Everything has to be done by the will of God,and God told Eve,because of what she did,she will suffer during labor of a child,and the husband shall have the rule over her,but everything has to be done according to the will of God,so the man has nowhere to glory.
God's authority structure on earth,is God,Christ,man,woman,and the angels,for people will have a higher position in heaven than that of the angels,which the angels are ministering spirits to all that shall inherit salvation,and the angels desire to look in to the salvation of the saints,for the saints will have glorified bodies,like Christ,and rule in the millennial reign of Christ,a privilege the angels will never have.
But the authority structure is according to the agenda of God,which if a man does according to that,it would be the same as if she is listening to God,for it is not according to his agenda,so he has nowhere to glory,and nowhere to control.
Also Jesus said that he that is the greatest,let him be a servant,which Jesus said He is the greatest of all,but became a servant to mankind,so the man would be the servant of the woman,to lead in the right way,and the man is to love his wife,as Christ loves the Church,and the Bible says she is a help mate.
The authority structure of God is so things run smooth,without people fighting over who should be in control,like the saying too many chiefs,but not enough indians.
But the Bible says in the Lord,a man and a woman,are equal,for their is no authority structure in heaven,between a man,and a woman,for the only thing that separates a man,and a woman,is the flesh,the soul,and the spirit,are the same,so that authority structure only applies on earth.
But the world,or people claiming Christ,being worldly,do not like that authority structure,but the man,and the woman,like to exalt themselves,and battle for control,with men abusing that authority,and trying to have control,and be the boss,in a way that God did not give that authority,because it is done according to the agenda of God,and not the man,and the woman abuses her position by trying to have control,and be the boss,so in the world it cannot apply,or not apply too well,because the world is about exalting themselves,and doing what they want.
But I can understand where a woman is coming from,because so many men like to control in a way that God did not intend,and they get frustrated with it,so they will retaliate back,like children obey your parents,but God said for the parents to not provoke their children to wrath,which do not act stupid,or in a way not right according to how parents should act,because the children might rebel.
Everything is to be done according to the agenda of God,so the man has nowhere to glory,for he cannot control,according to what he wants,and the woman is a help mate,and can put in her input,and the husband is to love his wife,as the Lord loves the Church,so it should not be we are doing this today,and shut your mouth,because I am the man,and we are going here today,and shut your mouth,because I am the man,because it should be what do you want to do wife,and they should both have their way alternatively,for fairness,and the man should not say whatever I want.