I don't care whether or not life begins at conception...it's cells dividing...it has no personality, it has no...anything... I think you cheapen life by relating a full grown human or even a new born baby with that of a speck on a laboratory slide.... If allowed to continue to grow, it will be a kid that people will care about, but funeral services for a blob seems...silly to me... Death is a better option than suffering.
Have you ever grieved with a family who lost their child in the womb....even at 12 weeks? I'm guessing not.