Halloween and The Christian

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Nov 30, 2013
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I grew up in the 60s in a Christian home. Every year on October 31, my brothers and I dressed up for Halloween and went trick or treating. We never thought of any connection with Satan or worshiping the dead with this annual holiday. I think my parents simply wanted us to have a little fun. Perhaps the greatest damage of our lives came from all the junk food and candy we collected from neighbors.

But as time passed and I was married and began a family of my own, I started to wonder about the growing "evil" I saw in this event. A couple years ago I stopped by a store dedicated to selling stuff for Halloween in order to pick up a three cornered hat (I was going to use it at a church social, where I was asked to read "The Midnight Ride of Paul Revere"). When I walked through the Halloween store, it was creepy! Nothing around me was pure, lovely, noble, or praiseworthy. (See Philippians 4:8).

Then I began to read about the origins of Halloween. It really made me stop in my tracks and ask, "What is a Christian to do?" Should we close our doors and shut off our porch light and ignore what is happening in our neighborhood? Is it appropriate to offer an alternative at church (like some sort of harvest festival or social night)? Perhaps we should open our doors and give them something healthy. (instead of candy) and Christian literature. How can a Christian be in the world and not of the world on October 31?

Here are 5 guidelines that can help you through this holiday:

Follow the Bible: Teach your children plainly and clearly that the Bible does not support worshiping or honoring dead people. Whether the roots of Halloween come from the Samhain pagan beliefs in having a feast for the dead or an attempt by the Christian church to honor dead saints or praying for dead people who have not quiet made it to heaven, the Bible is clear that the dead are truly dead. (See Isaiah 8:19, 20). No Christian can honestly celebrate Halloween.

Share your faith whenever possible. Jesus encouraged his disciple to "be in" the world but "not of" the world. (John 17:15, 16). That is not always easy. Many Christians feel compelled to share their faith with neighbors at Halloween. Instead of ignoring when children happen to come to their homes, they open their doors to share something appropriate to guide them toward Jesus and the Bible. Instead of candy, one family gives miniature pumpkins along with an informative pamphlet.

Draw clear boundaries. Decide, based on Scripture what you decide to do on Halloween. Pray and study earnestly and follow the convictions of the Holy Spirit Some things at Halloween are obviously things a Christian will not participate in: watching horror movies, eating lots of junk food, playing pranks that hurt people, telling scary stories, or visiting so called hunted attractions.

Provide appropriate alternatives. When our children were little, our church attempted to guide people away from traditional Halloween activities to something better. Children came to a social at church and learned about animals and listened to an interactive talk on Noah and the ark. Even non-Sabbath keeping parents were thankful to have an option for their kids who wanted to go out and collect candy or dress up in scary costumes or attend public school events.

Refrain from a judgmental spirit. Perhaps your fellow Christians are working through how to handle Halloween m
aybe they are not as clear or convicted as you are about what to do--especially those with children. Approaching them with a angry or critical spirit will not help them. Instead of condemning parents, why not invite a few families into your home for a short, age appropriate Bible study, refreshments, and family building games. Make it a time of worship and fellowship with the emphasis that as Christians, we only thing we "hallow" is the name of our Heavenly Father to whom Jesus taught us when we pray to say, "Hallow be Your name." Matthew 6:9.

Halloween is obviously not a holiday Christians should celebrate. Yet some good-hearted Christians believe it can be an opportunity to teach others about what truly happens when people die. However you chose to tackle this dubious holiday in your home, why not make sure that in the least, you spend time sharing your faith, worshiping the Living God with your family or participating in community-building fellowship with your church. It is possible with God's help, to turn something meant for evil into something to point others to the truth about life, death, and the Heavenly Father.


By Curtis R.
Amazing Facts Staff Writer
 

Blain

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This debate happens every year and it never is settled. But if in fact as a Christian we are to be in the world but not of the world then we can go ahead and kill all b day celebrations every holiday that is known to man that wasn't from the bible as all these things do not point to Jesus or God. Christmas and easter originated to be for God but now both those are no longer to honor God they are about the easter bunny candy santa presents and egg hunting.
 
