How has your life changed after that first impression?
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I stopped receiving snail mails by 2012 (Thanks to God!)
I can remember several letters I received... Where are you, Nohemí Ruíz Betancourt?
The most wonderful person I ran from...
If she had shown who she was, how her body shape was, I would have accepted her holistically...
But she screwed up, herself, when she withheld those pictures I received TOO LATE (I got her too idealized) (I "saw" her like my dreams) and the moment those actual pictures came, it was too late: I loved my dreamed woman more than hers.
I can remember several letters I received... Where are you, Nohemí Ruíz Betancourt?
The most wonderful person I ran from...
If she had shown who she was, how her body shape was, I would have accepted her holistically...
But she screwed up, herself, when she withheld those pictures I received TOO LATE (I got her too idealized) (I "saw" her like my dreams) and the moment those actual pictures came, it was too late: I loved my dreamed woman more than hers.
If you approached a person saying: "I want to be your friend" and, afterwards you see someone lied... I don´t waste time dealing with lies.
She wanted to seize everything I have in my soul, she wanted to "know" all of me...
To love me or to please herself?
If a person is in a prison, they probably need more things than these we had fror granted.
They need to have dreams, otherwise, they could day with drepressions and sadness but, if someone loves to lie... I know what would be the end.
She wanted to seize everything I have in my soul, she wanted to "know" all of me...
To love me or to please herself?
If a person is in a prison, they probably need more things than these we had fror granted.
They need to have dreams, otherwise, they could day with drepressions and sadness but, if someone loves to lie... I know what would be the end.
"Iron sharpens iron" (Prov.)
¿Cómo cambiaría tu "vida" si -alguien- te dijera lo que ella me dijo?
Él dijo: "Yo soy feo. Tú eres linda"
Al instante, ella dijo: "Yo soy fea. Tú eres más lindo"
Each time I see an honest time shared and a quick change of mind done, I know we´re not wasting our time on earth.
[video]https://youtu.be/noktbMD3AP0[/video]
¿Cómo cambiaría tu "vida" si -alguien- te dijera lo que ella me dijo?
Él dijo: "Yo soy feo. Tú eres linda"
Al instante, ella dijo: "Yo soy fea. Tú eres más lindo"
Each time I see an honest time shared and a quick change of mind done, I know we´re not wasting our time on earth.
[video]https://youtu.be/noktbMD3AP0[/video]
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If I asked my brother Felix...
If I asked after 20 years...
Few days ago he phone called my mom with his issues (his wife told him she was to commit suicide) and she had run away in the middle night, in the countryside fields, and he didn´t know what to do when he couldn´t find there ...
Divorce is better than dying.
Divorce is better than fighting.
What is over is over and, after 20 years, they have fought more than enough: That is NOT love, but a fight...
Enough is enough.
If I asked after 20 years...
Few days ago he phone called my mom with his issues (his wife told him she was to commit suicide) and she had run away in the middle night, in the countryside fields, and he didn´t know what to do when he couldn´t find there ...
Divorce is better than dying.
Divorce is better than fighting.
What is over is over and, after 20 years, they have fought more than enough: That is NOT love, but a fight...
Enough is enough.
O
Once again,
I didn't get it!
I don't see what the subject is talking about.
I didn't get it!
I don't see what the subject is talking about.
it's talking about the 'flitter' side of life'..........................................................
some can acknowledge and actually talk about it, and others go
into total denial and skim along the best that they can.....
in the END, we reap what we SOW........
That´s it!
1Co 15:42 So also is the resurrection of the dead. It is sown in corruption; it is raised in incorruption:
1Co 15:43 it is sown in dishonor; it is raised in glory: it is sown in weakness; it is raised in power:
1Co 15:44 it is sown a natural body; it is raised a spiritual body. If there is a natural body, there is also a spiritual body.
1Co 15:42 So also is the resurrection of the dead. It is sown in corruption; it is raised in incorruption:
1Co 15:43 it is sown in dishonor; it is raised in glory: it is sown in weakness; it is raised in power:
1Co 15:44 it is sown a natural body; it is raised a spiritual body. If there is a natural body, there is also a spiritual body.
After those impressions...
I´m single because:
a) I´m afraid to fall short:
b) I´m afraid I have lived like that Samaritan woman, who never planned to be married (Jn 4:17)
c) I´m afraid that, after a short time I have enjoyed the woman I eagerly sought, God would send me a message like that, Ezekiel received (Eze 24:16 "Ezekiel, son of man, I will suddenly take the life of the person you love most. But I don't want you to complain or cry. ) asking me not to mourn that sorrow.
Do you have your own fears?
Are you alone "by God´s will"? No! That´s no the God I´ve believed but...
I´ve travelled enough, I asked her a lot and, when the sunset of life has come inside my life, I won´t keep on dreaming, I won´t chase those dreams...
