Paster Women?

[Depleted]

Southside sugar and steak!


Lol, great vid and song!
Didn't understand a word of it.
Didn't care. Whistle my way anyday, lol.

I missed it a bit, timewise, but I'm kinda
missing the 60's-70's of peace and love,

maybe it went to far with too many people
sharing sox, (I wouldn't know ), but it seemed
like people wore what they wore and there was

more freedom and less judgementalism, and at least
The IDEA of love one anotherwas there,
not so many sticks in the mud.

Summer's coming, I'm looking to get out
from under the winter wraps, but uh-oh...
Sometimes less is more. Help me, Lord.
(sigh) That's just my long (pants) and shorts of it)

Sharing Sox? I thought we shared

 

[nu2see]

Better leave them on your head there.
Hey that's the solution for men that get bothered by how women look.

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Bean! GBU, coby!
Btw, Love the new avatar, handsome!

 

[coby]

Just some fun facts.....

A peacock is a male bird.
It's called a peaCOCK, as in
'The cock of the walk',
being the most brightly
and ornate of the peafowl.

The female is known as a peahen,
and is less flamboyant.

The expression, 'pretty as a peacock'
actually refers to the male of the species.

Now, excuse me, but warm weather is approaching,
and I need to find my green and purple shorts.
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Find the peacock.

Phiet phew! Finally a man who gets it.

 

[Depleted]

I am not blaming woman for a mans misconduct Lynn !!
Buts lets talk real world here. If a woman dresses a certain way, she is provoking attention. What woman is blind to that?
I will admit that it may not always be because she is vying for the attention of men, but who can deny it very well may be, and that she is then a factor in causing temptation?
What is the problem with modesty?

Apparently, the problem is not everyone sees modest the same. You saw my picture. Immodest? If my shirt was button-down, and the top button isn't button, then is that immodest? Next button? Next?

How about guys? First button? Second button? No shirt?

Honestly? When I got wolf calls even looking like me, I stopped thinking it was me. I stopped thinking that in the 1970's when I was a disco diva.

Did you just go with that image? Well, I was disco, but dressed more like KC from KC and the Sunshine Band. (And, yes. I was vying. And yes, it did work. I'm still married to the type of man I was vying for. Someone who thinks I'm cute still. Better yet. He prefers me who I am besides my looks.)

If women have to stay home because a burka is too revealing, (and, in some countries that really is the law), then it stops being the woman's problem.

It's the man's problem. Feel free to figure it out for the men, because this diva gave up trying decades ago.

 

[BeyondET]

Are you saying God is he/she.... hermaphrodite?

hermaphrodites are of creatures not spiritual

 

[Depleted]

We had women in church who dressed so immodest, even with a wedding, my ex asked them to put on a jacket.
Heard one man say he couldn't concentrate on the preaching because how the women dressed. I mean half open blouses or extremely tight, in church. Insane.
Sometimes I'm glad I'm a woman. They never bombard women with those pictures of men that you don't want to see.
There was a preacher here. He saw a billboard of an underwear commercial next to the highway. He said he needed prayer to get rid of the image. That's not a man's fault, but if they dress normal and men still have that I'd go for prayer.

I do not deny some women dress immodestly. How about, for a change, we do a thread on how some men dress immodestly? I think the men will end up the same way I feel -- I give up. Can't please everyone.

 

[coby]

I do not deny some women dress immodestly. How about, for a change, we do a thread on how some men dress immodestly? I think the men will end up the same way I feel -- I give up. Can't please everyone.

There's enough women that lust after men, but they never complain about it or blame them. A girl in my students' home watched soccer to look at those soccer players. Eehmm okay. Yeah I think men have to dress more modest. You may not give your sister a reason to stumble. Handsome men, make yourself look more ugly. Somehow the other way around it doesn't matter.

 

[AuntieAnt]

Really? You think I am basing my position because I have been brainwashed or in reaction to how I have personally been treated? You have no clue what kind of man I am.
Get out of the deep end of the pool before you drown. Shallow people, like you, should always be in the shallow end.

