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Hi, muzikguy, and thx for the 'love you' sign.
Right back atcha. But 15 posts since Nov. 2012?
Isn't that a bit over the top?
Might want to cut it back to
once every six months, so ppl
don't accuse you of clogging the threadwaves.
Seriously, tho, God bless you.
(THREADWAVES? Did I just invent a new word?
Like, airwaves? There, that's my contribution
to the christian chat interwebnets. Be blessed.)
Right back atcha. But 15 posts since Nov. 2012?
Isn't that a bit over the top?
Might want to cut it back to
once every six months, so ppl
don't accuse you of clogging the threadwaves.
Seriously, tho, God bless you.
(THREADWAVES? Did I just invent a new word?
Like, airwaves? There, that's my contribution
to the christian chat interwebnets. Be blessed.)
S
Hi. Unfortunately not the thread to discuss things here, I probably spoke out of turn, but I didn't want you to think I was ignoring you, sooo....No, not likely a simple hiatus. This was a close friend, talked almost everyday. I was looking fwd to where the Lord might be leading things in 2016, tho as of yet we were only friends, but she was my best friend on here, and I thought that would always remain, whether we grew closer or the Lord led us in different ways with different peeps, we had shared alot in the past few months, I shared way more with her than anyone I know, I was pretty sure she did the same, but maybe I move too slow, or flirt around too much, or maybe she just decided I was no good,
(I've been telling ppl THAT my whole life, based on getting told that before or treated as such, but ppl then would argue and say, I'm too hard on myself!...well which is it? I can't win.) Anyway, to have her suddenly disappear, not just from me, but from here, just doesn't make sense, and not knowing anything at all about her now is tearing me apart. I tried pm, public, IM and email. No reply. I sent one stating I'd miss her and I said goodbye. But that was AFTER a number of attempts, I was just saying what it seemed like had already happened. She left, it seemed, so I choked back the tears and said goodbye. Boy, do I regret THAT! For all I know, that's all she read, and thought that I was sending her away. No way ever would I do that!
But I have no way of knowing anything now, and my heart is so hurting right now, .....there really are no words for it, This is likely my fault, but maybe something serious has happened to her, and the not knowing is killing me. And to think that our last pm was not all hearts and rainbows has me feeling even worse if that's possible, I'm just torn up. I'm trying to man up and go on, as they say, tho being told to get over it or quit living in the past, the lack of prayers or show of support hasn't really helped much, tho this just happened, and I apologize for tying up this thread now, it will resume shortly, but so you know, NO, it was not VioletReigns....she was doing great, last I talked to her, although I haven't heard back from her either in the last couple of tries, she's very sweet and lovely, and I miss her posting here, but she's spending the time to have more alone time with the Lord, and may be back. Maybe I said something wrong to her, too, idk...melita could maybe fill you in on Violet, (but she doesn't seem to talk to me either, so what do I know) But, no, I'm sorry ppl, and I'm not one who's into soap opera/gossip baloney, but my best cchat friend has disappeared, and I'm just really hurt for her and me, and I don't know how NOT to be. I will probably carry on here for a while, but it's feeling pretty empty, and I don't know that I will hang around here much more. Or maybe I should just change my whole philosophy and figure, ok, Lord, since maybe there's never gonna BE a 'the one', I should just be happy with as many as are willing to be 'any one'. Sure, that's the christian way to be happy! I know, I know, don't hit me!
I haven't even Started to mention a whole lot of other carp that's helped kick off this new year, .... and I'm not about to, either. All in all, Jesus is my saviour, and that's way more than I deserve anyway, and this isn't about me...I'm just trying to keep my sanity, or find some, while my friend has left me, I don't know what happened or where she is, and it's really, really painful. None of this is her fault. I wish I could find her to tell her ...
Sorry about the thread. It's ironic, I posted all this here. I've been called a lot of things in my day. Don't ever remember hearing the word 'winner'. Which means this can't be the last post, so someone pls post after me. I'll try to lighten the mood. Post a picture of the Doublemint models,
because the 'Last person to postwins'.............. (ugghh)
(I've been telling ppl THAT my whole life, based on getting told that before or treated as such, but ppl then would argue and say, I'm too hard on myself!...well which is it? I can't win.) Anyway, to have her suddenly disappear, not just from me, but from here, just doesn't make sense, and not knowing anything at all about her now is tearing me apart. I tried pm, public, IM and email. No reply. I sent one stating I'd miss her and I said goodbye. But that was AFTER a number of attempts, I was just saying what it seemed like had already happened. She left, it seemed, so I choked back the tears and said goodbye. Boy, do I regret THAT! For all I know, that's all she read, and thought that I was sending her away. No way ever would I do that!
But I have no way of knowing anything now, and my heart is so hurting right now, .....there really are no words for it, This is likely my fault, but maybe something serious has happened to her, and the not knowing is killing me. And to think that our last pm was not all hearts and rainbows has me feeling even worse if that's possible, I'm just torn up. I'm trying to man up and go on, as they say, tho being told to get over it or quit living in the past, the lack of prayers or show of support hasn't really helped much, tho this just happened, and I apologize for tying up this thread now, it will resume shortly, but so you know, NO, it was not VioletReigns....she was doing great, last I talked to her, although I haven't heard back from her either in the last couple of tries, she's very sweet and lovely, and I miss her posting here, but she's spending the time to have more alone time with the Lord, and may be back. Maybe I said something wrong to her, too, idk...melita could maybe fill you in on Violet, (but she doesn't seem to talk to me either, so what do I know) But, no, I'm sorry ppl, and I'm not one who's into soap opera/gossip baloney, but my best cchat friend has disappeared, and I'm just really hurt for her and me, and I don't know how NOT to be. I will probably carry on here for a while, but it's feeling pretty empty, and I don't know that I will hang around here much more. Or maybe I should just change my whole philosophy and figure, ok, Lord, since maybe there's never gonna BE a 'the one', I should just be happy with as many as are willing to be 'any one'. Sure, that's the christian way to be happy! I know, I know, don't hit me!
I haven't even Started to mention a whole lot of other carp that's helped kick off this new year, .... and I'm not about to, either. All in all, Jesus is my saviour, and that's way more than I deserve anyway, and this isn't about me...I'm just trying to keep my sanity, or find some, while my friend has left me, I don't know what happened or where she is, and it's really, really painful. None of this is her fault. I wish I could find her to tell her ...
Sorry about the thread. It's ironic, I posted all this here. I've been called a lot of things in my day. Don't ever remember hearing the word 'winner'. Which means this can't be the last post, so someone pls post after me. I'll try to lighten the mood. Post a picture of the Doublemint models,
because the 'Last person to postwins'.............. (ugghh)
S
Well hopefully she'll contact you sooner or later, or even return to CC. Give her some time, and cheer up.
and our latest, 'Hurting?NotMyProblem'.
Why didn't we think of these slogans for the milk cartons?
'Missing person: Maybe you can get another one.'
How bout, 'Amber Alert: No hurry, they're bound to turn up.
Or, '1800WhosLost: Ya sure? Didja look everywhere?
They're always in the last place you look'.
Christians?
Bear ye one another's burdens,
and so fulfill the law of Christ.
As we have therefore opportunity,
let us do good unto all men,
especially unto them who are
of the household of faith.
___________________(Gal.6:2,10)
