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Jeeper's creepers people... In all honesty, this is a big reason why I have never officially been on a date. I've heard and seen so many bad things happen on dates that I have chosen to not even go on one unless I am already very comfortable and confident with the person. Plus, I don't want to get a girl's hopes up only to reject them later.
And Levichevett, since you brought up brothers, I learned a lot from my brother as well. His first girlfriend was supposed to be a good Christian and he always tried to be respectful towards her. Then he bought her a super expensive necklace she had wanted for their 1 year anniversary of being together, but shortly after, she suddenly broke up. The reason she said, "He wasn't intimate enough with her." Uh, if you're Christian, you shouldn't be getting intimate until after marriage. So sadly, with his next girlfriends, he would make sure to always cuddle and kiss and more. Frankly, I think that is wrong for people who are dating and if you are a Christian girl, you are wrong for expecting that for reasons I won't get into now.
And Levichevett, since you brought up brothers, I learned a lot from my brother as well. His first girlfriend was supposed to be a good Christian and he always tried to be respectful towards her. Then he bought her a super expensive necklace she had wanted for their 1 year anniversary of being together, but shortly after, she suddenly broke up. The reason she said, "He wasn't intimate enough with her." Uh, if you're Christian, you shouldn't be getting intimate until after marriage. So sadly, with his next girlfriends, he would make sure to always cuddle and kiss and more. Frankly, I think that is wrong for people who are dating and if you are a Christian girl, you are wrong for expecting that for reasons I won't get into now.
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What sort of tips would you give your brother next time he gos out with a girl?
Why were you "happy" at that thing misfired? (were you jealous?)
That "good" night, at 15, wasn´t good for me, when I was that age: I seldom went to those places... But he behaved LIKE A GENTLEMEN, and as a man over 40...
Sad! But I bet HE DID his best (but you not, while "happy inside")
Why were you "happy" at that thing misfired? (were you jealous?)
That "good" night, at 15, wasn´t good for me, when I was that age: I seldom went to those places... But he behaved LIKE A GENTLEMEN, and as a man over 40...
Sad! But I bet HE DID his best (but you not, while "happy inside")
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What sort of tips would you give your brother next time he gos out with a girl?
Why were you "happy" at that thing misfired? (were you jealous?)
That "good" night, at 15, wasn´t good for me, when I was that age: I seldom went to those places... But he behaved LIKE A GENTLEMEN, and as a man over 40...
Sad! But I bet HE DID his best (but you not, while "happy inside")
Why were you "happy" at that thing misfired? (were you jealous?)
That "good" night, at 15, wasn´t good for me, when I was that age: I seldom went to those places... But he behaved LIKE A GENTLEMEN, and as a man over 40...
Sad! But I bet HE DID his best (but you not, while "happy inside")
And I was happy because I was protective over my brother even though hes older then me and hed just suddenly stopped spending time with me to hang out with some girls. Now that Im thinking about it that is basically jelousy. But I was only 10 at the time.
Ikr he has just always been so mature and responsible and gentleman like. I want to be more like him. Except that hes not a christian.
J
SYL....EVERYONE has been pushing me for years now to try online dating, because some how I always end up dating non-Christians (BIG MISTAKE)...after reading this I will simply wait for GOD to put that single Christian man in front of me. Although at my age there seems to not be any single Stable Christian men! LOL
J
One time I took this girl out back in my 20s. I had this hoopty chevy luv truck. It was orange with a white door. It was red at one time but the sun turned the paint this funny looking orange. The whole set up set me back $350.00. We got to town and turned on the cruising strip and the hubcap came off. It went right down the middle of everyone cruising. Everyone was laughing and honking their horns, I thought it was funny so I waved out the window at everyone, I couldnt honk the horn back cause it didnt work. Then we got pulled over for the taillights not working, I told the cop they work but just come disconnected then I turned to the girl and asked her to twist the 2 wires together above her head (I had the tail ligh wires running up over the passenger door panel trim). Then we parked in a parking lot for a while with some people and when we got ready to leave the truck wouldnt start. So I had the hood up working on it in the middle of everyone, I didnt care, we all knew each other and I got it going pretty fast, it was just a loose battery cable. But none the less she was not to happy about the whole thing and didnt want to go out again, not with a poor guy anyway.
Thanks for allowing to understand that, young man!
Pregnant mates aren´t good for ($)
I would have felt the same if, someone I liked sharing with, had gone elsewhere (the AGE is not a big deal when one is behaving selfishly).
