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phil36

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The kind of remorse that gets God's attention is what He calls "godly sorrow", which leads to true repentance and a restored and right relationship with Him.


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what does sorrow mean .. so we have 'remorse' and now 'sorrow' .. Why do you think christians use these words.. did they pick them so they ould change their meaning? Sorrow has a great meaning.
 
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The bible differentiates between godly sorrow and worldly sorrow, with godly sorrow, brought on by the gentle nudging of the Holy Spirit, leading us into repentance, which brings restoration of relationship with the Father. Worldly sorrow brings harsh self-reproach and other negative and unhealthy responses...and no resolution.
 
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I get the godly sorrow all the time its like you say a nudge when do something or even fail to do something.
 

phil36

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The bible differentiates between godly sorrow and worldly sorrow, with godly sorrow, brought on by the gentle nudging of the Holy Spirit, leading us into repentance, which brings restoration of relationship with the Father. Worldly sorrow brings harsh self-reproach and other negative and unhealthy responses...and no resolution.
So "godly sorrow" is a gentle nudging of the Holy Spirit... surely it can't be or mean 'a holy spirit nudge'? That doesnt make sense. Could you explain for me what it actually is..not the end result of repentance ie, restoration of relationship etc
 
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So "godly sorrow" is a gentle nudging of the Holy Spirit... surely it can't be or mean 'a holy spirit nudge'? That doesnt make sense. Could you explain for me what it actually is..not the end result of repentance ie, restoration of relationship etc
It makes wonderful sense, because it is the truth. Holy Spirit lets us know when we have missed the mark, and His voice is soft and gentle, like a nudge that says, "Honey, you've done the wrong thing here. Come on, let's start again and do it better next time. I'll help you."

The enemy likes to get in there first and speaks with a raucous, ugly voice that brings with it thoughts of self-reproach and guilt. Two voices. Which one will we heed?


Godly sorrow or godly remorse is not the "end result of repentance ie, restoration of relationship", but it is the immediate forerunner of repentance and restoration to the Father.

2 Corinthians 7:10-11
For [godly] sorrow that is in accord with the will of God produces a repentance without regret, leading to salvation; but worldly sorrow [the hopeless sorrow of those who do not believe] produces death. [SUP]11 [/SUP]For [you can look back and] see what an earnestness and authentic concern this godly sorrow has produced in you: what vindication of yourselves [against charges that you tolerate sin], what indignation [at sin], what fear [of offending God], what longing [for righteousness and justice], what passion [to do what is right], what readiness to punish [those who sin and those who tolerate sin]! At every point you have proved yourselves to be innocent in the matter.


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phil36

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It makes wonderful sense, because it is the truth. Holy Spirit lets us know when we have missed the mark, and His voice is soft and gentle, like a nudge that says, "Honey, you've done the wrong thing here. Come on, let's start again and do it better next time. I'll help you."

The enemy likes to get in there first and speaks with a raucous, ugly voice that brings with it thoughts of self-reproach and guilt. Two voices. Which one will we heed?


Godly sorrow or godly remorse is not the "end result of repentance ie, restoration of relationship", but it is the immediate forerunner of repentance and restoration to the Father.

2 Corinthians 7:10-11
For [godly] sorrow that is in accord with the will of God produces a repentance without regret, leading to salvation; but worldly sorrow [the hopeless sorrow of those who do not believe] produces death. [SUP]11 [/SUP]For [you can look back and] see what an earnestness and authentic concern this godly sorrow has produced in you: what vindication of yourselves [against charges that you tolerate sin], what indignation [at sin], what fear [of offending God], what longing [for righteousness and justice], what passion [to do what is right], what readiness to punish [those who sin and those who tolerate sin]! At every point you have proved yourselves to be innocent in the matter.


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I understand what you are saying. However, 'godly sorrow' cannot be a nudge from the holy spirit or his small voice -godly sorrow canot be the holy spirits action towards you. therefore it must have something to do with you..

As the sripture you provided points out and is clear the sorrow is yours (or mine).. so what is [godly] sorrow.....that leads you to repentence.. remember the sorrow is yours not an action from the holy spirit. Do you feel it? what?
 
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I understand what you are saying. However, 'godly sorrow' cannot be a nudge from the holy spirit or his small voice -godly sorrow canot be the holy spirits action towards you. therefore it must have something to do with you..

As the sripture you provided points out and is clear the sorrow is yours (or mine).. so what is [godly] sorrow.....that leads you to repentence.. remember the sorrow is yours not an action from the holy spirit. Do you feel it? what?

