Happy people are more attractive

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Mitspa

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I don't think any of the people you just called miserable are ever as callous towards others as this single post was.

Why do you constantly provoke people? You know what type of response is going to follow certain things you say and certain attitudes you present. And it's completely fair for the folks you take jabs at to defend or explain themselves. But when they do, you act like they're being unreasonable or mean...so honestly, what's your goal here? Just to stir the pot so you can then act like a victim? For sympathy? Or for your own entertainment? A lot of people have extended a lot of grace towards you, yet you just keep swinging at them and throwing it back in their faces.

How exhausting it must be to always be looking for a fight.
Do you serve others...or just look for fights on the internet>?
 

jsr1221

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Look Jsr...some folks on this forum are always negative and bitter...and it seems many of them like to chat the singles area...even if they was drop-dead gorgeous no one would want them because of their horrible attitudes.
I completely agree with you, Mitspa. Some people are completely miserable no matter what. My step dad is one of those people.. I was just meaning we shouldn't have a judgement on someone all based on a few minute exchange. You can't get anything out of that. The person may had been having a bad day. We won't know unless we reach out to them, even if it takes more than once. That is what I referencing. I hope that makes sense.
 
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MissCris

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Do you serve others...or just look for fights on the internet>?
Me? I'm just a big internet bully looking for as many fights as I can get into. Ask anyone here- I'm always arguing and being a big ol' jerk to everyone. I do nothing that serves anyone but me, and I like to pick on the underdogs.








....seriously, I feel very sad for you.
 
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Mitspa

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There was no issue on this thread...nobody had to read it or partake in it until the few folks that post on it was attacked.. go back to your "poor me" threads and your "I hate men" threads and leave this one alone :) God Bless lol
 

seoulsearch

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Do you serve others...or just look for fights on the internet>?
MissCris, of all people, definitely is not someone who tries to cause trouble here.

Her humorous, well-written posts and willingness to share stories about parenthood, marriage, and in-laws are often a relief to my daily stresses.

I'm just saying... Cristen is a really good person. And she serves my life and my heart just by being here, as do many others.
 
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Mitspa

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Me? I'm just a big internet bully looking for as many fights as I can get into. Ask anyone here- I'm always arguing and being a big ol' jerk to everyone. I do nothing that serves anyone but me, and I like to pick on the underdogs.








....seriously, I feel very sad for you.
Good...now go help the poor :)
 

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That awkward moment when an originally innocent thread in the most laid back forum turns into something the Bible Forum created...
 
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Mitspa

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MissCris, of all people, definitely is not someone who tries to cause trouble here.

Her humorous, well-written posts and willingness to share stories about parenthood, marriage, and in-laws are often a relief to my daily stresses.

I'm just saying... Cristen is a really good person. And she serves my life and my heart just by being here, as do many others.
I know you guys think each other are great and like to beat folks up together on here...so forgive me if im not impressed
 
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Mitspa

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That awkward moment when ian originally innocent thread in the most laid back forum turns into something the Bible Forum created...
This was a nice, funny thread until the "poor me" folks started attacking others... for being too happy!!! and folks claim to be Christians here...its amazing ???
 
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PeacefulWarrior

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That awkward moment when ian originally innocent thread in the most laid back forum turns into something the Bible Forum created...
;) I'll stay out of it. Was trying to lighten the mood a bit... Back to BDF for me!

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VioletReigns

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As my teacher in elementary school used to say, "If you can't say something nice about somebody, don't say anything at all." :)



Look, condemning people and making them feel guilty for being happy is absurd. There's nothing wrong with being joyful. There's nothing wrong with celebrating and fellowship and sharing fun times. Jesus and his followers did when they went to the wedding in Cana.

If you think you have a better concept of encouraging others, please feel free to start your own thread. You don't have to ridicule Mitspa for starting his own thread for fun and fellowship. You did notice that it's under Christian Singles Forum, not Prayer Requests, didn't you?? :confused:

In fact, that's the whole idea of this free site with its many forum subjects : YOU CAN START YOUR OWN THREAD. :eek:
 
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Mitspa

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[video=youtube;lHcEWhbQkEg]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lHcEWhbQkEg[/video]
 

seoulsearch

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I'm certainly not condemning anyone for being happy, and that was never my intention. Maybe I come across as a Doom'n'Gloom kind of person but I actually have many very happy moments in life myself, such as some family time over the next few days. :)

I just had a slightly different take on the subject is all, as every thread will have differing opinions. (And, I did start a few of my own threads as well, but not because of this one--my topics were completely unrelated to this and just my own interests.)
 
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MissCris

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Good...now go help the poor :)

Last post here...and then I'll go beat my head on the wall for a while before continuing on with life.

You sure do act like a real jerk sometimes. I hope you find a cure for that. I don't know if it's possible to call someone a jerk and then go pray for them. I'm about to find out.

Kudos to you for being able to make me angry...it doesn't happen a lot.

Oh, and... :)
 

jsr1221

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My point was we shouldn't judge someone as unattractive on the inside all because they don't look happy.. When we may not even reach out in the first place to see why they are unhappy. That was my point. For us to not be of this world, we certainly have a habit of falling into worldly things like categorizing people as attractive and unattractive. That is, was, and will be my final point. Exit, stage left for me, now.
 
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Mitspa

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Last post here...and then I'll go beat my head on the wall for a while before continuing on with life.

You sure do act like a real jerk sometimes. I hope you find a cure for that. I don't know if it's possible to call someone a jerk and then go pray for them. I'm about to find out.

Kudos to you for being able to make me angry...it doesn't happen a lot.

Oh, and... :)
lol

Ask God if im right while your at it? Your might be surprised what you hear :)
 
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VioletReigns

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Wow. That escalated quickly. Man, if that wasn't a spiritual attack on us as a whole body of Christ I don't know what is.

Seriously, this ain't a battle against flesh and blood brothers & sisters, but against principalities, powers & spiritual wickedness in high places. FOR REALS! Please let's not fight amongst ourselves. I beg you.
 
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Mitspa

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My point was we shouldn't judge someone as unattractive on the inside all because they don't look happy.. When we may not even reach out in the first place to see why they are unhappy. That was my point. For us to not be of this world, we certainly have a habit of falling into worldly things like categorizing as attractive and unattractive. That is, was, and will by final point. Exit, stage left for me, now.
Well nobody is saying make a snap judgment of anyone...but happy and joyful people have a beauty that goes beyond physical appearance ...that was the whole point of the thread...so why would you say don't judge based on appearance?
 

jsr1221

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Well nobody is saying make a snap judgment of anyone...but happy and joyful people have a beauty that goes beyond physical appearance ...that was the whole point of the thread...so why would you say don't judge based on appearance?
Well first and foremost, because God tells us not to search others based on appearance.