No. It's wrong. period. Like you really have to sharpie certain verses in your bible if you want to believe that homosexuality is not sin and besides it isn't right logically...if God made man and women and then gave them the opportunity to pro-create then why can't male/male or female/female do that.
No, what you're doing is saying that you can live any way you want and God still gives you a pat on the back? I know this sounds rude but you're a liar and the truth isn't in you. Yes, you can be BORN a homosexual but that doesn't mean it's right...we are born and shaped by sin. A baby doesn't have to be taught to lie, steal, or even be violent. They grow up violent, lying, and stealing without having to be taught that because we are born and shaped by sin. Does it make anymore right? No? same thing... No matter how much you want to sugarcoat it or how much it "Feels" right. It doesn't make it so. People can fall in "Love" all the time but get divorced a year later...feelings aren't the truth. Feelings are fickle. I don't feel like praying everyday and I don't feel like going to church sometimes but if I let feelings guide my life I would be a broken mess.
It is very much wrong and there is no amount of scripture twisting you can do to make it right.
To the original poster- It sounds like you have pretty much decided what you want, but I ask that you really and truly pray...you came here for a reason. You could have vented anywhere else but you came here. Just seek God man. We all have desires we struggle with everyday but God has given us the victory at the cross. Even if you decide on whatever, stay in the word, keep praying, fasting, and seeking God with all of your heart.