GOD DOESN'T CARE

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p_rehbein

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Have you ever felt that way? When the whole world seems to be lined up against you, and whatever you do, it never seems to work out? You find yourself wondering if God even cares. I believe, at one time or another, we have all found ourselves in such a situation, in such a time in our lives.

I want to assure you, from the bottom of my heart, but, more importantly, from the bottom if His heart. GOD CARES!

From the very beginning, God has cared about and cared for His children. So many Scriptures remind us, teach us, that this is Truth.

Remember the Hebrew slaves in Egypt? Phillip Yancey once wrote about this, and I want to expand on what he wrote. The Hebrew slaves were convinced God had forsaken them in their most dire times of need, but God had not. Scriptures tell us this is so.

Deuteronomy 31:6) Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the LORD thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee.

And, again in Hebrews 13:5)
Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.

God Himself said: Isaiah 49:15)
Can a woman forget her sucking child, that she should not have compassion on the son of her womb? yea, they may forget, yet will I not forget thee.
16 .) Behold, I have graven thee upon the palms of my hands; thy walls are continually before me.

God sent Isaiah to bring the Hebrew slaves His message of hope, of salvation! Isaiah told them of what God promised them. These promises are sometimes referred to as "the Servant Songs," and are found in Chapters 42 - 53 of the Book of Isaiah.

In these "promises," God reveals the hope for their deliverance, and, most important, the prophetic revelation of the coming of Jesus Christ Himself!

Isaiah 53:1)
Who hath believed our report? and to whom is the arm of the LORD revealed?
2 .) For he shall grow up before him as a tender plant, and as a root out of a dry ground: he hath no form nor comeliness; and when we shall see him, there is no beauty that we should desire him.

We can also look to the New Testament for the assurance that God cares about us.

Matthew 6:25 thru 30 teaches us this. Vs. 25)
Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?

And verses 33 and 34 give us His promise.

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But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
34 .) Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.

In Matthew, Chapter 7, Jesus tells us: 7)
Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:
8 .) For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.
9 .) Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone?
10 .) Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent?
11 .) If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?

And, again, in Matthew 21, verse 22)
And all things, whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive.

Not only does God care, He loves us! He loves us with an unconditional and undying love!

John 3:16)
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

Romans 5:6)
For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.
7 .) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die.
8 .) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
9 .) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him.
10 .) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life.
11 .) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.

1 Timothy 2:4)
For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour;
4 .) Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth.

and, again in....

2 Peter 3:9)
The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.

So, when we find ourselves in such a spiritual state of doubt and despair, this is the time we need to turn to God. To praise Him, and to find the blessed assurance that GOD CARES!

1 Peter 2:2)
As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:
3 .) If so be ye have tasted that the Lord is gracious.
4 .) To whom coming, as unto a living stone, disallowed indeed of men, but chosen of God, and precious,
5 .) Ye also, as lively stones, are built up a spiritual house, an holy priesthood, to offer up spiritual sacrifices, acceptable to God by Jesus Christ.
6 .) Wherefore also it is contained in the scripture, Behold, I lay in Sion a chief corner stone, elect, precious: and he that believeth on him shall not be confounded.
7 .) Unto you therefore which believe he is precious: but unto them which be disobedient, the stone which the builders disallowed, the same is made the head of the corner,
8 .) And a stone of stumbling, and a rock of offence, even to them which stumble at the word, being disobedient: whereunto also they were appointed.
9 .) But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light:
10 .) Which in time past were not a people, but are now the people of God: which had not obtained mercy, but now have obtained mercy.

May God bless and keep you and yours.


 
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a really great and encouraging post

yes...I have felt at times that God does not care...as you write and that many people go through that

I want to assure you, from the bottom of my heart, but, more importantly, from the bottom if His heart. GOD CARES!

From the very beginning, God has cared about and cared for His children. So many Scriptures remind us, teach us, that this is Truth.
I think of things Jesus said...like...the very hairs on our head are numbered and that God sees even the sparrow fall, so how much more does our heavenly Father care for us
 
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That's sweet, thank you for the time it took to put this together!
 
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RobbyEarl

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Consider the lily's how they never work or toil. I say to you that not even King Solomon was arrayed as one of these. Yet when the Sun heats they wither. How much more will your father look after you.

