A helper fit for me?. -Gen.2:18

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Levan

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#41
Have dominion over the earth meaning having a real life, full of real adventures,
haunt, throw a net for fish,
plant a garden,
Ride a horse,
have a horse!
Swim into the sea,
Use the ground that the Lord has given you for your physical life and rejoice over the things that you have created.
Drink, eat, love your spouse and children,
Love other peoples children too.
Be bold and never ever stop to think how do you appear in other people's minds.
 
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coby2

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#42
Have dominion over the earth meaning having a real life, full of real adventures,
haunt, throw a net for fish,
plant a garden,
Ride a horse,
have a horse!
Swim into the sea,
Use the ground that the Lord has given you for your physical life and rejoice over the things that you have created.
Drink, eat, love your spouse and children,
Love other peoples children too.
Be bold and never ever stop to think how do you appear in other people's minds.
I thought it was having authority over the devil and get the harvest in. You don't necessarily need to be married for that. Corrie ten Boom did quite a good job single. She had the gift of singleness. Be fruitful is not only kids, but spiritual kids. One couple here couldn't get kids but they have so many spiritual kids.
 
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Levan

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#43
No, it's not about Devil ; DD
 

Born_Again

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#44
One day, after you have made many mistakes, you will look back at your opinions on this day and say "wow, what was I thinking"

Many of us have been there. I was married at 22. Guess what... I'm not now. I'm 33 years old and have the last 11 years to reflect on where I messed up because I rushed into things. Now, I don't want to be anywhere near a relationship. Tinkerbell has some of the best answers on here. We spend too much time chasing happiness. God provides what we need. He also puts us through the trials necessary to become the person He created us to be.

Slow, down. Persevere. When its time, if it is His will, He will lead you to the person He has chosen for you. In HIS time, and not a moment sooner.
 
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Levan

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#45
Re: Born_Again

That must be what I think the hell is all about: a state when a person doesn't want to be anywhere near a relationship.
You're in no position to judge between good and evil. Jesus Christ came to seek what was perished & lost, so that he might draw all human beings to himself and raise all up on the last day.
The Kingdom of God is all about relationships.
You're hurt and I understand. But please, re-evaluate your thoughts on relationships. Because you cut off yourself from God the moment you stop having relationships with people. It's impossible to Love God except through human beings.
-1 John 4:20
 

Born_Again

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#46
Re: Born_Again

That must be what I think the hell is all about: a state when a person doesn't want to be anywhere near a relationship.
You're in no position to judge between good and evil. Jesus Christ came to seek what was perished & lost, so that he might draw all human beings to himself and raise all up on the last day.
The Kingdom of God is all about relationships.
You're hurt and I understand. But please, re-evaluate your thoughts on relationships. Because you cut off yourself from God the moment you stop having relationships with people. It's impossible to Love God except through human beings.
-1 John 4:20
Huh? And, I don't recall saying I don't love people.. The love of Christ and the love you seem to be advocating are two different things... You don't want to get into a theology and scriptural context debate on here... You are already out of context. But there is a forum on here for that too! They'd love to meet you. :D
 
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Levan

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#47
Don't you know your ex is also gonna be in the paradise? -That's why He said, „Love your enemies“. -Cause, y'know, they'll gonna be there
 
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coby2

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#48
Don't you know your ex is also gonna be in the paradise? -That's why He said, „Love your enemies“. -Cause, y'know, they'll gonna be there
Look, if you could know that if you marry so and so she's gonna cheat on you and take your kids and then your heart is ripped apart but you forgive her and you all live happily ever after in heaven, wouldn't you rather listen to God, hey God, is this a faithful person, are we both whole enough to make a marriage work, is this the one You have for me and is it Your time?
It's just a tip to avoid unnecessary drama. If you have to have someone now, doesn't matter who, you have a bigger chance it won't work.
 
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Levan

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#49
The Lord desires mercy, not sacrifice.
We're are placed in this space & time, without the real presence of God, to learn two things:
1. I said in my heart with regard to the children of man that God is testing them that they may see that they themselves are but beasts. -Ecclesiastes 3:18
2. To see ourselves as beasts and have mercy on all people.

Therefore, exes and deceivers and all kinds of wicked people are here in our life to be shown mercy and undeserved divine love by us.
We shouldn't avoid anybody. All these sufferings are temporal.

Jesus loved all kinds of people.
But. .more importantly, all kinds of people. .loved Jesus.
Prostitutes & tax-collectors were crazy about Him, Jesus even said that it's prostitutes that are going to enter into the kingdom of God firstly.
-Of course they will. God's caring should be with the last & least of these. . first.

It's so normal to avoid problematic people.
The real Christians are above all these normal & boring choices.