You say you are missing the threads but yet you admit it yourself that you want this? And i'm not talking about here, I'm talking about sites where men ask women for advice for making their significant other happy.
This is where men and women split. You say you want a old fashion godly man, but that very same type of man will expect of you to be a old fashion godly women, while your behavior and attributes are anything but old fashion. You cannot be a high-powered career woman and be a stay at home house mom who tends to the children. You'll spend either more time at the office or more time with the kids, but someone is going to get neglected more than the other.
And why should a man come around? You don't need him for anything so why should he be around? I need my wife. Without her I wouldn't have goals or aspirations as much as I do now as if I was alone. You can't talk about not needing men and then expect one to just walk into your life and accept that job application. "Guess what boys, the wife doesn't need me but I said, what the heck, sign me up".
So what if he plays video games? Are you suddenly going to nag him when he does what he wants in his own free time? You say your going to just be this cool chill-out wife, but just this sentence alone tells every-man here that your going to be one very controlling wife who ISN'T going to be okay. Especially if he loads up call-of-duty.
Yes, it isn't easy. Back in 1800's. Now you have dish-washers, vacuum cleaners, washers, dryers, microwaves, and refrigerators that make cleaning life simple. When I lived alone, I had to only clean my house once every 2 weeks to keep things organized and I could get it done within 1-2 hours. I don't think your fooling men into believing that house-work is hard. Its not. Its easy, its fast, its efficient.
Really? Every woman? Even those women that throw their babies in microwave ovens and watch them fry to death? Even the women who throw them in garbage bags and leaves them to die? How sweet. Lets get them some flowers and hold the door open for the dears.
If a guy asks the same thing, the same women will crucify him.
And that right there is why many women on here are single and without mates. If the women fail to communicate their needs clearly, then its not their fault, its the man's fault. And can we reverse it? Can we say if the men are telling the women something, then that must mean the women are failing in some way and there isn't clear communication.
All i'm saying is, women are demanding things from men but if men were to demand the same things, women have a whole novel of scornful words ready to berate him for daring such a thing. I guess because "all women" deserve everything.