What you, and every other woman here that takes exception to my posts, doesn't understand or refuse to acknowledge is that women are vain creatures and they dress to be seen. Much like a peacock spreading its feathers to garner attention.
You think it is okay for joyce meyers to be a preacher? Fine. You think it is okay for her to wear tight jeans? Certainly not me, but some men might be attracted to her because of that. Tight jeans aren't comfortable. She dresses like that because the poor delusional woman thinks it makes her attractive.

Tell you a little story.
Few years ago I went to a new church at a friends request for wednesday nite service. It had several entrances so I waited for others to arrive so I could observe which door they went in. Didn't want to embarrass myself by going in the wrong entrance.
A woman pulled up in a parking place behind me in a late model chevy pickup. She proceeded to pull down the visor, which was a lighted mirror on the other side. She then took a good 7 or 8 minutes to carefully apply her makeup, then went in.
For church. She already had makeup on, she just went over it. For church. The ONLY reason for healthy women wearing makeup and being that fastidious about it is to be seen. That woman, like those of you here on the defensive, don't understand that you're walking in the flesh or don't care. You dress because you want others to look at you. To think you're pretty or attractive. You dress flashily and put on loud makeup for attention. If you're honest with yourself.
Maybe the preacher in that church never explained it to them. Women on here don't have the luxury of falling back on ignorance as excuse now. The object of living is to serve God and go to heaven. That's it. Period. Unless you're not saved.

Thank you for your kindness in explaining yourself, brother Phil. To be fair to you, I will explain the situation we women are put in.

When I lived for the world, I did dress provocatively to fit in. I was very shy and vulnerable, in fact afraid of men because of my abusive past. But it's drilled into your head from a little girl on up to adulthood to look a certain way. Your body parts, your hair, your height, your weight, your walk, your voice, the look on your face, your clothing, are constantly compared to other females. Most of the comments women hear from men our entire lives are regarding our outward appearance.

After I was saved, I heard the religious jargon about the body being a temple, dress to make Jesus “look appealing” to the world, brainwashed into believing I should dress up on Sundays out of respect for God, and I struggled to find a happy medium between keeping my husband’s eyes happy and not being a temptation to other men in the church. I tried to compare with the look of the pastor’s sweet and innocent "Proverbs 31 wife".

No matter what I did, I evidently missed the mark. Because it never stopped some men (and some women) criticizing me for something I failed to do. And it also didn’t guarantee I wouldn’t be made a pass at or groped by a guy in the church. My daughter was grabbed by a guy in the church and she was in puberty at the time.

Even on this site are provocative comments and pictures of what kind of females are attractive. And us women join in, too and treat one another like we’re cattle in a 4H contest. So you're right about vanity, Phil. It's next to impossible to break out of the mindset that we women are just physical objects to be desired.

Women are made to feel they must bring pleasure in some way or they are misfits or of little worth. If she isn’t someone to fantasize about, she isn’t worthy to pursue. If she's too attractive, she's a temptation.

Worst of all, we have to deal with the poison arrow of being at fault for men lusting. If they can see any of our curves, we’re a Jezebel. If we bend over to pick something up, we have to make sure not to face our backside toward you, not to bend toward you for fear you may see down our blouse, bend our knees enough so you don’t see up our skirt because all those things might make men lust. We must always be on the alert not to tempt you, 24/7.

If we pay attention to a man or speak sweetly, we may get accused of flirting. If we look you in the eye and smile when we see you, we may be trying to seduce you. If we shake your hand too firmly, we’re not feminine enough. If we hug you enthusiastically, we’re really making a pass. If we ignore you, we’re the “b” word.

Don’t you realize what bondage it is to make a woman constantly aware of not making men lust? Wouldn’t it be easier for men to just look at women the way Jesus does? NOT in the flesh, but as a spiritual child of God who happens to be in the bodily form God created her? Phil, we women need you men to stand and protect and lift us up above worldly physical standards. We need you to address other men to treat us like sisters and mothers and not as objects. We need you to look at us women honorably and lovingly with the eyes of Jesus.

The “weaker vessel” doesn’t mean God made women wimpy second-class partners. A weaker vessel refers to the tackle and armament of ships, used specifically of sails and ropes and equipping military forces for war. In other words, the husband is the head, the wife is what turns the head. The man is like a ship of war in this world, the wife is what’s equipping that ship and keeping it from going down. They work together, different roles, equal partners.

