I've learned a trick for pain.
The trick is...not minding that it hurts~ Lawrence of Arabia
When we mind the pain, we falter, we fall into self-pity, self-doubt, become wretched as our pain. But if we allow ourselves to feel the pain of life, experience it without fear or trepidation, then we endure it, can learn from it, and leave ourselves open to feeling joy, love, open to experience beauty and peace.
Pain is ephemeral, even emotional pain. It is love that endures.