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A three cornered hat is called a Tri-Cornered Hat to be precise. :D
 

Yonah

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This "debate" has been settled and in fact never was a debate but rather a choice, so do we choose to follow what our Savior taught us his word: Mat 5:48
Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect. that word perfect means mature and complete not infallible, a simple word study will show you this, now in order to be Mature we should be growing in knowledge and desiring to eliminate anything in our lives and manner of living that is in anyway displeasing to Him who gave everything so we could live, seems to me that instead of making excuses to continue practicing things that are obviously displeasing to Him, we would be glad to be informed and educated in these matters, in my opinion anyone who claims to be a born again Christian, yet continues doing things that have any chance whatsoever of incurring his displeasure, should seriously reconsider their relationship with our Savior, why chance a compromise in something so important?

 
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I no longer part take in Halloween because I now see things for what they are, just as the OP describes. I don't engage in conversation with others about it unless I'm asked.
 

crossnote

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I no longer part take in Halloween because I now see things for what they are, just as the OP describes. I don't engage in conversation with others about it unless I'm asked.
Hey Utah, do you go trick or treating in that funny tiger outfit? :confused:
 

breno785au

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I hate halloween. Mainly because its permeating our culture and become more and more pushed on our kids so these big companies can make even more money. And also because it makes children go around looking like death warmed up. Our children will not be participating.
 
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Very few people in Britain celebrated Halloween until about twenty years ago when Greedy retailers saw another way to grab
more cash from gullible shoppers. We now have confusing displays in our stores of Santa Clues and Snowmen jostling with Ghosts and witches at every turn.
 

breno785au

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Very few people in Britain celebrated Halloween until about twenty years ago when Greedy retailers saw another way to grab
more cash from gullible shoppers. We now have confusing displays in our stores of Santa Clues and Snowmen jostling with Ghosts and witches at every turn.
lol hey thats true, they have xmas stuff up right next to ghosts and zombies!
 
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"Let's only do what is in the bible. God did not give us a mind for discerning or for creating. We should not be on the computer or discovering new things in science because they do not exist in the bible."

God gave us the wisdom to know the difference between good and evil. If we see something that is evil we should avoid it and keep our families safe from harm.

God does not change, but man can bring about changes. Man did not have as many tools during the time of the bible as they do now. Imagine having to live in a cave or a hut or an adobe brick house without any ac or heat and not living in a modern house created by "man" because it "did not exist in the bible."

There will always be new things invented or created by man with talents given by God. A tool or thing can be used for good or evil. It is up to us to use what God has given us or has allowed us to create for the good of God and for man.

We can go back to living the way they did in the bible or because of the talents that God has given us we can create new things and new ideas.

I guess if we had to "throw" everything away that is not in the bible we would have to give up the train, plane and automobile. There will be no more music on the radio. No more modern day stores or hospitals with life saving equipment etc. There will be no more tv or movies that can also show Christian programming.

Not everything that man creates has to be evil. Things of the world created by man can also be used for good. Pray that God shows us the right way and to keep us from doing things the wrong or evil way, amen.
 
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Kefa54

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No Halloween or Christmas in our house. Harvest festival and Celebrating the birth of Christ with modest gifts.

Kefa
 

Blain

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Personally I don't really care much about halloween I am to old to go trick or treating and I can't have candy in the first place plus adults who aren't giving out candy just go to halloween parties and get drunk- no thanks. However I don't judge a person if they celebrate halloween and I certainly don't assume their relationship with God has anything to do with it.

I am not unaware that it is certainly not considered a holy day considering all sorts of ritual with blood sacrifices are done specifically on halloween.
 

KohenMatt

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Our kids have never done halloween, and never will. Our church will be spending all of Saturday hanging out in our church in worship and fellowship.

All throughout Scripture, Old and New, there are constant instructions to not have anything to do with other gods and death and evil. Yet many people think it's OK to do so at Haloween because they think it's "innocent" and "not about those roots anymore" or "fun for the kids." But really it's about syncretism, trying to mesh our faith with pagan traditions. And while there is a noble effort by some to use haloween as an evangelical tool or a "chance to share the gospel," it more often than not consists of still celebrating these traditions with the hopes of leading people to God.

If I were an unbeliever, I would be leary of a Christian who tries to share how great and fulfilling their relationship with God was, while still letting their kids run around with all of the pictures of evil, death and such.
 