You can be tthe person YOU WANT TO BE is you really work on the direction you´ve thought you want to lead your life.
Pregnant mates aren´t good for ($)
I would have felt the same if, someone I liked sharing with, had gone elsewhere (the AGE is not a big deal when one is behaving selfishly).
You can be tthe person YOU WANT TO BE is you really work on the direction you´ve thought you want to lead your life.
so many bad dates....which one to share that I haven't shared already?
Oh, maybe the story of how God saved me from a bad date by breaking my car window - -
I asked this gal from church out. I had scored some tickets to a play through work somehow, and we were going to go get dinner before the show. I had gone out with this lady before, and should have remembered that I had a miserable time (no, not the ear-biter...the OTHER one). Anyway, at the Mexican restaurant, she is complaining that her chicken burrito is dry and being kind of obnoxious. Memories of a previous date and some times with friends came back, and I remembered that she is a big fault-finder and generally no fun to be around, and I am kicking myself for asking her out. I then pray that God would intervene somehow.
When we get into my car, my window suddenly came off its track and disappeared into the car door. Unable to get the window back right, we opt to call it an early night, since I don't want to leave my car open like that in the downtown area.
Oh, maybe the story of how God saved me from a bad date by breaking my car window - -
I asked this gal from church out. I had scored some tickets to a play through work somehow, and we were going to go get dinner before the show. I had gone out with this lady before, and should have remembered that I had a miserable time (no, not the ear-biter...the OTHER one). Anyway, at the Mexican restaurant, she is complaining that her chicken burrito is dry and being kind of obnoxious. Memories of a previous date and some times with friends came back, and I remembered that she is a big fault-finder and generally no fun to be around, and I am kicking myself for asking her out. I then pray that God would intervene somehow.
When we get into my car, my window suddenly came off its track and disappeared into the car door. Unable to get the window back right, we opt to call it an early night, since I don't want to leave my car open like that in the downtown area.
K
Your sun shines in my sand...
Anyway I think I already told the story about the girl that grabbed my arm and wouldn't let go all night. That was pretty miserable. My arm was all sweaty and hot and like her fingers left impressions, I could see them in a mirror, and it was hot out anyway and her face would be right there every time I turned around. It was awful. I mean, I smelled her all night. It's not that she smelled bad or anything,it's just I would have liked to smell something else now and then. Anyhow, on another date there was a girl that ended every sentence with a question? Do you know what i"m talking about? Stuff that wasn't a question? She'd say "so where do you want to go eat?" That's not a good example. You know what I mean though?
M
There was the guy who took me to a beach by the river late at night and made me stay in the car while he took a sword and went to fight demons.
There was the guy who took me to Olive Garden, flirted with the waitress, insulted my hair, spilled his drink and then yelled at me for it, and then made me pay for both of us.
And there was the guy who asked me to go to his friend's Halloween party with him, but failed to mention it was in a different town (actually a few miles outside of a different town), and also failed to mention that he was very drunk when he picked me up, a fact I didn't find out until we were going 100 mph down the highway in the dark. Once at the so-called party (which was actually just a handful of older people getting high), he kept trying to get me into a bedroom. I was pretty freaked out already, just having been certain he was going to kill us both on the road, and all I wanted was to go home, but I had nobody I knew and no phone, and he was in no mood to drive back...not that I particularly wanted to ride home with him. I ended up sitting outside alone for hours, until he finally came out and said he'd take me home. He had been drinking more, and I wish I'd had the brains at the time to find my way down the road for help. But! I appear to have lived, and he was just as unimpressed by me as I was by him, so he didn't call me again.
There was the guy who took me to Olive Garden, flirted with the waitress, insulted my hair, spilled his drink and then yelled at me for it, and then made me pay for both of us.
And there was the guy who asked me to go to his friend's Halloween party with him, but failed to mention it was in a different town (actually a few miles outside of a different town), and also failed to mention that he was very drunk when he picked me up, a fact I didn't find out until we were going 100 mph down the highway in the dark. Once at the so-called party (which was actually just a handful of older people getting high), he kept trying to get me into a bedroom. I was pretty freaked out already, just having been certain he was going to kill us both on the road, and all I wanted was to go home, but I had nobody I knew and no phone, and he was in no mood to drive back...not that I particularly wanted to ride home with him. I ended up sitting outside alone for hours, until he finally came out and said he'd take me home. He had been drinking more, and I wish I'd had the brains at the time to find my way down the road for help. But! I appear to have lived, and he was just as unimpressed by me as I was by him, so he didn't call me again.