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AJ52

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im new here and this quesion has probably been asked..but is kissing consider an "adulterous" act...i have heard both sides...from its ok to kiss to dont kiss,it might lead to "something else"...



so what do you say??? yay or nay..
 
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CatWoman

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If a man told me he loved me and wouldnt kiss me I wouldnt beleive he loved me. Kissing is an expression of love. I can see how it would lead to other things .I also heard that necking is from the neck up. If you make that clear to your partner Im sure they will understand. If not let that person go. You want a person that respects your boundries.
 
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sportygirl

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I dont think kissing is bad on its own, but it does have the potential to lead to some bad things. You have to set boundries for yourself prior to getting into a relationship, if you don't than its hard to set them later. This is what I struggled with in my last relationship I didn't know when I wanted to stop so just let him kind of take control of that area, and in the end it was too much but I didnt know that till afterwards. Now I have clear boundries, and I think kissing in that ideal is ok.
 
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Not_The_Righteous

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Not an adulterous act, though not something to be done flippantly, either.

And by "kissing," I don't mean having your mugs glued together for several minutes at a time. Making hard and fast rules that don't confront the heart behind actions is generally just a path to legalism. Well intentioned, sure, but the result is the same arbitrary, external "line" that doesn't address the real issue of the heart.
 
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kiwi_OT

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Kissing is fine in my book - but as a male, stay away from the neck and ears as thats a sensitive area for us girls (in my opinion).
 
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christiancollegegirl

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I like kissing and being kissed, but I'd never kiss a guy I wasn't dating. Kisses are a sign of affection, not something to be given away freely.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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Kissing is fine as long as the person doesnt have halitosis.
 
loveschild

loveschild

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Never seen men kiss without wanting to crab below the neck.
 
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christiancollegegirl

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Seeing 2 men or 2 women kiss gives me asco.
 
Scotty

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CatWoman said:
If a man told me he loved me and wouldnt kiss me I wouldnt beleive he loved me. Kissing is an expression of love. I can see how it would lead to other things .I also heard that necking is from the neck up. If you make that clear to your partner Im sure they will understand. If not let that person go. You want a person that respects your boundries.
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You know. There are other ways to show a person you love them other than kissing. I personally don't believe in kissing before marriage. I've had my girlfriend for almost 5 years and we never onced kissed.
 
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