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ember

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As a child I enjoyed parading around in a costume and I took my younger brother on the rounds and shared his loot (that was the price for me taking him lol!...not half though)

When I was a teenager, we had a party at church which I attended

I think it could be a good idea to share the gospel in church perhaps...my husband mentionned that his kids dressed as Bible figures for the party at church...also a good idea I think

I know some folks hand out tracks along with candy...it's hard to turn a child away

I think we should calm down and see how God can use even this backwards celebration of death for new life and who knows?

He is a great God and the only God....he can take any opportunity

I have met actual practicing witches and yes, had spells cast on me...the blood of Jesus overcomes...it's spiritual warfare...it's easy to say don't this or don't that, but then, don't you think we need to ask what we should actually do if we should not do this or that?

just my 2.5 cents worth
 
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JeniBean

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Every Christian church in our town does a trunk or treat...harvest celebration..etc. Allowing Christians and those curious about Christianity to see that it's a family loving gathering in a safe environment with plenty of Christian activities...candy...all with bible verses on...Christian goodies and games. It is a great out reach. If we as Christians cannot take an opportunity to reach nonbelievers and simply stay silent or turn or porch light offs. What good does that do? Pretty sure silence has never led any one to our savior!
 
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kaylagrl

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I grew up in the 60s in a Christian home. Every year on October 31, my brothers and I dressed up for Halloween and went trick or treating. We never thought of any connection with Satan or worshiping the dead with this annual holiday. I think my parents simply wanted us to have a little fun. Perhaps the greatest damage of our lives came from all the junk food and candy we collected from neighbors.

But as time passed and I was married and began a family of my own, I started to wonder about the growing "evil" I saw in this event. A couple years ago I stopped by a store dedicated to selling stuff for Halloween in order to pick up a three cornered hat (I was going to use it at a church social, where I was asked to read "The Midnight Ride of Paul Revere"). When I walked through the Halloween store, it was creepy! Nothing around me was pure, lovely, noble, or praiseworthy. (See Philippians 4:8).

Then I began to read about the origins of Halloween. It really made me stop in my tracks and ask, "What is a Christian to do?" Should we close our doors and shut off our porch light and ignore what is happening in our neighborhood? Is it appropriate to offer an alternative at church (like some sort of harvest festival or social night)? Perhaps we should open our doors and give them something healthy. (instead of candy) and Christian literature. How can a Christian be in the world and not of the world on October 31?

Here are 5 guidelines that can help you through this holiday:

Follow the Bible: Teach your children plainly and clearly that the Bible does not support worshiping or honoring dead people. Whether the roots of Halloween come from the Samhain pagan beliefs in having a feast for the dead or an attempt by the Christian church to honor dead saints or praying for dead people who have not quiet made it to heaven, the Bible is clear that the dead are truly dead. (See Isaiah 8:19, 20). No Christian can honestly celebrate Halloween.

Share your faith whenever possible. Jesus encouraged his disciple to "be in" the world but "not of" the world. (John 17:15, 16). That is not always easy. Many Christians feel compelled to share their faith with neighbors at Halloween. Instead of ignoring when children happen to come to their homes, they open their doors to share something appropriate to guide them toward Jesus and the Bible. Instead of candy, one family gives miniature pumpkins along with an informative pamphlet.

Draw clear boundaries. Decide, based on Scripture what you decide to do on Halloween. Pray and study earnestly and follow the convictions of the Holy Spirit Some things at Halloween are obviously things a Christian will not participate in: watching horror movies, eating lots of junk food, playing pranks that hurt people, telling scary stories, or visiting so called hunted attractions.

Provide appropriate alternatives. When our children were little, our church attempted to guide people away from traditional Halloween activities to something better. Children came to a social at church and learned about animals and listened to an interactive talk on Noah and the ark. Even non-Sabbath keeping parents were thankful to have an option for their kids who wanted to go out and collect candy or dress up in scary costumes or attend public school events.

Refrain from a judgmental spirit. Perhaps your fellow Christians are working through how to handle Halloween m
aybe they are not as clear or convicted as you are about what to do--especially those with children. Approaching them with a angry or critical spirit will not help them. Instead of condemning parents, why not invite a few families into your home for a short, age appropriate Bible study, refreshments, and family building games. Make it a time of worship and fellowship with the emphasis that as Christians, we only thing we "hallow" is the name of our Heavenly Father to whom Jesus taught us when we pray to say, "Hallow be Your name." Matthew 6:9.