Or consider they sparrows how God feeds them and cares for them . How much more doe's your Father care for you?
 

blue_ladybug

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Many times in my life, I have felt that God doesn't care about me. I know he does, but sometimes it sure don't feel that way..
 

p_rehbein

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I found this........

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RobbyEarl

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God doe's that sometimes to see if you really trust Him. Read the Song of Solomon.
 

JesusLives

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This verse is special to me....I don't like to cry but I have done my share of it.....God does care...

Psalm 56:8New Living Translation (NLT)[SUP]8 [/SUP]You keep track of all my sorrows.[SUP][a][/SUP]
You have collected all my tears in your bottle.
You have recorded each one in your book.
 
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RobbyEarl

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8 Thou tellest my wanderings: put thou my tears into thy bottle: are they not in thy book?
9 When I cry unto thee, then shall mine enemies turn back: this I know; for God is for me.
10 In God will I praise his word: in the Lord will I praise his word.
11 In God have I put my trust: I will not be afraid what man can do unto me.
 
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[h=1]Hosea 11:8[/h]How can I give you up, O Ephraim? How can I surrender you, O Israel? How can I make you like Admah? How can I treat you like Zeboiim? My heart is turned over within Me, All My compassions are kindled.

Scripture has lots of verses about how God's children breaks His heart. Some words according to Hebrew references, describe it as a child sobbing so deeply he can barely catch his breath. How important it is to consider, and to teach to the young ones, He cares more than we can possibly know.

Good thread/topic!
 
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Matthew 6

25 Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?
26 Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they?
27 Which of you by taking thought can add one cubit unto his stature?
 

RickyZ

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God does indeed truly care.

People confuse that with the fact that He is not in charge here.

He cared so much that He put repeated warnings into His word about how the world will treat us:

James 4:4
Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? Whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.

1 John 2:15
Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.

John 15:19
If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.

John 12:25
Anyone who loves their life will lose it, while anyone who hates their life in this world will keep it for eternal life.

2 Corinthians 12:10
That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

1 Corinthians 4
[SUP]11 [/SUP]Even unto this present hour we both hunger, and thirst, and are naked, and are buffeted, and have no certain dwelling place; [SUP]12 [/SUP]And labor, working with our own hands: being reviled, we bless; being persecuted, we suffer it: [SUP]13 [/SUP]Being defamed, we entreat: we are made as the filth of the world, and are the off scouring of all things unto this day. [SUP]14 [/SUP]I write not these things to shame you, but as my beloved sons I warn you."

1 Thessalonians 3
7 Therefore, brothers and sisters, in all our distress and persecution we were encouraged about you because of your faith. 8 For now we really live, since you are standing firm in the Lord.

Philippians 1
21 For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain. 22 If I am to go on living in the body, this will mean fruitful labor for me. Yet what shall I choose? I do not know! 23 I am torn between the two: I desire to depart and be with Christ, which is better by far; 24 but it is more necessary for you that I remain in the body. 25 Convinced of this, I know that I will remain, and I will continue with all of you for your progress and joy in the faith


1 Thessalonians 3
7 Therefore, brothers and sisters, in all our distress and persecution we were encouraged about you because of your faith. 8 For now we really live, since you are standing firm in the Lord.


Those times when you think God doesn't care about us - what you're really experiencing is how the world doesn't care for us.
 
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Many times in my life, I have felt that God doesn't care about me. I know he does, but sometimes it sure don't feel that way..
Lady Blue You are not a one in a million kind of ladybug, You are a once in a lifetime kind of blueLadySuperBird
 

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Though he slay me, yet will I trust in him: but I will maintain mine own ways before him. KJV Job 13:15

His slaying me may appear as if God does not care, but faith hangs on to God despite all appearances to the contrary. If anyone had reason to claim 'God does not care' it is Job, and yet instead he gave this beautiful proclamation, "Though He slay me yet will I trust Him.

Job knew that through it all ...God Cares!
 

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It is all about what is real, And what is real is we sometimes doubt. Reality of circumstantial dry seasons that we can't understand, Christ must wrought out in us.

It is a great revelation to accept the truth that in our limitations in Christ; Christ rises above it to love us steadfastly and earnestly. John the baptist is a good example of this revelation, as well as Lazarus.

We must be honest also in the fact there are times in our lives when we would like Jesus to go bless the neighbor temporarily, so we can take a time out with God and do our desires.. Over the span of our life we have all taken it upon ourselves to time God out, or shut Him out. We have no problem being our own God of omission. But, later, we have difficulties and we then turn and ask, "Where is God? Is He Absent, Apathetic, and Angry with me?"