Particularly when I know some ppl are seeking a woman to be (according to thei literal thoughts):
1) Their personal nurse (a long story I haven´t told)
2) When some of them are so self-centered, that they thought "a man´s come to seize my wealth (or citizenship)" and, after all these years getting old,
3) They chose a young men (to chet on?).
God never sent me a telegram saying: She´s the one I chose for you (and that DOESN´T MEAN I´m endorsing my faults on Him).
It´s just me (IT WAS NOT THEIR own FAULTS)
IT´S JUST me, who are AFRAID.
I´d better run...
I´m single because:
a) I´m afraid to fall short:
b) I´m afraid I have lived like that Samaritan woman, who never planned to be married (Jn 4:17)
c) I´m afraid that, after a short time I have enjoyed the woman I eagerly sought, God would send me a message like that, Ezekiel received (Eze 24:16 "Ezekiel, son of man, I will suddenly take the life of the person you love most. But I don't want you to complain or cry. ) asking me not to mourn that sorrow.
Do you have your own fears?
Are you alone "by God´s will"? No! That´s no the God I´ve believed but...
I´ve travelled enough, I asked her a lot and, when the sunset of life has come inside my life, I won´t keep on dreaming, I won´t chase those dreams...
Particularly when I know some ppl are seeking a woman to be (according to thei literal thoughts):
1) Their personal nurse (a long story I haven´t told)
2) When some of them are so self-centered, that they thought "a man´s come to seize my wealth (or citizenship)" and, after all these years getting old,
3) They chose a young men (to chet on?).
God never sent me a telegram saying: She´s the one I chose for you (and that DOESN´T MEAN I´m endorsing my faults on Him).
It´s just me (IT WAS NOT THEIR own FAULTS)
IT´S JUST me, who are AFRAID.
I´d better run...
There was a time I enjoyed FB.
It was like something good I had, to enjoy...
Those I had read, those I have met -online- gave me their account on FB and, several times, when we planned a blind date, some of them were willing to give me access to their facebook account...
What I read...
After that 1st good impression I had...
No!
I don´t want to read what I saw neither waht I read...
I´m not good to love, online.
It was like something good I had, to enjoy...
Those I had read, those I have met -online- gave me their account on FB and, several times, when we planned a blind date, some of them were willing to give me access to their facebook account...
What I read...
After that 1st good impression I had...
No!
I don´t want to read what I saw neither waht I read...
I´m not good to love, online.
B
After those impressions...
I´m single because:
a) I´m afraid to fall short:
b) I´m afraid I have lived like that Samaritan woman, who never planned to be married (Jn 4:17)
c) I´m afraid that, after a short time I have enjoyed the woman I eagerly sought, God would send me a message like that, Ezekiel received (Eze 24:16 "Ezekiel, son of man, I will suddenly take the life of the person you love most. But I don't want you to complain or cry. ) asking me not to mourn that sorrow.
Do you have your own fears?
Are you alone "by God´s will"? No! That´s no the God I´ve believed but...
I´ve travelled enough, I asked her a lot and, when the sunset of life has come inside my life, I won´t keep on dreaming, I won´t chase those dreams...
Particularly when I know some ppl are seeking a woman to be (according to thei literal thoughts):
1) Their personal nurse (a long story I haven´t told)
2) When some of them are so self-centered, that they thought "a man´s come to seize my wealth (or citizenship)" and, after all these years getting old,
3) They chose a young men (to chet on?).
God never sent me a telegram saying: She´s the one I chose for you (and that DOESN´T MEAN I´m endorsing my faults on Him).
It´s just me (IT WAS NOT THEIR own FAULTS)
IT´S JUST me, who are AFRAID.
I´d better run...
I´m single because:
a) I´m afraid to fall short:
b) I´m afraid I have lived like that Samaritan woman, who never planned to be married (Jn 4:17)
c) I´m afraid that, after a short time I have enjoyed the woman I eagerly sought, God would send me a message like that, Ezekiel received (Eze 24:16 "Ezekiel, son of man, I will suddenly take the life of the person you love most. But I don't want you to complain or cry. ) asking me not to mourn that sorrow.
Do you have your own fears?
Are you alone "by God´s will"? No! That´s no the God I´ve believed but...
I´ve travelled enough, I asked her a lot and, when the sunset of life has come inside my life, I won´t keep on dreaming, I won´t chase those dreams...
Particularly when I know some ppl are seeking a woman to be (according to thei literal thoughts):
1) Their personal nurse (a long story I haven´t told)
2) When some of them are so self-centered, that they thought "a man´s come to seize my wealth (or citizenship)" and, after all these years getting old,
3) They chose a young men (to chet on?).
God never sent me a telegram saying: She´s the one I chose for you (and that DOESN´T MEAN I´m endorsing my faults on Him).
It´s just me (IT WAS NOT THEIR own FAULTS)
IT´S JUST me, who are AFRAID.
I´d better run...
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