Husbands can't blame a wife for not being a good enough helper when he is criticizing her, comparing her to other women, shooting arrows at her, ignoring her, making jokes about her, neglecting her needs. In fact, men are told to take care of their wife’s needs first, love her, dwell with her in peace, treat her honorably, being faithful to her in word and deed, and treating other women like sisters and mothers. When you love your wife, you're loving yourself, Christ said.

Today I wear whatever clothes are comfortable & the colors and material makes me happy. I don’t wanna worry about what I wear because it’s a waste of time. I would rather give my full attention to you, Phil and to others and show kindness and love rather than be self-conscious and dwelling on myself.

I'm in training to see Jesus in everyone and it’s such a joyful way of life. Praise God He's teaching us His perfect ways!!

If we're dwelling on the outward man and acknowledging people according to their flesh, we're like the kid in that movie, The Sixth Sense.




Because that’s what we'd be seeing in people, the old dead man. We need to see people in the spirit with the mind of Christ. Don't you agree with that, Phil?

 

[Magenta]

Much love to you, Auntie, for that wonderful post So much truth and wisdom!

 

[Depleted]

Really? You think I am basing my position because I have been brainwashed or in reaction to how I have personally been treated? You have no clue what kind of man I am.
Get out of the deep end of the pool before you drown. Shallow people, like you, should always be in the shallow end.

What you, and every other woman here that takes exception to my posts, doesn't understand or refuse to acknowledge is that women are vain creatures and they dress to be seen. Much like a peacock spreading its feathers to garner attention.
You think it is okay for joyce meyers to be a preacher? Fine. You think it is okay for her to wear tight jeans? Certainly not me, but some men might be attracted to her because of that. Tight jeans aren't comfortable. She dresses like that because the poor delusional woman thinks it makes her attractive.

Tell you a little story.
Few years ago I went to a new church at a friends request for wednesday nite service. It had several entrances so I waited for others to arrive so I could observe which door they went in. Didn't want to embarrass myself by going in the wrong entrance.
A woman pulled up in a parking place behind me in a late model chevy pickup. She proceeded to pull down the visor, which was a lighted mirror on the other side. She then took a good 7 or 8 minutes to carefully apply her makeup, then went in.
For church. She already had makeup on, she just went over it. For church. The ONLY reason for healthy women wearing makeup and being that fastidious about it is to be seen. That woman, like those of you here on the defensive, don't understand that you're walking in the flesh or don't care. You dress because you want others to look at you. To think you're pretty or attractive. You dress flashily and put on loud makeup for attention. If you're honest with yourself.
Maybe the preacher in that church never explained it to them. Women on here don't have the luxury of falling back on ignorance as excuse now. The object of living is to serve God and go to heaven. That's it. Period. Unless you're not saved.

You've given a very large dose of what kind of man you are. And you still are. You're the peacock. You're so full of yourself you don't even get women can't be peacocks. We would be peahens.

Peacock

Peahen

Really funny now that the peacock is telling the peahens what we're doing without even noticing -- our plumes aren't up. Yours are. And it's Las Vegas gaudy. You insult Joyce Meyer, AuntieAnt, me, and all the woman on this site again and again with NO substance! Just your self-righteous sense of indignation as you prove over and over again, you ARE the one who has problems with women. Always checking out the hookers, the self-help gurus, and now some woman in a parking lot going to church.

Since obviously you feel qualified to keep ripping women apart, I will no longer look for rectification here. You are an anathema.

I've been angry with many people on this site. There are some I simply don't like. I have been raped IRL. I have been lied about IRL that cost me my job. (And, because I got the truth to the bosses, they did believe me, but couldn't take e back, so the president of the company did me a solid and recommended me to a friend to get me my next job, so it really was a lie.) I have been mistreated often, but you are the first person I ever labeled that one. I don't take the word lightly, and if I have my way, (which rarely happens), you won't be on this site long.

No woman should ever be made to feel the way you have purposely worked at causing some of us to feel. You just insulted AuntieAnt! You've insulted all of us and you don't even know us. Not to be taken lightly at all.

