That is true, I know I'm naturally assertive, and my husband isn't. Maybe it's just that he changes his mind so easily that it catches me off guard, and makes me feel like I pushed too hard. I know for a fact, all I did was come up with good reasons why we should move to Wyoming, and then one night he just up and said we'll move when my current job is finished.There's a fine line between being manipulative and being assertive.![]()
I'm flabbergasted... Pleased, but flabbergasted.
I asked him if he felt like I was the reason he decided that, or if he felt like I pushed him into making that decision, and he started a long lecture on how he just changes his mind easily, my reasons were perfectly valid, and he wanted to move anyway.
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