Our circumstances have us pause to see the endless disappointments that seem to have turned to a cemented resolve of despair. We begin to stop moving forward and upward and become introspective and ask, "What can I do when there's nothing I can do? Ugh!" Some things we know can be resolved by our effort thru obedience as God creates in us His answers, but some circumstances are seemingly permanent. What do we do with those issues? Our tension we try to deny and we become more agitated with God as our concerns and disappointments leak out of us into our demeanor and Character.

We say, "But this is just the way it is now..." We say it about many of the different seasons of dryness in things like: relationships, kids, financial issues, professional issues, health issues, academic limitations. And ironically our options to answer them makes things even worse. How do we solve loneliness? Usually in ways that are more unhealthy emotionally and Spiritually that create in themselves other dark issues.. Internal battles become platformed by Satan's subtle entry in our minds in the area of jealousy, resentfulness, and anger.

Ironically we see others having testimonies of answered prayers, like someone who finds their keys, after absorbed prayers, and we pop internally; we leak our anger and say to ourselves, "Really? His keys?... while my wife and kids, (or any issue on that list), are being devastated? Please!" And Satan suggests that you will never be happy again. Nothing good can come from this! And don't give me a Hallmark card and say it will; suggesting "all things turn out for good for those who love Jesus".. You just don't understand my situation!.

You have given up on hope and start to just look for relief. Relief in venting your problems to others without faithful forward and upward movement toward God's refuge. You say, "If only I can get some calm reassurance that God knows about this!" Is He absent, apathetic, and angry with me?" "What can I do to get His attention?"

This is nothing new in the history of man, Scripture, too, examples this. "If I could see someone else who is going thru the exact same issue I am experiencing I might be encouraged to hear how they got out thru it." But know God is not angry with us because He poured out His anger on His Son. Wow! Right?! There is not one circumstance or behavior that can disturb God's love for us. He has resolved to love us and as Jesus said "It is Finished!" God's love is offered in full always despite our limitations, and outside influences in our circumstances. When we leave God He is still there. When we have not left Him, yet He seems to have left us He is really still there. He loves steadfastly always. We have many doubts, and God knows that and will renew us, but we must handle our doubts with God as He carries us thru them..

So, let us look at the two examples in Scripture to help us remain faithful despite our circumstances. First, let's look at John the baptist. One day Jesus was preaching in Galilee to some of His core guys and He gets ready to send some out, and suddenly some men walk up and ask Jesus a question; a question John the baptist has sent these men to ask. Why did he not ask it himself? Well, King Herod, (based on his wife's influence), had imprisoned him. This was the second Herod, they had a thing for that name...smile. So, these disciples of John ask, "Are you really Jesus? Are you really the Messiah? Are you really the sent One from God? Are You really the One we have been waiting for?"

Now John was highly regarded by Jesus, and was loved dearly. As John , during this time was stepping aside in His ministry and was sending his followers now to Jesus which people were obliging. Jesus says about John the baptist, "Truly I tell you, among those born of women there has not risen ANYONE GREATER than John the baptist. (Matthew 11:11). Wow, it takes a second to gather in the magnitude of such a statement.

Yet, here we find John doubting Jesus - why? Well when Jesus first heard that John was in prison (Matt. 4:12), what do you think He did, first? Visited? Sent him a "Care Package?" Maybe sent him a cake with a file in it? Maybe the God in Him could break him out miraculously! After all, he does have that down pretty good.

So, what did he actually end up doing? "When Jesus heard that John had been put in prison, He withdrew to Galilee. Leaving Nazareth, He went and lived in Capernaum..." (Matthew 4:12-13). Now we begin to see why John has doubted Jesus. It helps if you have a map of Israel to understand his predicament even better; but John had been ministering the stretch along the Jordan River where many powerful people and Kings opposed him. He was sent to a prison by King Herod which looked like a giant mole hill in the middle of a dry and arid land destitute from relief from the heat and seeing nothing but scorching sand and dirt, if he saw any at all.

