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Bellefemmebeni

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I'm single, Christian on a Christian website so everyone should be mature and respectful right? I don't want to stirrup anything weird. I just like conversation, learning and cheesing is all. Not desperate. In school, work and have 2 kids. No time for game, just plain, simple and innocent fun.
 
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Bellefemmebeni

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Smiling, being happy
 

Blain

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when you say a traditional guy what do you mean? what is traditional in your view?
 

Lynx

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I was wondering the same thing. I consider myself fairly traditional, but to some people I would be a bit radical. It depends on the person beside whom I'm standing.

Can you provide reference points for your definition of traditional? I have no idea if we are even in the same paradigm with this traditional stuff.
 
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I'm too old to be your man, but not too old to pray for you. I pray God will bless you with a good man who loves the Lord, and that together, the two of you will rejoice in the Lord always. :)
 

tourist

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The forums can be fun and amusing at times. Glad to have you join us. Welcome to CC.
 
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Bellefemmebeni

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Utah, you are very kind and kinda made me smile reading your response
Thanks in advance for your prayers.
 
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Bellefemmebeni

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Blaine, in my opinion, traditional means someone who doesn't mind dating the old way. Like really taking the time to get to know some one, someone who opens the doors, hard worker, head of household material, who is a provider and a protector, a leader, God fearing and one who chases God before he chases his woman. Someone who is respectful, who keeps his hands to. Himself, one who doesn't accept sex and hopefully can wait till marriage. That's what I meant.
 
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Bellefemmebeni

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Lynx, I don't have any referral points but being from a whole different culture where marriage rates are pretty high. I ling to find that. My grandparents are in their late 80s they've been to hell and back and are still together. Been together since she was 16, its rare nowadays. I was married and wanted to stay married but he was abusive and I refused to stay. Love should not be so painful
 
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Bellefemmebeni

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Tourist, this is why I am starting to like it here.
 

Blain

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Blaine, in my opinion, traditional means someone who doesn't mind dating the old way. Like really taking the time to get to know some one, someone who opens the doors, hard worker, head of household material, who is a provider and a protector, a leader, God fearing and one who chases God before he chases his woman. Someone who is respectful, who keeps his hands to. Himself, one who doesn't accept sex and hopefully can wait till marriage. That's what I meant.
Oh well I definitely fit that bill 100% but I am taken
 
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Bellefemmebeni

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You're too young anyways lol but thanks tho
Hahahaha happy relationship to you both
 

Blain

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You're too young anyways lol but thanks tho
Hahahaha happy relationship to you both
well I don't know how old you are but age is only a number, I knew a couple who were madly in love the women was 25 and the man was 52, their love was blind to age.

That is something I love to see, two ppl in love with each other regardless of any faults they may have. while the world would look down upon their flaws they are blind to it. True love is not a mushy lovey dovey feeling it is a deep and powerful thing that takes form in both a deep feeling from within and action, and it changes the way we see as well. I don't want to date someone because they are good looking I want to fall in love with the person within and I think this why that couples relationship was so strong
 
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well I don't know how old you are but age is only a number, I knew a couple who were madly in love the women was 25 and the man was 52, their love was blind to age.

That is something I love to see, two ppl in love with each other regardless of any faults they may have. while the world would look down upon their flaws they are blind to it. True love is not a mushy lovey dovey feeling it is a deep and powerful thing that takes form in both a deep feeling from within and action, and it changes the way we see as well. I don't want to date someone because they are good looking I want to fall in love with the person within and I think this why that couples relationship was so strong
Psst, she's 38. :cool:
 

JesusLives

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Mitspa was looking for a traditional woman......I think he is in his 40's. But before someone else tells you this is not really a dating site.... now that is out of the way.

I met my husband on CC and have been married a year....it can happen - I wasn't looking we just became friendly, met and married.....by accident..... because this is not a dating site....not on purpose....
 

Blain

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Mitspa was looking for a traditional woman......I think he is in his 40's. But before someone else tells you this is not really a dating site.... now that is out of the way.

I met my husband on CC and have been married a year....it can happen - I wasn't looking we just became friendly, met and married.....by accident..... because this is not a dating site....not on purpose....
And yet God lead you to true love he lead me to to steph as well:)
 
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Bellefemmebeni

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Blain, don't be so serious. My ex husband was 14.5 yrs older than me it was a joke
 
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Bellefemmebeni

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Jesus loves, I'm glad to hear that. Congratulations. God works in mysterious ways.