How to help my boyfriend become christian

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I have been taking my boyfriend and church and not long ago he started joining in with the singing and today said to me he would like to find out more about the story and God - never helped someone before - but this is exciting for me and would like advice and how to start doing this, what to do and any testimonies would be great ! Thank you :)
 
Firstly I'd say be leery of his sincerity. He may be genuine, or he may be doing what he thinks you want of him. This is just one reason dating non-Christians is a bad idea.
But to proceed as if he is sincere the best way is to answer his questions. Those are the things he needs to hear, so focus on those. And don't pretend to know things you don't have answers for. Just admit you don't know but offer to find out for him.
Point him towards Jesus life primarily. Walk him through the betrayal and crucifixion. Help him understand sin and the severity of it. Why we need saving. What t means to be saved. Things like this. Make sure he understands the basics. And also that getting saved isn't a promise of an easy life, but of having God to help you through the difficulties to grow us.
Im sure others will have more good suggestions but I think this is a solid foundation.
 
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Sophia-95....so good that this is happening! Keep in mind also, that your very example of the reflection of JESUS is also a witness to your bf. Keep him in much prayer. Allow every chance for him to hear GOD's WORD, be in attendance where he is being fed spiritual food. I have to put this in here. I know that you two share a lot of mutual love for each other. Now that he is in a good place for good things to start opening up for him, do NOT spoil it by giving in to those physical pleasures that would dampen, hinder and finally break down the walls that JESUS is trying so hard to build up. My gf and I faced the same issue. We were both highly involved in CHRISTIAN ministry while dating. I lead a youth team that travelled. She was a singer and fellow associate. We knew we were much in love...but it would have been disasterous if we were displaying a so called GODLY image to the world and privately consumating our sexual desires. We walked together to the altar and made a vow to each other and GOD that we would have something to look forward to on our wedding night...GOD honored that and we are glad we waited for that moment!!!!!!!
 
Sophia-95 said:
I have been taking my boyfriend and church and not long ago he started joining in with the singing and today said to me he would like to find out more about the story and God - never helped someone before - but this is exciting for me and would like advice and how to start doing this, what to do and any testimonies would be great ! Thank you :)
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Your boyfriend? You're a dude! Something isn't right in Kanas.
 
Never date sombody, with the hope they will change something about themselves. It is not fair to either party, and is not a healthy way to have a relationship. If he happens to be or become a Christian, that's wonderful
 
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