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Boerseun

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Hay I'm Single but lonly eny advise
 
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Richie_2uk

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Boerseun said:
Hay I'm Single but lonly eny advise
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Yes, before you get bombarded with messages from people, Just know beforehand that this is not a dating website. Though I do believe that God can bring people together on a site like this, But the site is mainly for chatting and sharing what God is doing in there lives. I hope you enjoy it here on CC. and hope you make some friends. But before anyone else tells you, I would like to be the first to let you know that this is not a dating site to promote yourself being single and looking for a partner. This site is not used for those reasons.

God bless and hope you enjoy this site.
 
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Boerseun

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Thanks for the heads up but I didn't send the message in that sence just want Godly advice on dating and friend to seport me with scripture and Godly friendship love
 
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cinder

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Then it sounds like you've come to the right place. Welcome to CC singles, where we can all be single together. As far as the loneliness goes, finding ways to interact with other people helps, whether that is through church functions, the internet, or just and interest group or class or something. And often I resort to doing something or finding a personal project to attack just to be doing something besides sitting around thinking about how lonely I am. Speaking of which, I need to get back to my book. But definitely welcome and hope to see you around in all our crazy discussions (as well as the occasional serious one).
 
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My advice is to stop worrying and enjoy it. You have a lot more freedom this way. Have some fun, do the things that suit you, without having to worry about taking care of a family.
 
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Stargazer968

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Hey, I do understand., God wants us to depend on him for everything. Put God first... Keep persistent in prayer. One thing that helped me was getting involved in our church small groups. I also joined a meet up group for biking which is one of my interests. Did not do it for matchmaking.. Rather to be involved and not get bogged down by those lonely times.
 
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JonahLynx

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Volunteer, get involved with the community, do what you love!
 
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Little_Woman

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When we're with Christ,
spiritually we're not single anymore!
We're in relationship with Him(Jesus)!​
 
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setapartgirl

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Blain said:
I have a friend who is all about proper grammar he earned the nickname Grammar Nazi which I have thought about making a group here in cc called that for all of the grammar ppl here in cc but I feared ppl wouldn't like it
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Oh..i'm always...conscious with my grammar, spelling etc. But hey english is not my mother tongue but i will join in your club!! )lol
 
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setapartgirl

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Boerseun said:
Hay I'm Single but lonly eny advise
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I can feel you...it gets lonely sometimes... but enjoy your singleness first.

Appreciate that no one is stopping you to go and do things you want to do.
You can go anywhere..anytime and no one will tell you "hey! You didn't informed me..hey you can't go...blah blah... so enjoy it , till you can!
 
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Boerseun

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Thank you all for your advice I will definitly try it but I thing me real ploblem that God reveiled to is I feel emty. I keep investing time and love in others by listining and helping with problems, well God helps them I just speak, and no human is investing in me. My whole life I wanted to help others but newer had someone to help me or listen to me. I think that's my problem

Ooo and sorry for my incorrect grammer my home language is afrikaans.
 
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Luckysmyle

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Boerseun said:
Thank you all for your advice I will definitly try it but I thing me real ploblem that God reveiled to is I feel emty. I keep investing time and love in others by listining and helping with problems, well God helps them I just speak, and no human is investing in me. My whole life I wanted to help others but newer had someone to help me or listen to me. I think that's my problem

Ooo and sorry for my incorrect grammer my home language is afrikaans.
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I've been there, what God revealed to me in that was I needed better friends. A boyfriend is not supposed to be our only relationship in life, and can not be responsible for all of our emotional needs.
 
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Richie_2uk

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Boerseun said:
Thanks for the heads up but I didn't send the message in that sence just want Godly advice on dating and friend to seport me with scripture and Godly friendship love
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No Problem, perhaps you could of asked for that advice to more detail. But you are not alone, God is with you, just let him in to your problem, and he will help with that problem and deal with it with you, God bless
 
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AnneNoel

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Oh my...! Made me lol. :)
 
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