he wished could have not married you, instead he could have had 4 different women on his bed every night, but he gave that up for you because he wants a Christian marriage with a modest christian woman
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I guess married women should be grateful that their husbands did them the favor of marrying them.
 
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My friend is a modest woman down to everything you just said. Her husband.. Cheated 7 times.
So yeah..that's not why men (or women) cheat.
 
Olerica

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That, and I don't know too many men who have the stamina for 4 women in his bed every night. Bless.
 
JonahLynx

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Godson13 said:
Why should i commit myself to one immodest christian woman when i can 4 immodest women on my bed every night?
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This can't be serious, though lol...
 
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I found your people! Its perfect for you! You should fit in nicely into a works righteousness community
1-800-Call -Amish.


 
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Godson, if you really do not want to marry women who wear makeup or earrings, then you need to find either an old fashion Church of Christ, an Old fashion Pentecostal Church, Old Order Mennonites, or Old Order Amish. Other then that, I can't help.

I'm just curious, why do you believe that makeup and earrings are immodest?
 
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Godson13 said:
But what do you do? Instead of giving him modesty, you pile on the earrings and make up so that you can look "attractive". Now let me ask you, which is more attractive to a man, one immodest christian woman with earrings and lipsticks every night or 4 immodest women with earrings and lipsticks every night? Of course it is the 4 immodest women, the only way you can beat those 4 women is by being a modest and conservative christian woman. Why should i commit myself to one immodest christian woman when i can 4 immodest women on my bed every night? But if i find that modest and conservative Christian woman then i will not approach those 4 women because i know i am marrying a modest woman who is as pure as eve on the day she was created to join Adam.
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so a "christian" man would find 4 immodest women more attractive? wat?

it IS a full moon tonight. sigh.
 
PoetMary

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Godson13 said:
This is because your husband if he wished could have not married you, instead he could have had 4 different women on his bed every night...
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Personally, if a man can actually have sex with four different women everyday, I think he should....if for no other reason than to make it into Guinness Book.

Let's run the numbers, shall we?

Four different women a day is 1452 women in a year...with Christmas and Easter off (this is a Christian man, after all).

Hugh Hefner has bunnied around with approximately 1000 women in his lifetime....so you'd beat that lifetime playboy in just nine months.
Simon Cowell, Dennis Rodman, and Jack Nicholson each report around 2000 women they've entertained...so in less than 18 mos, you can defeat their sexual claims to fame.
Julio Iglesias has serenaded around 3000 women...so within two years and twenty days your voice will drown his out.
Ron Jeremy (porn star) has made a career of sleeping with around 4000 women...in less than three years, this Christian man can crush his record.

*DON'T STOP THERE*

Gene Simmons has rocked the world of about 4600 women...in slightly more than three years, you can be the real rockstar.
Charlie Sheen has crazed up the lives of about 5000 women, so three and a half years of your supreme sexual prowess and you'll be the one looking like Two and a Half Men.

*BUT WHY PLAY IN THE MINOR LEAGUES*

Warren Beatty has sexed up about 12,775 women. If you're truly committed (and taking your vitamins), in under nine years you can show Warren who the boss really is.
John Holmes (another pornstar) has a career record of around 14,000 women....but you'll be doing this for free, so you can easily surpass his lengthy record in less than ten years.
Wilt Chamberlain slamdunked around 20,000 women. However, just slightly under 14 years of your impressive skill set will make you the champion and leave him crying on the sidelines.

*HOW MUCH OF A MAN ARE YOU*

We've often heard that politics makes strange bedfellows, and it doesn't get much stranger than Fidel Castro who was the bedroom dictator to about 35,000 women. Now, you might need to embrace a paleo diet, and invest in some blue pills, but within 24 years, a dedicated Christian man can show this communist the clear superiority of the capitalist system.

Or OPTION B

You can embrace the sexual guidelines in scripture and not pretend that the only thing preventing you from four-a-days is a loving wife.
 
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Not you again! Back to the bridge you came from.
 
Shawn2516

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Sounds like Godson struck a nerve with the ladies.
 
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Sounds like Godson struck a nerve with the ladies.
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This bozo strikes a nerve with everyone. All he does is condemn and blame the ladies. I'm not saying it doesn't take two to tango, but he's still shifting the blame.

Pop, those statistics (if true) are horrifying! All of those lost souls. God!
 
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