An Apology

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crosstweed

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Fun fact: Starbuck's has a program where they will happily give you huge trash bags full of their used coffee grounds for your compost heap. Saved my some good money on soil after I got all of that composted! Nitrogeeeeen!
 
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elephant crap is really efficacious.
mom used to take the station wagon down to the mall parking lot whenever the circus was in town and load it up. they were happy to off-load the crap, so it was free.
and mom's garden -- man, those vegetables were lush! good stuff, and not very stinky either.
Wow! Hubby took his van with 55-gallon drums to do the same thing.

Sadly, not for our garden. That was back in the days when he had a large yard with real soil. (His first marriage.) Now we have a small cement yard with containers for plants. I do compost though -- in a rubbermaid trash can.
 
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in re: where to get elephant crap ((wow i didn't know B&B retired their ouliphants, good to know?))
i know a guy in Sri Lanka, but i doubt it's worth having the stuff sent by mail :p
And then you get into the whole "is it fertilizer" question, and then terrorists watch list if they think it is, and does one quarantine crap? lol
 
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Sounds like a good deal! All that I know about elephant poop is that it's so fibrous that they can and actually do make paper out of it.


Yep! Exactly what I did for years. Made pretty good money at it too, until the local market slowed down. I had a deal going with a local Tractor Supply Co. store and sold breeding stock besides. I did a rabbit show once, too. That was fun. Been missing it, in a weird way.

Pooooop! Yeah, it's a great consistency for just mixing it right in there. Doesn't smell, either. Grows some pretty impressive tomatoes! I've heard bat guano is great stuff, but it's so hot that it has to be composted for a good long while before you can even use it.
And it's hard finding enough bats in the city. Too bad our resident birds are mostly scavengers. (Pigeons, house wrens, and starlings.) But our local robin helped once. After the rain he dropped a worm into our yard. I threw it in the composter and have had the wormiest soil ever since. About five worms per trowel full.
 
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Fun fact: Starbuck's has a program where they will happily give you huge trash bags full of their used coffee grounds for your compost heap. Saved my some good money on soil after I got all of that composted! Nitrogeeeeen!
I think they started charging for it a year or two ago. (Think. Not sure.) Since hubby isn't home drinking his coffee, I might have to go and find out. About a third of our compost is his coffee grinds.
 
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crosstweed

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I think they started charging for it a year or two ago. (Think. Not sure.) Since hubby isn't home drinking his coffee, I might have to go and find out. About a third of our compost is his coffee grinds.
They might in some areas. Not sure.
 
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You know, I'll add this.

I find it disgusting many of you are adding filth, spammy pictures, and nonsense to an otherwise serious discussion. You call yourselves Christans, but cant engage on a mature, hard-hitting perspective, and now you're derailing the whole process. It truly reflects how little character you carry yourself with.

That said, I'm done.
May I respectfully ask a moderator to close this thread.
I'm done seeing this additional garbage made by the rebellious mental instability of some of the users here.

Thanks.
 

Blain

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You know, I'll add this.

I find it disgusting many of you are adding filth, spammy pictures, and nonsense to an otherwise serious discussion. You call yourselves Christans, but cant engage on a mature, hard-hitting perspective, and now you're derailing the whole process. It truly reflects how little character you carry yourself with.

That said, I'm done.
May I respectfully ask a moderator to close this thread.
I'm done seeing this additional garbage made by the rebellious mental instability of some of the users here.

Thanks.
Ok that is not cool man, everyone was just having a little fun and why not? the tension in this thread was kind of bad and if one cannot have a laugh or so with friends even if it's about poo then what is the point? Sometimes being immature is necessary and does one more good than a lot of people realize, I am all for helping you and talking with you but if you speak in this manner to my family on cc I cannot allow that so I politely ask you to play nice. I am not mad or anything but I will stand up for those who need it no matter who they are
 

RickyZ

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Depleted, Blain, I apologize. I took a little time out because I know I was getting a bit hot under the collar here. I haven't read any more of the exchange, and don't care to continue it. While there are times you need to shake people, I don't know that this was one of them. The fact that Blain spoke a word about it gave me pause to consider it isn't. So I apologize if I stepped over the line with my attitude.

Part of the passion is because I do understand what you are talking about. I understand from untold depths the elephant dung. Swim in a cesspool of it each and every day. For a long time I blamed and tried to accept that it was from God. And I learned thru great personal loss that it's not from Him. Cost me my life, you might say. Yes, God can and will use the elephant dung of our lives to produce flowers and fruit and life. But He is not the one who provides it. He is not the one who provides it. And it hurts me to see someone so convinced that He does.

