Desperation is a Huge Turn off !!!!!!!!

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Messy

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Born_Again said:
If he runs away screaming that soon, perhaps you should do some self evaluation LOL
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I can say nothing and wait a year. I'm rather upfront in the beginning and in Holland within a day they need to know everything about your past and then they are afraid I'm nuts. Well so be it. What do I care? If I would ever date again he'd have to be an ex alcoholic or ex drug addict or someone who got set free from a mental illness or something. They understand more.
 
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Messy

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Desperate people should just date other desperate people. I've seen good marriages from 2 desperates. You're only desperate when you just got dumped. If they meet the right one then it works out great.
 
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seoulsearch

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Messy said:
Desperate people should just date other desperate people. I've seen good marriages from 2 desperates. You're only desperate when you just got dumped. If they meet the right one then it works out great.
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Coby, you crack me up.

In the most warped kind of way, this actually makes perfect sense!! :p
 
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Rosesrock

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Messy said:
Desperate people should just date other desperate people. I've seen good marriages from 2 desperates. You're only desperate when you just got dumped. If they meet the right one then it works out great.
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It's that called codependent?
 
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Rosesrock

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Messy said:
No it can be, but I know totally normal and healthy couples who dated right after the break up.
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I dont think desperation always come right after a break up. I think it's just the feeling of lonliness and needing to be in a relationship that peeps just try too hard.
 
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Messy

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Rosesrock said:
I dont think desperation always come right after a break up. I think it's just the feeling of lonliness and needing to be in a relationship that peeps just try too hard.
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Oh I thought that was the same. If you're really desperate you're not single. You can always find someone if you just drop all your standards or pick one up in a poor country.
 
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BurlyCarl

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Ah Desperate or Thirsty!

A man or a woman is no solution to anything in your life. You know. I love reading on social media this phase "I need a real man!!??" It cracks me up just saying.
 
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