Ladies...here it is! What men want.

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coby

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Tell me again which guy wouldn't want a wife like that with those qualities? They don't make them like they use to anymore. Now every man has to hear how he's a potential rapist.
I had the idea any man wants that. You can maybe find one in Brazil. My ex did. But she doesn't bring money in. You can't have it all.
 

Shawn2516

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I had the idea any man wants that. You can maybe find one in Brazil. My ex did. But she doesn't bring money in. You can't have it all.
I already found mine. She's wonderful. More than anything I could ever have wanted or hoped for so i'm not worried about this kind of stuff anymore. I just feel sorry for American men who have no authority or respect these days from their women. Might as well stay single as it says in Proverbs. Better to eat a piece of a morsel in the corner of a rooftop alone, than inside a house with a brawling woman.
 
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coby

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I already found mine. She's wonderful. More than anything I could ever have wanted or hoped for so i'm not worried about this kind of stuff anymore. I just feel sorry for American men who have no authority or respect these days from their women. Might as well stay single as it says in Proverbs. Better to eat a piece of a morsel in the corner of a rooftop alone, than inside a house with a brawling woman.
And she behaves like that woman described in the OP?
Amazing, well congrats!
 
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coby

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My mum was like this.
Mine too and she had to have a job. Amazing she just did it and then he saw: hey this ain't good. Now he cleans up after she has cooked and he sucks the dust and tells her: No! You go sit! That's my task!! Cute to see.
 
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coby

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I already found mine. She's wonderful. More than anything I could ever have wanted or hoped for so i'm not worried about this kind of stuff anymore. I just feel sorry for American men who have no authority or respect these days from their women. Might as well stay single as it says in Proverbs. Better to eat a piece of a morsel in the corner of a rooftop alone, than inside a house with a brawling woman.
Oh wait. You don't have kids. Now I get it. Good luck with letting her do everything and work and demand everything is tip top clean and that she looks perfect when she gets no sleep when you get some babies.
 

Shawn2516

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Oh wait. You don't have kids. Now I get it. Good luck with letting her do everything and work and demand everything is tip top clean and that she looks perfect when she gets no sleep when you get some babies.
No, you don't get it. Women like you never will. Keep that disrespectful attitude to yourself woman. Its scornful women like you which is why I am so grateful for the wife I have today.
 
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coby

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No, you don't get it. Women like you never will. Keep that disrespectful attitude to yourself woman. Its scornful women like you which is why I am so grateful for the wife I have today.
You don't treat your wife like that. I see your pic and do not believe it. I hate feminism but I hate male dominance too. Same demon, control.
 
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Tintin

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Shawn, I totally understand that men are regularly viewed with suspicion. If you're not seen as a potential rapist, you're seen as a potential paedophile (I've experienced being seen as the latter, because I worked/work with kids, and it made me ashamed for some time to be a male). At best, this world sees men as useless and adult babies. But that gives you no right to be an ass to anyone here, least of all the womenfolk. You've already pulled this crap before and it wasn't welcome back then either. Please learn to show some respect.
 
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LiJo

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No, you don't get it. Women like you never will. Keep that disrespectful attitude to yourself woman. Its scornful women like you which is why I am so grateful for the wife I have today.
Your attitude is very disrespectful toward Coby.
 
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Shawn2516

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You've already pulled this crap before and it wasn't welcome back then either. Please learn to show some respect.
You want me to show respect to women who are not showing respect back? Right. I said my opinion about something and a feminist couldn't stand the thought of it. God forbid. I have seen new members come in here and leave the very same day from the poor treatment they got from people here and yet you sit and talk about respect? Will you say anything about the lack of respect shown towards me? No you won't. I'm the wrong gender. I get it.

You don't treat your wife like that. I see your pic and do not believe it. I hate feminism but I hate male dominance too. Same demon, control.
No I don't treat her like that and I never will. You don't have to believe it and I don't care if you do.

Is that what you think? That its all about men coming in and controlling everything? Its about mutual respect. Something clearly lacking from the female side these days. If a man even mentions anything he wants in a wife, he gets berated for "demanding" something of her. God forbid.
 
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coby

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You want me to show respect to women who are not showing respect back? Right. I said my opinion about something and a feminist couldn't stand the thought of it. God forbid. I have seen new members come in here and leave the very same day from the poor treatment they got from people here and yet you sit and talk about respect? Will you say anything about the lack of respect shown towards me? No you won't. I'm the wrong gender. I get it.



No I don't treat her like that and I never will. You don't have to believe it and I don't care if you do.

Is that what you think? That its all about men coming in and controlling everything? Its about mutual respect. Something clearly lacking from the female side these days. If a man even mentions anything he wants in a wife, he gets berated for "demanding" something of her. God forbid.
No sorry, somehow I didn't see your pic. You sounded like a demanding bossy how do you call them. Bossy women is bad, bossy men is bad, Biblical is great. Guess you had some bad experience with controlling feminists, can't stand them either, but those men also still exist although they get rarer every day.
 

Shawn2516

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No sorry, somehow I didn't see your pic. You sounded like a demanding bossy how do you call them. Bossy women is bad, bossy men is bad, Biblical is great. Guess you had some bad experience with controlling feminists, can't stand them either, but those men also still exist although they get rarer every day.
You bring up something I just thought about. What is Biblical? Because technically the traditional view we had for 2000+ years was seen as biblical. So does that mean for 2k years Gods church had it wrong? I can understand women not wanting to follow a abusive controlling man, but I don't think men should abdicate their leadership role. But there lies the problem, men cannot be leaders if women are not willing to follow. So now days, it seems like women are leading and men are turning into the followers. Most women I know do not like this change.
 
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kaylagrl

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Tell me again which guy wouldn't want a wife like that with those qualities? They don't make them like they use to anymore. Now every man has to hear how he's a potential rapist.

Quote "Now every man has to hear how he's a potential rapist."

Wait,wha ??
 
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JeniBean

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I really don't think I can get my hair to look like that, while maintaining perfect nails in a dress and heels. I'm to into sports and rough housing with my son! And hey if the man wants to bring home the bacon I will gladly cook and do their laundry, but their bacon would need to be substantial to have me stop bringing in my bacon.
 
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didymos

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You don't treat your wife like that. I see your pic and do not believe it. I hate feminism but I hate male dominance too. Same demon, control.
Nothing wrong with 'control'... if it's biblical.

[SUP]21 [/SUP]Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
[SUP]22 [/SUP]Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord...
[SUP]25 [/SUP]Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her

(Eph. 5: 21-22, 25)
 
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jennymae

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I really don't think I can get my hair to look like that, while maintaining perfect nails in a dress and heels. I'm to into sports and rough housing with my son! And hey if the man wants to bring home the bacon I will gladly cook and do their laundry, but their bacon would need to be substantial to have me stop bringing in my bacon.
Sometimes I'm wondering if people are just recollecting the commercials from the nifty fifties, I can't believe maintaining a perfect appeareance was easy back then whenever the kids were toddlers..unlesss, of course, there was a set of nannies involved...which makes me think those men having a wife like that brought home some serious bacon;)
 

Lynx

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And this is why we can't have nice things. This thread was begun as humorous. But, as always when this topic comes up, people have to start yelling at each other.

Shawn, coby, did you notice the part where the article is fake? As in, that article never appeared in a magazine or book back in the '50's?
 
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jennymae

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And this is why we can't have nice things. This thread was begun as humorous. But, as always when this topic comes up, people have to start yelling at each other.

Shawn, coby, did you notice the part where the article is fake? As in, that article never appeared in a magazine or book back in the '50's?
It was humorous?
 
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