 

[ramx2016]

LOL... Oh NO! not this again.....:/

 

[coby]

did I write something to make you think of a woman's naked behind?

shorts can go to the knee..your mind went to the naked body part

what a hypocrite !!

I have had PLENTY of experience with men oogling me. Christian men not excluded. I have been propsitioned by a married Christian man, had a married pastor with 5 kids and one on the way who went goofy around me to the point his wife would look at me with hatred...I was involved in the Sunday School and music ministry...he wanted me to take the secretary position (I'm not a secretary)...you think I took it?

I have LITERALLY done like Joseph and walked away...although I never left my coat...but I did leave that church.

I have been hit on over and over and over...so guess what? I'm good looking. Now guess what else? I have never ever used my looks for ANYTHING!!! But plenty of men have made attempts at me simply because of how I look

Guess what else? I dress MODESTLY in church...can't help how I look. I dress however I want at home. I am married and my husband laughs when he sees men looking after me. Guess I would not want to be ugly...but don't tell me how I should dress when it has never made any difference

I could go on...but then women here will hate me...cause that is the other side of the coin. Christian women often will dislike a good looking woman.

Wanna know why? Because of their CHRISTIAN husbands with the wandering eyes.

Since you have such a big imagination, I suppose you will lie awake tonight wondering what I look like

some of you men are such hypocrites that you have no idea what a load of what bulls do in a field you really are

I make an innocent post and you see a woman's naked behind

take the log out of your own eye...

If you're good looking it's never good. If you don't want to get bothered you can dress and look like a guy and still it doesn't help and they'll complain women may not dress like a man.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=m3uWnja5ssQ

 

[ember]

But when the people of the land shall come before the LORD in the solemn
feasts, he that entereth in by the way of the north gate to worship shall go
out by the way of the south gate; and he that entereth by the way of the south
gate shall go forth by the way of the north gate: he shall not return by the
way of the gate whereby he came in, but shall go forth over against it.
Ezekiel 46:9

If you had one or two million people going to the temple mount and if the temple mount is 36 acres then you are going to have some serious traffic control problems getting home. The reason God wants us to enter in one way and to leave another way is because we are to be changed as Christians so my discernment is the word and your discernment is to stay the same.

you should know I have no respect for you after reading your misogynistic posts

 

[Depleted]

This whole idea that men learning things
about God from women would cause them
to become effeminate is just thilly. Er, Silly.
I'm outta here, I got a concrete wall to repair!
(where's my purse?)

Your purse is in one of the cinderblocks you already set in place.

 

[AuntieAnt]

Really? You think I am basing my position because I have been brainwashed or in reaction to how I have personally been treated? You have no clue what kind of man I am.

You are absolutely right. I don't know your heart and it was ignorant and unkind of me to make those comments about your past. I'm really sorry I posted that, Phil.

 

[coby]

Nu2see is right. The sixties were much better. Wasn't there a revival with those hippies?
I like his clothes and the music:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=fs1-SEfUHSs

 

[ember]

If you're good looking it's never good. If you don't want to get bothered you can dress and look like a guy and still it doesn't help and they'll complain women may not dress like a man.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=m3uWnja5ssQ

I deleted that post

I wish you had not quoted it but it's not your fault

please delete it if it's not too late

 

[BeyondET]

Pots calling kettles (((((((((((((((((((black))))))))))))))))))))))he said she she said he

 

[ember]

I just came to the conclusion that women must be God's masterpiece

why else would the devil try so hard to distort something beautiful that God made?

some of you so called men here are exactly the reason why your wives are unhappy

you blame women, but really little boys...it's you

 

[Depleted]

Just some fun facts.....

A peacock is a male bird.
It's called a peaCOCK, as in
'The cock of the walk',
being the most brightly
and ornate of the peafowl.

The female is known as a peahen,
and is less flamboyant.

The expression, 'pretty as a peacock'
actually refers to the male of the species.

Now, excuse me, but warm weather is approaching,
and I need to find my green and purple shorts.
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Find the peacock.

Oops. Didn't get here yet when I taught my lesson in basic zoology.

But, if you're going to wear green and purple shorts, (and on your head or in the traditional location?), which boas goes well with those shorts?

This one?

Or this one?

I think both are dashing with purple and blue shorts.