Desperation is a Huge Turn off !!!!!!!!
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i know! Desperation is the worst, isn't it?! And 3 months salary for a ring?? I mean, that's like .. ....... math's not my strong........ that's like 4 hundred dollars. Right around that.
Anyway there's this really desperate girl that's trolling me and leaving messages on my vm. She keeps saying "you have no new messages". It's sick.
Anyway there's this really desperate girl that's trolling me and leaving messages on my vm. She keeps saying "you have no new messages". It's sick.
Why is it unattractive if someone wants someone? Such nonsense. I thought like that when I was young. If men just straight up showed interest they were scary. My ex had been rejected a lot and acted uninterested. That was attractive. He stayed uninterested the rest of our marriage. No thanks. Not again. Extremely desperate like in anyone will do, okay, I don't like that. They're just rebounding or something.
Isaac and Rebekkah: do you want to marry some stranger in another country? Sure!
Ruth lol did she come over as desperate?
Those people didn't like playing games either.
Isaac and Rebekkah: do you want to marry some stranger in another country? Sure!
Ruth lol did she come over as desperate?
Those people didn't like playing games either.
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It's not unattractive to want someone. It's unattractive when it seems they want whoever will stay with them. Or trying to hunt you down.
A few years back I started chatting with a woman here. I had zero interest in her romantically from the beginning. It didn't take her long before she made it clear she was interested in me. I made a point to not encourage anything. Within a few weeks she started trying to convince me we would be good together. We had completely different lifestyles. Total opposite. I took the time to point out how it could never work. That didn't slow her down.
I finally got to the point where I lied and told her I had started dating someone else. She said flat out that she was still going to come after me romantically. It was clear she joined the site to meet men. It seemed such a desperate attempt that it was a turn off. Once I started cutting off contact, she still tried. But once she realized I wasn't going for it she just went in search of another man by reviving her original 'I'm looking for a man' thread.
A few years back I started chatting with a woman here. I had zero interest in her romantically from the beginning. It didn't take her long before she made it clear she was interested in me. I made a point to not encourage anything. Within a few weeks she started trying to convince me we would be good together. We had completely different lifestyles. Total opposite. I took the time to point out how it could never work. That didn't slow her down.
I finally got to the point where I lied and told her I had started dating someone else. She said flat out that she was still going to come after me romantically. It was clear she joined the site to meet men. It seemed such a desperate attempt that it was a turn off. Once I started cutting off contact, she still tried. But once she realized I wasn't going for it she just went in search of another man by reviving her original 'I'm looking for a man' thread.
A desperate person is that very thing "Desperate" Desperate for love, desperate for acceptance, Desperate to be something and to be wanted.. When we have the understanding that the Lord is the only one that can fill that ache in us desperation melts away and we rest in the very fact that he is the only fulfillment...
I know what it's like to be desperate.. And still would be if Jesus hadn't rescued me.. If we meet people that we see are desperate we should point them to the only one that can heal their hurting hearts.. That's the root of desperation. Pain. Xx
I know what it's like to be desperate.. And still would be if Jesus hadn't rescued me.. If we meet people that we see are desperate we should point them to the only one that can heal their hurting hearts.. That's the root of desperation. Pain. Xx