Ok so whenever I make a new thread or reply to someone else thread, there's this 60 year old lady who won't leave me alone at all. She refuses to stop replying to my messages (not pm) I've told her I don't need her help with anything and that she needs to stop saying things to me. She's super judgmental it's unbelievable. I feel like she's "stalking" me. It's like she wants my attention and I guess make me feel upset or something idk but she's super annoying and I want to know if there's a way I can immediately block her or delete my CC account. Please.....and I'm positive she'll respond to this thread of mines as well.
Stalker...?
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Click on the name, then view profile and then you can put someone on your ignore list. If you want your profile removed you can ask a mod. I sent Oncefallen a pm and it was removed immediately. Click on his name and send a pm, or some other mod:
http://christianchat.com/christian-singles-forum/91055-new-users-read-before-posting.html
http://christianchat.com/christian-singles-forum/91055-new-users-read-before-posting.html
K
You can put someone on ignore,as Coby has said. If you are referring to Blue Ladybug, she is not known for being judgement,and certainly not a stalker. What she is known for is telling the truth and telling it like it is. If you have been untruthful,she will call you on it. You can block her but there are others here who will do the same thing.People call you out when you need to be.If you're not mature enough to handle that the best thing you can do is delete your account.
K
as others have said, use ignore (I use it all the time, if I didn't, I'd have gotten myself banned years ago 
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also, it is better to contact a mod than to hint as to which member you have a problem with
)also, it is better to contact a mod than to hint as to which member you have a problem with
Ok maybe not a stalker but why does she literally finds me no matter who's thread I've responded to, then she replys to my comment? I told her days ago I don't want her messaging me (not pm) so why doesn't she listen? What is your definition of judging? Untruthful is lying but I've never lied about anything. That woman is annoying.
K
Quote from You "I'm thinking about doing the same thing. CC was nothing like I've expected. I tell a story about my problem and I get messages on my thread saying, "how could you do that" "that's so illegal" "you're only thinking about yourself" and lots more comments like that. Instead of them trying to help me, they were being very judgemental and rude. They didn't even give me props that I've stopped doing what I have been doing and am working on to become a better person. Someone even asked why am I here. I'm here to share my stories and hoping to receive some positive messages and great advice. And nice people to pm as well. I won't say all of them were rude just a couple and they won't stop replying to my thread telling me rude things and I don't know what to do for them to stop. So..... I guess I'll let this thing delete on its own. I do not like CC anymore at all and I do not recommend this to anyone else. Btw the main judgemental ones were the older people. 50-80 years old age. I definitely didn't expect that. They need to grow up seriously. But then again old people are always this way from my experiences."
Quote from Blue Ladybug "That is absolutely not true. Stop lying, Brittany. Several people gave you credit for trying to change. You obviously didn't read them. We just told you truth and you didn't like it...Do what you want regarding CC, but don't sit there and lie about the people who tried to help you.
Quote from You "Shhhhh lair. I'm not wasting my time reading all that bs."
It appears the thread you were taking about has been removed. I did read some of it where you admitted to catfishing online. There lady blue called you out which you did not like. Put her on ignore but people will still call you out if you dont tell the truth or you are doing something against what the Bible teaches.Blue is not a stalker,she called you out and you didn't like it.
K
People have a right to answer any post.You cannot stop a person from answering. Put her on ignore and leave it at that.I dont see from your posts where she has followed you everywhere. She has called you out though.I dont see where she is judging you but again,put her on ignore if you cant handle her directness. If you put your life out there different people will have different opinions,many of which you will not like. The only way to solve that is to keep your private life private and dont share it online.
Hello.... Well I like to say I have read post /thread the one about the catfish problem and it seem to me blue ladybug wasn't the only one to judge. Example would be "I don't like to sound judgemental, but it was a big mistake" that is the perfect example of being judgmental and that's what she has done. Brittany did say it was a mistake and that she wants to change. She did not need anyone to tell her it was so wrong of her to do such a thing if she knows it herself already. I know that thread is old now but it really upset me how they were attacking her and denying the fact that they were the wrong ones. I'm not blaming this all on blue ladybug but she was the one to constantly tell her over and over how she can get into a lot of trouble with the law for catfishing until Brittany agreed with her. She didn't have to beat up on her that way but maybe she didn't intend to. She was going too far and if someone tells you to leave them alone, just do it. Just though I'd share my point of view
K
Hello.... Well I like to say I have read post /thread the one about the catfish problem and it seem to me blue ladybug wasn't the only one to judge. Example would be "I don't like to sound judgemental, but it was a big mistake" that is the perfect example of being judgmental and that's what she has done. Brittany did say it was a mistake and that she wants to change. She did not need anyone to tell her it was so wrong of her to do such a thing if she knows it herself already. I know that thread is old now but it really upset me how they were attacking her and denying the fact that they were the wrong ones. I'm not blaming this all on blue ladybug but she was the one to constantly tell her over and over how she can get into a lot of trouble with the law for catfishing until Brittany agreed with her. She didn't have to beat up on her that way but maybe she didn't intend to. She was going too far and if someone tells you to leave them alone, just do it. Just though I'd share my point of view
I'm trying to find the thread so I can read more on it.I browsed it but did not give it full attention.If you can find it,please link it here.I do not think it is fair to call someone a name and not provide the evidence. She should have PMed Lady Blue and dealt with it in private instead of involving all CC. If anyone can link that thread,please do.
K
No,Im not her twin but I do know her and she's not known for being judgmental and putting people down.She is straightforward. You can put your life online but people will respond differently.Not everyone is going to give you a pat on the back and tell you you are right. Sometimes you're not going to want to hear what people say. As far as what she said to you I'm going to leave alone until I find the thread or someone else does. Im not about to get into an argument with you.I want the posts so I can be 100% sure what was being said and you can explain what you said and so can she.
Oh no you didn't read it all?? Lol it was beaucoup to read but I did eating popcorn and things gotten heated fast. But then some lady came and closed the thread. Yes she probably should have private message her instead good idea. From all the things Brittany have posted, she sounds like a great person who made one little mistake and thought she could turn to CC for help but all people did was bash her. Not everyone but most. You have to be careful about what you share with anyone on the internet.
Are you sure? She may not be known for being judgmental but she was being exactly that. Really?? I'm thinking you read everything. You don't know what you're talking about then. When you do see the thread, you will see exactly what I'm talking about. I don't know why you're taking her side maybe because you both are ridiculously old. Old people never seem to like younger people :/