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melita916

melita916

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Brother slave's post gave great advice!
 
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VioletReigns

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Mitspa said:
1Ti 2:12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
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Don't you find it odd that you are emphasizing that Eve was deceived... and yet Jesus Christ reminds us that it was because of Adam the whole world fell? Are you not doing exactly what Adam did by blaming the woman as well as blaming God for creating the woman?
 
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Mitspa

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VioletReigns said:
Don't you find it odd that you are emphasizing that Eve was deceived... and yet Jesus Christ reminds us that it was because of Adam the whole world fell? Are you not doing exactly what Adam did by blaming the woman as well as blaming God for creating the woman?
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You know I did not write that Violet ..lol God had it written :p
 
Stephen63

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Uuuummmm........ if the 2 religions are "compatible"? I would be researching them for biblical correctness.

If she chooses to marry him on the basis of compatibility only, this could lead to idolatry, choosing him over God. This has happened millions of times, 'cuz the REAL truth is the woman does everything in her power to justify they're compatible.

Since she claims him to be perfect, I guess we have our answer.:rolleyes:
 
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Mitspa

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VioletReigns said:
You didn't answer my question. :rolleyes:
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Ok :) ...no im not blaming the woman anymore than Paul was when the Holy Spirit had him to write this ...

The point being that the scriptures establish that God desires that we honor His order in a godly relationship especially in spiritual matters. Do you think God or Paul was confused when this was written?
 
Jenizona

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Lion94 said:
But if it comes down to the fact that I don't feel comfortable to be baptised into another church or I feel God leading me a different way then I feel as if there is no other option but to break up which would be a real shame.
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Yes... it would be a shame, Lion, but there may be something AMAZING for you out there, that you can't even see yet, because you're not through this particular issue yet. And it sounds as if you've answered your own question.

If it seems as if a break-up is imminent... my advice is to do this rather soon, rather than waiting. Have enough respect for the both of you to not take another minute in a relationship that is not headed for permanence.
 
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Mitspa said:
Ok :) ...no im not blaming the woman anymore than Paul was when the Holy Spirit had him to write this ...

The point being that the scriptures establish that God desires that we honor His order in a godly relationship especially in spiritual matters. Do you think God or Paul was confused when this was written?
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I'll answer your question when I witness you humbly submissive to Christ Jesus as Paul was. For now, I won't answer you according to your folly. You're not in the mindset to receive instruction from Paul, let alone dole out what you think he said. Also, I don't believe Paul flirted with women.
 
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Mitspa

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Yea...break-up with a godly and good man because he really believes what he really believes and what God clearly teaches.... this is why our society is in such a mess :(
 
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Mitspa

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VioletReigns said:
I'll answer your question when I witness you humbly submissive to Christ Jesus as Paul was. For now, I won't answer you according to your folly. You're not in the mindset to receive instruction from Paul, let alone dole out what you think he said. Also, I don't believe Paul flirted with women.
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Oh ..so now I have become ungodly to you..because I believe the bible? Its sad that even you Violet, play this game.

And I think you may learn more about my submission to Christ and His truth by my refusal to be moved from the truth... It might take you while to see what a godly man is because of your own rebellion, but in the end you will know that today you have met one. :)
 
Jenizona

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Mitspa said:
Oh ..so now I have become ungodly to you..because I believe the bible? Its sad that even you Violet, play this game.

And I think you may learn more about my submission to Christ and His truth by my refusal to be moved from the truth... It might take you while to see what a godly man is because of your own rebellion, but in the end you will know that today you have met one. :)
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You know... this trolling is actually getting painful for me. Maybe I've lost my sense of humor.
 
Jenizona

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Mitspa said:
Yea...break-up with a godly and good man because he really believes what he really believes and what God clearly teaches.... this is why our society is in such a mess :(
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If he's godly, he won't care. So quit whining about it.
 
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Mitspa

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Jenizona said:
You know... this trolling is actually getting painful for me. Maybe I've lost my sense of humor.
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Stop doing it and youll feel better :) very simple
 
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Mitspa

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Jenizona said:
If he's godly, he won't care. So quit whining about it.
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No your right, he will move on and this poor lady can marry some ungodly jerk that will make her unhappy...good work :)
 
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VioletReigns

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Mitspa said:
Oh ..so now I have become ungodly to you..because I believe the bible? Its sad that even you Violet, play this game.

And I think you may learn more about my submission to Christ and His truth by my refusal to be moved from the truth... It might take you while to see what a godly man is because of your own rebellion, but in the end you will know that today you have met one. :)
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The man doth protest too much. :rolleyes:

My husband was a very godly man and went home with the Lord. My two sons are godly men. My father was a godly man. My 5 brothers are godly men. My daughter's husband is a godly man. My friends include godly men. I'm surrounded by godly men, praise Jesus! And guess what? Not one of them found it necessary to make a noisy proclamation about it because they are living examples. :)
 
Jenizona

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Mitspa said:
Stop doing it and youll feel better :) very simple
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I meant your trolling, Mitspa... because it's hard to understand if you're serious about this stuff or not. I'm going to assume you are, unless you state otherwise.
 
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Mitspa

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VioletReigns said:
The man doth protest too much. :rolleyes:

My husband was a very godly man and went home with the Lord. My two sons are godly men. My father was a godly man. My 5 brothers are godly men. My daughter's husband is a godly man. My friends include godly men. I'm surrounded by godly men, praise Jesus! And guess what? Not one of them found it necessary to make a noisy proclamation about it because they are living examples. :)
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Well im not sure how I can show you my life...but I promise you if you know God as I believe you do :) He will supply you with His approval of me in a way that might surprise you ... I suggest you pray about it :)
 
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Mitspa

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Jenizona said:
I meant your trolling, Mitspa... because it's hard to understand if you're serious about this stuff or not. I'm going to assume you are, unless you state otherwise.
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Look Jenizona...I am well established on this forum...im not a troll. I have clear and biblical positions that I defend and promote and I try to do that while having a sense of humor. I hope you come to love me as much as Violent does :)
 
Jenizona

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Mitspa said:
Look Jenizona...I am well established on this forum...im not a troll. I have clear and biblical positions that I defend and promote and I try to do that while having a sense of humor. I hope you come to love me as much as Violent does :)
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Lol okay, so you weren't trolling...thanks for clarifying. :)
 
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VioletReigns

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Well Sister Lion, I think we all have learned a very valuable lesson today. \:D/ Trust in the LORD with all your heart, do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge HIM and HE will direct your path. Glory to God!

And I'm outta here............. :eek:

 
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