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tenderhearted

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imysm1207 said:
I'm a young widow (28y/o). Hubby died 3months ago but I'm still suffering from loneliness until now. I need some Christian friends to talk to. Someone who can encourage me that's why I decided to join into this forum. There are certain emotions and thoughts I can't say on the people surrounding me so I need a place where I can vent out my emotions. Someone who don't judge me nor what I feel simply because they don't know me personally.

Thanks! Godbless us all.
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Hello, nice to meet you. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. Just from reading your comments you seem to have a good perspective on all of this. The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and He takes care of the widows. He will give you the grace and strength to care for your children. You are never alone. I will pray for you and your children. If you ever need some encouragement feel free to pm me. :)
 
Joidevivre

Joidevivre

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I pray for you - I know this is something that feels like you have just dropped in quicksand. This place is good for talking about your feelings and hearing words of encouragement - but emotions and feelings really need to come out of your mouth. Find a friend who will weep with you - and hear you talk about your loss.

I had a long marriage and lost my husband last month. When I'm alone with my thoughts, I feel mostly numb and empty. Yet the minute I begin to speak aloud my feelings to somebody, the tears begin to flow. And I know those tears need to come out.
Healing comes with tears and feeling all the feelings.
 
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tenderhearted

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Joidevivre said:
I pray for you - I know this is something that feels like you have just dropped in quicksand. This place is good for talking about your feelings and hearing words of encouragement - but emotions and feelings really need to come out of your mouth. Find a friend who will weep with you - and hear you talk about your loss.

I had a long marriage and lost my husband last month. When I'm alone with my thoughts, I feel mostly numb and empty. Yet the minute I begin to speak aloud my feelings to somebody, the tears begin to flow. And I know those tears need to come out.
Healing comes with tears and feeling all the feelings.
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I'm so sorry to hear that you also lost your husband and just last month. I'm praying for you too. You have much wisdom and are a blessing to many. :)
 
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MattsMom

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Hi imysm. I am so sorry to hear about your struggles, after the passing of your husband. You sure do have a lot on your plate. Please feel free to message me any time. I am a new member as well. Married, 56 yrs old.
 
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imysm1207

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tenderhearted said:
Hello, nice to meet you. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. Just from reading your comments you seem to have a good perspective on all of this. The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and He takes care of the widows. He will give you the grace and strength to care for your children. You are never alone. I will pray for you and your children. If you ever need some encouragement feel free to pm me. :)
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Thank you for the prayers. It's actually easier said than done. I'm still having a hard time coping uP.
 
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fakefemale

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imysm1207 said:
I'm a young widow (28y/o). Hubby died 3months ago but I'm still suffering from loneliness until now. I need some Christian friends to talk to. Someone who can encourage me that's why I decided to join into this forum. There are certain emotions and thoughts I can't say on the people surrounding me so I need a place where I can vent out my emotions. Someone who don't judge me nor what I feel simply because they don't know me personally.

Thanks! Godbless us all.
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You poor thing, I feel terrible that you are lonely.
 
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bronzedoll

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I'll be your friend. I'm so sorry for you loss. I'm a single mother and though we may have have the exact same situation, we both have hurt going on and it is good to have friends to talk to in moments like this. <3 God bless
 
lilichristian

lilichristian

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May the peace of God comes to you, Sister!

Know that you may have negative thoughts and emotions especially when you're alone.

Suggest you to find companions and always join others in a group, at least in a pair.

God bless.
 
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