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I mentioned this five days ago. I kinda didn't want to post a whole new thread. But basically, this girl that I've been talking to invited me to her place for New Year's Eve. Her family is having a party so nothing of that nature. But the thing is I was praying during my lunch hour and asked Him to reveal a sign to me. Later this evening, she texts me. We get to talking and in the middle of the conversation she asks if I wanted to go to her house for New Year's.. I don't really know what to make of this, as I pretty much thought I would stay single. Also in the process of trying to remove everything out of inside me I'm dealing with through Celebrate Recovery. Friend or more than just friends, I really don't want to screw this up with her. So any insight within the next two days would be appreciated.
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Don't overthink it. It sounds like you're overthinking, maybe even stressing yourself out some. I would go so far as to say don't over spiritualize it, too. I was with a girl I thought was presented to me by God, but with the way that whole affair played out, I really don't think so anymore. Lol...
Anyway, don't drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out. Play it by ear.
Anyway, don't drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out. Play it by ear.
Don't overcomplicate it. You are only beginning to talk to her. At this point, just go in with no inhibitions. What's the best thing that could come out of it? You would have met a wonderful girl to share your memories with. What's the worst? You would have at least had something to do in NYE. See how this goes and then react based on it.
Or, as Siberian_Khudzu rightly said, play it by ear.
Or, as Siberian_Khudzu rightly said, play it by ear.
Don't overcomplicate it. You are only beginning to talk to her. At this point, just go in with no inhibitions. What's the best thing that could come out of it? You would have met a wonderful girl to share your memories with. What's the worst? You would have at least had something to do in NYE. See how this goes and then react based on it.
I think it is too soon for him to start playing with her ears. Maybe he should wait until he is sure she likes him?
That's just my opinion...
Anyway, don't drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out. Play it by ear.
That's just my opinion...
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Don't overthink it. It sounds like you're overthinking, maybe even stressing yourself out some. I would go so far as to say don't over spiritualize it, too. I was with a girl I thought was presented to me by God, but with the way that whole affair played out, I really don't think so anymore. Lol...
Anyway, don't drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out. Play it by ear.
Anyway, don't drive yourself nuts trying to figure it out. Play it by ear.
The advice I have; lasting relationships are a marathon not a sprint. Don't be in a rush to nail things down especially if you've got lots of other stuff to deal with (sounds like you've got that part figured out already). So go to the party, have a great time, and pay more attention to what kind of person she is and what family dynamics she is used to than spending time trying to analyze whether this is a sign from God or not. Signs are overrated, using wisdom is underrated.
