Hi EG,
I understand what you are saying, and it really is just semi pelagian. However, that said many believe what you do love Jesus and are saved.
What you are basically saying is this...Lazerus helped Jesus raise himself from the dead. Which isnt biblical. Have a read agan of John 3. Nicodemus had trouble with this regenerating grace aswell. Nicodemus would have thought that it was his faith or obedience that would keep him in covenant relationship. But Nicodemus should have understood, knowing scriture as he did 'Ae you not a teacher of Israel'!
Paul puts it more clearly in Ephesians 2 cf. vv4-6,
1As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins, 2in which you used to live when you followed the ways of this world and of the ruler of the kingdom of the air, the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient. 3All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh[SUP]a[/SUP] and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath. 4But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, 5made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. 6And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, 7in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. 8For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— 9not by works, so that no one can boast. 10For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.
The regenerating grace that God startedwere 'God made us alive' v5a, we co operate by excercising faith to this grace in Christ with and through faith v8.