Single men - tired of girl woes?

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AAAPlus

AAAPlus

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I know how it is. I see a lot of decent guys here frustrated with their situation. If you're always the good guy who keeps getting shot down, shoot me a message with what you're going through and I'll give you solid, Christian advice that will actually help you out (no, I won't just tell you to pray about it, I'll help you with the practical next steps).

I'm not selling anything, I'm just a dude willing to help out, who used to frequent these forums and wants to pay it forward.
 
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AAAPlus said:
I know how it is. I see a lot of decent guys here frustrated with their situation. If you're always the good guy who keeps getting shot down, shoot me a message with what you're going through and I'll give you solid, Christian advice that will actually help you out (no, I won't just tell you to pray about it, I'll help you with the practical next steps).

I'm not selling anything, I'm just a dude willing to help out, who used to frequent these forums and wants to pay it forward.
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Sounds intriguing; why not just post it here on the forums?
 
AAAPlus

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GodIsSalvation said:
Sounds intriguing; why not just post it here on the forums?
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That's a really good question, I was just about to come back and answer it when you posted this haha. I want to be able to help someone out without a bunch of other people debating and offering wrong opinions that aren't helpful.
 
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Personally I always find it suspicious when people 'advertise' to message them to receive special secret answers.
 
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AAAPlus said:
That's a really good question, I was just about to come back and answer it when you posted this haha. I want to be able to help someone out without a bunch of other people debating and offering wrong opinions that aren't helpful.
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Post it anyways, I'll read it. The detractors mean nothing, they don't understand to begin with.
 
AAAPlus

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GodIsSalvation said:
Post it anyways, I'll read it. The detractors mean nothing, they don't understand to begin with.
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This isn't really an option, since I'm offering personalized advice. You tell me what the situation is, I'll give you really good guidance. I could offer general advice as well, but that's for another day.
 
AAAPlus

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Ugly said:
Personally I always find it suspicious when people 'advertise' to message them to receive special secret answers.
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Agreed. Whoever responds to this would certainly be going out on a limb; there is a lot of bad advice out there. Mine, however, will very likely be helpful.

There are a lot of people on the Internet with really bad opinions or who talk with no experience. Ugly is not one of those people. Pretty much everything he posts is pure gold. But for every Ugly out there, there's about a hundred people who don't know their right hand from their left.
 
blue_ladybug

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AAAPlus said:
This isn't really an option, since I'm offering personalized advice. You tell me what the situation is, I'll give you really good guidance. I could offer general advice as well, but that's for another day.
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Personalized advice? :confused: How can you possibly give personalized advice when you don't even know hardly any of these people or their situations? I highly doubt they'll message you and spill their relationship woes. :/ I agree with Ugly. This is suspicious.
 
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AAAPlus said:
This isn't really an option, since I'm offering personalized advice. You tell me what the situation is, I'll give you really good guidance. I could offer general advice as well, but that's for another day.
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Well give me a little preview of some of that general advice. Don't have to be a novel or anything.
 
phil38111

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I think its great that you want to help good guys overcome their women problems. I pmed you because you made me curious. Not necessarily looking for help. Just interested in what you have to say and how you qualify to give others advice.
 
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blue_ladybug said:
Personalized advice? :confused: How can you possibly give personalized advice when you don't even know hardly any of these people or their situations? I highly doubt they'll message you and spill their relationship woes. :/ I agree with Ugly. This is suspicious.
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Well, one way is people could TELL HIM THEIR SITUATIONS. I'd think that would be pretty much common sense. Give him the benefit of the doubt. He may have alot of ex[erience and wisdom in this area. Or, he maybe trolling for fun.
 
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phil38111 said:
Well, one way is people could TELL HIM THEIR SITUATIONS. I'd think that would be pretty much common sense. Give him the benefit of the doubt. He may have alot of ex[erience and wisdom in this area. Or, he maybe trolling for fun.
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Heheh, lady blue doesn't understand because she is not a single man.
 
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I may not be the supermack dolemite ladies man, but if his advice is garbage I'll be discerning enough to tell the difference. Unfortuantely AAAplus was right though. There is alot of garbage dating advice out there. Just look at steve harveys book Think Like a Man act like a lady. Pure dumbtardness.
 
blue_ladybug

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phil38111 said:
Well, one way is people could TELL HIM THEIR SITUATIONS. I'd think that would be pretty much common sense. Give him the benefit of the doubt. He may have alot of ex[erience and wisdom in this area. Or, he maybe trolling for fun.
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And maybe not everyone (or anyone) would want to message him and share their sad stories..
 
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blue_ladybug said:
And maybe not everyone (or anyone) would want to message him and share their sad stories..
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Lol I think he did.

phil38111 said:
I think its great that you want to help good guys overcome their women problems. I pmed you because you made me curious. Not necessarily looking for help. Just interested in what you have to say and how you qualify to give others advice.
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As for myself I kinda feel your sentiment lady blue, but I'm kinda predisposed to be shy on these things. I'm still interested in just the general advice though, and then maybe work up from there.
 
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phil38111 said:
I may not be the supermack dolemite ladies man, but if his advice is garbage I'll be discerning enough to tell the difference. Unfortuantely AAAplus was right though. There is alot of garbage dating advice out there. Just look at steve harveys book Think Like a Man act like a lady. Pure dumbtardness.
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hahahahaha what is that? Is that for men or women? A woman thinking like a man is quite impossible and a man acting like a lady: woohoo attractive!! not hahahahahahaha.
 
phil38111

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Have you ever looked at some of the dating advice for women GodOfSalvation. Some of it is so manipulative and deceptive and while it offers temporary satisfaction, it does not lead to a lasting marriage or relationship. If anything it's like building an airplane without wings. It will fly in the sky for a little while, but it will eventually turn upside down and explode when it hists the ground and kill everyone in it.

Then there is some good advice out there too but that advice usually is the type of advice that instead of giving women manipulative tricks to manipulate some man into falling in love with them, it causes them to examine theirselve's and look at theirselves realistically as much as it may hurt them to do that. Some women are used to only having people tell them what they want to hear so they are too weak to take that kind of advice. But the good advice causes women to examine theirselves, see what changes they need to make. U know, like a book about how to be a proverbs 31 woman. Which in the end makes woman get rid of the loser mentality that is so prevalent in both men and women in our society and in the end make them more of a prize and more confidence and give men more incentive to wife them up. Unfortunately I think most women read the manipulation books. Which work to a certain extent on certain men, but unfortunately down the road the advice leads to failure.
 
melita916

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i'm just here for the comments.

:)
 
phil38111

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coby said:
hahahahaha what is that? Is that for men or women? A woman thinking like a man is quite impossible and a man acting like a lady: woohoo attractive!! not hahahahahahaha.
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It is for women. And it is a road to disaster. Take that from me. I know what men want.
 
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