Godly sorrow is our right RESPONSE to the Holy Spirit's conviction. I think you are having a hard time with the word, "godly". It is a righteous response that God deems appropriate in His children.


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phil36

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Godly sorrow is our right RESPONSE to the Holy Spirit's conviction. I think you are having a hard time with the word, "godly". It is a righteous response that God deems appropriate in His children.


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Nope Im not having a hrad time with godly I understand it erfectly.

So 'godly sorrow' brings a Right response (which is an action)... what is gody sorrow.. words have meaning even if you put them together. I think you have a hard time understanding what sorrow actually is, either godly or worldly. I think you know but don't like it.
 
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Nope Im not having a hrad time with godly I understand it erfectly.

So 'godly sorrow' brings a Right response (which is an action)... what is gody sorrow.. words have meaning even if you put them together. I think you have a hard time understanding what sorrow actually is, either godly or worldly. I think you know but don't like it.
No. Godly sorrow IS a RIGHT RESPONSE, and it PRODUCES things in us that pleases God and brings us into further spiritual maturity.

I am not having a hard time understanding it.

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its all people want to talk about? on the one hand you have the hyper grace movement who for some reason dont think sin is a problem for them and on the other those who are frightened to talk about it for fear of offending (non christians). The hyper grace movement especially the no Lordship movement (although hopefully dying out) have done huge damage in the church and still are.

If christians discuss it amongst themselves thats a good thing..they realise their need...I wouldnt say they are obsessed by it.. one thing any mature christian notices and that is just how sinful he is and rejoices all the more in Jesus..Its a humbling thing to see how sinful we are.
This is a lot of what I meant in the other thread when I spoke of Traditionalism seeming to mainly desire "do church" properly............... even if it will never reach the ears and hearts of those who need to hear it.
 
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No. Godly sorrow IS a RIGHT RESPONSE, and it PRODUCES things in us that pleases God and brings us into further spiritual maturity.

I am not having a hard time understanding it.

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What is it that the Bible says is what draws us? I think it was called, "the love of God." I think that's Rom 2:4.
 
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Romans 2:5 says it's the kindness of God that leads us to repentance..that goes right along with your love....but that is the gospel message too.....


What is it that the Bible says is what draws us? I think it was called, "the love of God." I think that's Rom 2:4.
 

phil36

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This is a lot of what I meant in the other thread when I spoke of Traditionalism seeming to mainly desire "do church" properly............... even if it will never reach the ears and hearts of those who need to hear it.

Im not asking how we do anything properly... thats a strawmen willie which you like ;)
Its quite simple realy what does sorrow mean its a very simple question..
 

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What is it that the Bible says is what draws us? I think it was called, "the love of God." I think that's Rom 2:4.


I understand that..but it would be nice if you stuck to the topic Willie ;) what is sorrow?
 
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Sorrow for me is pretty simple...it's an emotion from my soul from an event in our lives....could be from our own doing or from an outside force.

To me a godly sorrow makes me turn ( in thoughts or actions if needed ) to the Lord or to others ( outwardly ).....a worldly sorrow makes me turn to myself..(inwardly)..which does no good
 

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Sorrow for me is pretty simple...it's an emotion from my soul from an event in our lives....could be from our own doing or from an outside force.

To me a godly sorrow makes me turn ( in thoughts or actions if needed ) to the Lord or to others ( outwardly ).....a worldly sorrow makes me turn to myself..(inwardly)..which does no good
We have touch down ..an answer... lol

godly sorrow is an emotion.....that leads to an action. (the definition of sorrow can be found in any good English dictionary) ;)
 
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Yep...all sorrow either godly or worldly leads to some action.....some good....some not so good....actually all emotions lead to some kind of action as well....:)..

Thank God we have the Comforter to bring us out! He leads me beside the still waters..He restores my soul...

" The Lord is my shepherd...He breaketh my legs" ..oppsss....that's the other doctrine.....( sorry..I couldn't help myself...:rolleyes: )

We have touch down ..an answer... lol

godly sorrow is an emotion.....that leads to an action. (the definition of sorrow can be found in any good English dictionary) ;)
 
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James 4:17 He who knows the good he ought to do yet chooses not to so it- sins.
 
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James 4:17 He who knows the good he ought to do yet chooses not to so it- sins.
Great quote and so true we all know the good yet how many times do we choose not to?
Sins is Sin and we all do it we all pray for forgiveness as we know we sin yet we ought not oo.