Starved and destitute he was left alone. He was in the southern part of Israel, just east of the Israel border in Machaerus. While Jesus was In Nazareth In the Northern section of Israel, where He went even further away from John to the Northern section of Israel in a place with palm trees and a lake and beautiful weather; the place being Capernaum. So, John is desolate, and Jesus is at the beach with His boy's far, far away. That really paints a picture that John might discern as apathy and absence ,maybe even anger. He may be thinking "Not even a letter? a cake? or an air-conditioner?" Smile. But, Nope - Nada; Jesus was not moving toward involvement with John in the way he felt he needed to prove Jesus' resolve to him at the time.

This is where the disciples of John come in to ask the question to Jesus. And heres how Jesus responded: "Yes I am the One. I want you to tell him about all the things I'm doing -- for everyone else. Tell him about all the people I've healed. Tell him about how the blind now see, and how I have released people from prison (figuratively speaking) Smile. Tell him he can continue to believe in Me because of all the things I am doing -- for everyone else." And there inlays our common experience with John isn't it, in the season of dismay.

But the reason I delight in telling this story is the hope to encourage someone that no matter what our Machaerus experience is, Jesus still loves us. God knows our name and He loves us no less than His Son, nothing can separate us from His love; that Jesus has secured in the Atonement, and resurrection. John was loved in his in-between times; and He also loves us in our in-between times.

Jesus says a powerful statement of insightful prowess, when he says, "Blessed is anyone who does not stumble on account of Me." (Matthew 11:6).

Wow, that takes a second to sponge in doesn't it? In other words blessed is those people who don't interpret Jesus' silence as absence, apathy, or anger. Blessed are those who can't see Jesus' plan, yet stay faithful regardless of the temptation to use our self-awareness to calibrate an understanding of God's purposes in our lives (faithlessness). Don't interpret God's silence as absence. Jesus knew all about John and He knows all about us and our evaluated unanswerable circumstances that He loves us no less thru - We have His Word on it....Smile.

Lazarus' story also gives us insight into the truth of our own situations. In the same area John the baptist used to baptize people, later in time there's a guy who runs up to Jesus and says, "Lord, the one You love is sick." (John 11:3). And of course he was talking about Lazarus. So based, even on his introduction how would you think Jesus would act? What would he do for Lazarus the one whom He loves? After all Jesus had healed many whom were not as close in relationship, certainly He would heal Lazarus right?

(John 11:5-6) tells us, "Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus. So when He heard that Lazarus was sick, He stayed where He was two more days...." And I immediately say, "Wait what?!" And during this time all His core people got up and Jesus, says, sit down and relax. Reality would suggest Martha and her sister and Lazarus would be dismayed and angry, and in the case of reality they were. Lazarus got sicker and sicker, and he died; and Jesus knew his name. Jesus loved Lazarus and Martha and her sister. And for me, another "say what?" moment conspires to event itself.

We need to not confuse God's apparent absence for apathy. This leaves us confused, but, my goal is to show us a real category we have in our lives. That our unanswered prayers don't mean that God is not interested. We, along with Lazuras and Martha and her sister - have something in common. And from reading their stories we can reassert the fact that God is not absent, apathetic, or angry with us, and this despite the events witnessed in our circumstances, we must surrender our personalities to God trusting Him to build us up in Him and to limit us as He wills. Our seasons and walls of Spiritual growth are a gift from God. And our waiting on God, practically, can be one of the toughest faithful acts we must encounter in walking with Him. We must be encouraged that He loves us so.

I'll never be happy again - NOT TRUE! Nothing good can come from this! - NOT TRUE! There's no point in continuing! - NOT TRUE! May God restore and renew our Joy, and Hope, and anoint our purpose.

I can be happy again! Something good will come from this! There's a purpose to this pain, and I will receive it from God in His timing! I will put away my Witch hunt because I am in pain, and rest in knowing I am loved regardless of what is in front of me. May God richly Bless us all. (Sorry, I wrote so much). :).
 
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blue_ladybug

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Many times in my life, I have felt that God doesn't care about me. I know he does, but sometimes it sure don't feel that way..
Thank you to whomever repped me for this post. It is truly appreciated. :)
 

p_rehbein

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He even cares when we are tired and weary, and in need of rest.


Mark 6:31 - And he said unto them, Come ye yourselves apart into a desert place, and rest a while: for there were many coming and going, and they had no leisure so much as to eat.
 
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popeye

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"care" ,as God relates to our circumstances

God's Word is his testimony.

We KNOW from his testimony,He cares.

So we cling to his main template.
That is why it says "casting down imagination...."