Halloween is obviously not a holiday Christians should celebrate. Yet some good-hearted Christians believe it can be an opportunity to teach others about what truly happens when people die. However you chose to tackle this dubious holiday in your home, why not make sure that in the least, you spend time sharing your faith, worshiping the Living God with your family or participating in community-building fellowship with your church. It is possible with God's help, to turn something meant for evil into something to point others to the truth about life, death, and the Heavenly Father.


By Curtis R.
Amazing Facts Staff Writer

I agree with most of what you said. Most churches have alternatives for kids to go to which to me is a great compromise. But you said ....
"Instead of ignoring when children happen to come to their homes, they open their doors to share something appropriate to guide them toward Jesus and the Bible. Instead of candy, one family gives miniature pumpkins along with an informative pamphlet."

This is a really bad idea.It comes off as cheap and preachy. Kids love candy.To simply hand them something that preaches at them and send them on their way is obnoxious. Better to turn out the light and not celebrate it at all.If you want to share your faith at least give the kids candy. Otherwise its just a nasty trick in their eyes.
 
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wwjd_kilden

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Doesn't have a long tradition in Norway either

as for the origins, (Then I began to read about the origins of Halloween. ), it is actually originally Christian as far as I know
 
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As a counterbalance to all the doom and gloom, let me say, I too am too old for Halloween. I never had any kids, but I have my stuffed animals to dress up, and I don't dress them up in "evil death and such." (No, I don't take them out for the candy. lol)

Here's one of their pictures, and since it's hard to tell how they're dressed up, I'll explain it.

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Three dressed up as The Great Pumpkin, (and one real pumpkin), four dressed up in their favorite football team outfits, (The Philadelphia Eagles), one is Caspar the Friendly Ghost, one is a green boot/Christmas slipper, and a stuffed dog is playing a teddy bear.

The closest we ever got for becoming "evil" was dressing up like a hobo when we were reaching that age of "this is the last year." I remember being Rin Tin Tin and a clown. One year my brother found out wearing boxes wrapped up in tinfoil to be a robot made it hard for him to walk. And, yes, we were out to get the candy, but we were only allowed at houses of people we knew. Not a big deal. We knew everyone in the neighborhood. lol

This is the thing to be fearful of? Then God has been very graceful to you.
 
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kaylagrl

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As a counterbalance to all the doom and gloom, let me say, I too am too old for Halloween. I never had any kids, but I have my stuffed animals to dress up, and I don't dress them up in "evil death and such." (No, I don't take them out for the candy. lol)

Here's one of their pictures, and since it's hard to tell how they're dressed up, I'll explain it.

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Three dressed up as The Great Pumpkin, (and one real pumpkin), four dressed up in their favorite football team outfits, (The Philadelphia Eagles), one is Caspar the Friendly Ghost, one is a green boot/Christmas slipper, and a stuffed dog is playing a teddy bear.

The closest we ever got for becoming "evil" was dressing up like a hobo when we were reaching that age of "this is the last year." I remember being Rin Tin Tin and a clown. One year my brother found out wearing boxes wrapped up in tinfoil to be a robot made it hard for him to walk. And, yes, we were out to get the candy, but we were only allowed at houses of people we knew. Not a big deal. We knew everyone in the neighborhood. lol

This is the thing to be fearful of? Then God has been very graceful to you.

You are such a sinner!! Shaking my head at you right now. tsk tsk.:p
 
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JeniBean

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I am sitting in a car with my youngest. I asked what does Halloween celebrate. Response "Its a holiday about the devil. But we don't celebrate the devil. We go to church and have fun dressed up like fun characters. Its like when you explain to me that Captain America isn't real and the movies are fun, but that he can't come save us." I laughed and said that is right...who can save you? "God!" reason I share this is that as a solo parent it is my responsibility to teach right from wrong...etc. To shut your doors, your hearts, etc. You may be missing a chance to let a child know. Dress as Joseph and answer your door. Give candy with a verse on or your church info. So many opportunities that society gives us to share our faith. Use this one as a learning experience for the kids and sharing faith. And before I get PM if my kids believe in Easter Bunny or Santa. NO! I wasn't raised that way and I did not raise mine that way.