No. I'm a loser because my best friend has disappeared and don't know what happened to her.........it may just be my fault, and now I have no way of finding out. I've lost my friend, this just happened, I had really high hopes just 2 weeks ago, and now I don't even know if she's still with us. My heart is ripped to shreds, an offer to pray or a word of kindness would have helped being on a 'christian' site. Maybe. I have taken perhaps the last loss I can take. It's what I've had my whole life.
I've lost again, it may be my fault, I have no way of knowing, and no way of fixing anything, and that makes me a loser.
Is she a member here? I haven't noticed anyone go off the radar, except VioletReigns and she left voluntarily. Do you have her email or phone number? Maybe she's just taking a breather from CC and people in general.