Sin interrupts our communion with God, but does not cause us to lose our union with Christ.
Confession is essential to experiencing the peace that is interrupted when we sin. Our relationship with God is affected by sin issues in our life. We do not experience the relational aspect of our faith when we are caught up in sin.
It is us believers who move from God when we sin and don't understand grace. But God is still in the same place He was before 'we' moved. Most of the time Christians who do move from God do so because they carry the shame and guilt and failure of their sin. And as they allow that shame to accuse them with thoughts like "I should never have done such a thing., I should have known better." (actually it's the accuser of the brethren,satan) and the Christian forgets they were cleansed already and end up walking as un cleansed sinner instead of who they are CLEANSED FORGIVEN SONS.
If that Christian doesn't know they already have the gift of no condemnation., they will walk around being an easy target for the devil. The understanding of grace for that person would CHANGE his approach of how he looks at his life with God giving him the power IN JESUS to turn to God and away from sin.
The Bible says in 2 Peter 1 about the development of our faith that He has given us all things pertaining to life and godliness through the true knowledge of God.. vs3... That He has granted us these great and precious magnificent promises in order that by them you might become partakers of the divine nature ...vs5. apply all diligence...... perseverance, godliness, brotherly kindness.,love, ... for if these qualities are yours and are increasing, they render you neither useless nor unfruitful in the true knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. (for he who lacks these qualities is blind or shortsighted having FORGOTTEN HIS PURIFICATION FROM HIS FORMER SINS) vs.9
That is when the devil can move in and condemn successfully., causing a believer to turn from God because of guilt.
If that Christian does not have the knowledge of who they are IN Christ and that Jesus has already secured their position of son-ship and no condemnation., they stay away from God much like someone who is indebted and has no ability to pay. So they avoid the places of the person they owe. This of course makes them weaker in the knowledge of God.
Think about it this way. If a man does things that are inappropriate in his relationship with his wife, they affect the relationship, even though the man is still married to his wife. Confession to the wife and requesting forgiveness should result in a restoration of the relationship, and possibly even a strengthening of it. The man is acknowledging these acts of betrayal in the relationship, and expressing sorrow for them, and asking for a restoration of the relationship.
The difference with God is we already do have the assurance in His Word that we are already forgiven and restoration has been accomplished IN JESUS. (only if we believe Jesus accomplished our solid foundation of forgiveness and no condemnation IN Christ) Our faith in HIM will free us to draw close to God because He loves us and we are guaranteed a forgiveness already completed. We love God because He first loved us. Not forgetting we have already been cleansed. 2 Peter.1:9
I know that in many human relationships, admitting such transgressions results in hard feelings and maybe even a termination in the relationship. Our human relationships are damaged through the Fall, and forgiveness is something that a wife may not extend. However, in the ideal world, this is the way it should be. We humans don't relate to each other in the way that we should.
In addition, confession leads to cleansing by God. I think this is a reference to an active sanctification that God is performing on our behalf as we yield ourselves to him.
The Christian has already been cleansed and we need to know that, believe it and walk in it.
But by His doing you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, and righteousness and sanctification and redemption. Jesus is our sanctification. 1Cor.1:30
Just so my remarks are not misinterpreted, I don't think Christians lose their salvation. Their unity with Christ is not dissolved by sin. However, our communion or experience of relationship closeness to God is affect by our acts of sin, which are betrayals of the relationship. In a relationship sense, we are forgiven when we confess, and cleansing occurs. I think this cleansing relates to sanctification to separate us from the propensity of committing the sin.
Again, our relationship is damaged when we do not have faith in the finished work of Christ for our relationship with God the Father who is now our Father too. We are not separated from God by God, we cause our own separation by our lack of knowing what our salvation and Christ actually has accomplished. No separation, no condemnation., no veil separating us from the Holy of Holies. Jesus made a Way., He is the Way.
There is a sense that repentance is a one-time thing which occurs when we come to faith, but our mind is continually being changed as we are conformed to the image of Christ
Our confession must be "Thank you Jesus for what you already did and already accomplished in and for me. Now Lord show me how to work out what You have put in me when You saved me." When we do this, that is when our minds are changed to see God in a proper way. His love is based on Him and not us and what we do. So we are learning how to love others based on God and not what people do. Confession is an integral part of this, and is not a denial of the one-time event that occurs at the moment of salvation. Confession in the continuing sense is more concerned with a continuation of the close relationship experience with God. If a Christian is sinning and not confessing his acts of betrayal, they are not being cleansed of their sin like they should be.
Again., faith in the power of Christ's sacrifice is what we need to magnify. It is when we can rest in Christ for our relationship with God that we will be maturing in the faith. Jesus love for us is unchanging and as we magnify Jesus in our life, we learn to be more like Him as we see what He has already accomplished in and for us.
See I John 1:8-9.
This is one of many topics that I strongly dislike about the hyper-grace camp. While reacting against one extreme, they swerve over into the opposite ditch. Confession is connected strongly to a healthy relationship with God.[/QUOTE
This idea of people using terms like "hyper-grace camp" is just a lack of understanding how extremely wonderful our salvation really is. We are learning that after we were first saved, the Bible and the HolySpirit has much more for us to learn about this great salvation that Jesus has accomplished in and for us. Let him who boasts, boast in the Lord. And that is what we need to do. It is our JOY.