I'm praying for you, Depleted. Praying for all of us. I'm on your side, no matter how snarky I get :)
 
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Depleted, Blain, I apologize. I took a little time out because I know I was getting a bit hot under the collar here. I haven't read any more of the exchange, and don't care to continue it. While there are times you need to shake people, I don't know that this was one of them. The fact that Blain spoke a word about it gave me pause to consider it isn't. So I apologize if I stepped over the line with my attitude.

Part of the passion is because I do understand what you are talking about. I understand from untold depths the elephant dung. Swim in a cesspool of it each and every day. For a long time I blamed and tried to accept that it was from God. And I learned thru great personal loss that it's not from Him. Cost me my life, you might say. Yes, God can and will use the elephant dung of our lives to produce flowers and fruit and life. But He is not the one who provides it. He is not the one who provides it. And it hurts me to see someone so convinced that He does.

I'm praying for you, Depleted. Praying for all of us. I'm on your side, no matter how snarky I get :)
Still, I've learned from much loss (and greater gains in Christ) it is from God. Just as that large fish was from God for Jonah. T'ain't pretty. T'ain't fun. But t'is from God. And, t'ain't over either.
 
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You know, I'll add this.

I find it disgusting many of you are adding filth, spammy pictures, and nonsense to an otherwise serious discussion. You call yourselves Christans, but cant engage on a mature, hard-hitting perspective, and now you're derailing the whole process. It truly reflects how little character you carry yourself with.

That said, I'm done.
May I respectfully ask a moderator to close this thread.
I'm done seeing this additional garbage made by the rebellious mental instability of some of the users here.

Thanks.
Pot? Meet Kettle. (A take off from the adage "the pot calling the kettle black.")

Some day, you might actually grow up and realize you are NOT the center of the universe. May you find the One who is! (And, he's not lost. You are.)

Anytime you want to get over your temper tantrum, I'll be more than willing to help.

Meanwhile, bupkis on top of bupkis.
 
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kaylagrl

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You know, I'll add this.

I find it disgusting many of you are adding filth, spammy pictures, and nonsense to an otherwise serious discussion. You call yourselves Christans, but cant engage on a mature, hard-hitting perspective, and now you're derailing the whole process. It truly reflects how little character you carry yourself with.

That said, I'm done.
May I respectfully ask a moderator to close this thread.
I'm done seeing this additional garbage made by the rebellious mental instability of some of the users here.

Thanks.


And here we go folks....

Quote "I find it disgusting many of you are adding filth"

Please point to the filth you're talking about. And lets judge that against your own comment "
If you were cursed, God crapped on you."


Quote " spammy pictures, and nonsense to an otherwise serious discussion"

Folks thought you were done with your discussion and were lightening a tension filled thread.Follow along,its been a trend recently so no one was gunning for you.

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You call yourselves Christans".....It truly reflects how little character you carry yourself with.

So after all the things you've said in these forums under two different names you're going to judge us and say we aren't Christians. Thats nice. Folks here have defended you, in spite of your immature and many times,snarky attitude. I think you should at least be that gracious with others.

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cant engage on a mature, hard-hitting perspective"

When you bring a hard hitting mature thread up we'll happily discuss it. So far I haven't seen it.


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I'm done seeing this additional garbage made by the rebellious mental instability of some of the users here."

Could you be a little clearer about"
rebellious mental instability"? Based on some of the things you've posted,be honest,do you think you have the right to judge other peoples hearts and intents? People here have said they have forgiven you don't you think it would be mature of you to do the same?

I'll be waiting on that mature conversion you want to have.

 
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crosstweed

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You know, I'll add this.

I find it disgusting many of you are adding filth, spammy pictures, and nonsense to an otherwise serious discussion. You call yourselves Christans, but cant engage on a mature, hard-hitting perspective, and now you're derailing the whole process. It truly reflects how little character you carry yourself with.

That said, I'm done.
May I respectfully ask a moderator to close this thread.
I'm done seeing this additional garbage made by the rebellious mental instability of some of the users here.

Thanks.
I'm sorry... but I thought this whole thread was supposed to be an apology, not a "process" that could be "derailed."
My bad.

