You sound like you have pent up frustrations. I spend more time rejoicing in grace because my heart, mind and eyes are focused upon God, while you focus on sin, thereby showing that you focus more on people and less on God.
I focus on all of God's word which means you have to look at both sides...
If you don't look at both sides you are not qualified to handle others when it comes to their sinful ways, as Apostle Paul looked at it from both sides in all of his teachings.
I am frustrated because I am so saddened that my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ think it is acceptable to talk down and belittle others just because of differences.
Then they get upset when their sinful behaviors are pointed out to them and thus start attacking the person as being judgmental and condemning when actually they out of love are trying to help and correct them.
If the Apostle Paul was alive today walking on this earth a number of people on here would call him a heretic and claim him as judgmental as well. Because Paul would point out how we are walking improperly as he did to Peter and the people in the churches in his epistles.
We are called to focus on God and part of that is placed as overseers of the rest of the flock,
Acts 20:28-31 states this !!!
We are not to set back do nothing and let others wollow in their sinful ways.