Please do tell me, what perspective am I supposed to be cultivating on your apology, and does it require full sun, part sun, or shade? Fertilizer, perhaps? :rolleyes: I didn't realize I was contributing anything to this thread that it didn't already contain...

I'm just being a snarky pain in the posterior, bro. Chillax and don't take yourself so seriously. It's the Internet for crying out loud. And if you think Christians aren't allowed to be immature from time to time, perhaps we should personally escort you to the prayer room...

But seriously, I'm not hating. And I get how it would be easy to post this thread and get frustrated with the turn it's taken. But you intentions for posting this are totally muddled, your motives are unclear, and now you and everyone in here except those of us cheerfully posting away about God-created natural processes is butthurt. I personally suspect God probably puts more approval on the poop talk than most of the "otherwise serious discussion."

I think you should take up gardening. It's relaxing, and I think you'll find poop isn't as bad as you believe it is.
 
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You know, I'll add this.

I find it disgusting many of you are adding filth, spammy pictures, and nonsense to an otherwise serious discussion. You call yourselves Christans, but cant engage on a mature, hard-hitting perspective, and now you're derailing the whole process. It truly reflects how little character you carry yourself with.

That said, I'm done.
May I respectfully ask a moderator to close this thread.
I'm done seeing this additional garbage made by the rebellious mental instability of some of the users here.

Thanks.
You're all over the place. One day aggressive, the next apologetic; one day starting threads, the next wanting them closed. I think you should seek counseling and talk to a professional or two about your possibly having bipolar disorder, or worse.
 
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On edit: you're definitely narcissistic, and that doesn't jive with a Christian-centered life.
 
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And here we go folks....

Quote "I find it disgusting many of you are adding filth"

Please point to the filth you're talking about. And lets judge that against your own comment "
If you were cursed, God crapped on you."


Quote " spammy pictures, and nonsense to an otherwise serious discussion"

Folks thought you were done with your discussion and were lightening a tension filled thread.Follow along,its been a trend recently so no one was gunning for you.

Quote "
You call yourselves Christans".....It truly reflects how little character you carry yourself with.

So after all the things you've said in these forums under two different names you're going to judge us and say we aren't Christians. Thats nice. Folks here have defended you, in spite of your immature and many times,snarky attitude. I think you should at least be that gracious with others.

Quote "
cant engage on a mature, hard-hitting perspective"

When you bring a hard hitting mature thread up we'll happily discuss it. So far I haven't seen it.


Quote "
I'm done seeing this additional garbage made by the rebellious mental instability of some of the users here."

Could you be a little clearer about"
rebellious mental instability"? Based on some of the things you've posted,be honest,do you think you have the right to judge other peoples hearts and intents? People here have said they have forgiven you don't you think it would be mature of you to do the same?

I'll be waiting on that mature conversion you want to have.



Should I call the paramedics? I fear you've been holding your breath waiting.

Sorry, no oxygen tanks in my choice of emojis. This will have to do.



(I may have put the snark, in snarky.
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kaylagrl

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Should I call the paramedics? I fear you've been holding your breath waiting.

Sorry, no oxygen tanks in my choice of emojis. This will have to do.



(I may have put the snark, in snarky.
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No,I think you're a straight shooter.I dont think you're snarky. But like Utah said the OP has been accusatory of other posters and God one minute and apologizing the next just to loose it the next minute. If you've followed his posts under both names you'd see what I mean. So ya,Ive kinda been holding on to myself and Ive finally had enough now. Some folks just come to stir up trouble,they aren't sincere. The Op says he's hurting and then says nothing more. When the rest of us figure he's done with the tread he comes back to lash out again. I have a listening ear for a person that is sincere but people that just cause drama? No. There's a point when enough is enough. If he keeps it up he'll be banned for sure.
 
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No,I think you're a straight shooter.I dont think you're snarky. But like Utah said the OP has been accusatory of other posters and God one minute and apologizing the next just to loose it the next minute. If you've followed his posts under both names you'd see what I mean. So ya,Ive kinda been holding on to myself and Ive finally had enough now. Some folks just come to stir up trouble,they aren't sincere. The Op says he's hurting and then says nothing more. When the rest of us figure he's done with the tread he comes back to lash out again. I have a listening ear for a person that is sincere but people that just cause drama? No. There's a point when enough is enough. If he keeps it up he'll be banned for sure.
My enough-is-enough leash is much shorter than yours. (That patience thingy again. lol)

IF he ever changes, even in his next persona, the one after that, etc., I am willing, but I don't coo to get children past this --