Sirk,
You actually managed to DO the "Turn the other cheek" and "Go with them, two miles" and "Give them your coat, also" thing that Jesus said is how we are SUPPOSED to react.
I guess I never at looked at it that way. What I do know is that her doing that instigated a sort of pain in me. Not a huge gaping wound but the slight sting of disrespect, maybe invalidated somewhat, maybe a little powerlessness etc. In the past I believed those things about myself...that I wasn't respectable or valid and powerless most of the time. So I walked around with those open wounds bleeding all over the place and everyone who jabbed a knife in them...or at least my skewed hurting perception of that. Lol. A year ago that would have ruined my day, I would have stewed on it and at the end of it would be wiped out emotionally and not even know why.....,and honestly, I didn't think about it again until I got home a wrote the op.
I dont suffer from from all that emotional pain anymore so I am better able to go with the flow of life, and when people are rude or selfish it doesn't surprise me and I just remember that I was there once. Maybe in different ways, my pain turned inward and I constantly sinned against myself. Although I did build pressure from it and would explode eventually. Processing my personal pain from childhood has set me free from all those lies I believed about myself. I want that for others too. That's why I post the way that I post here in this community....because I know there are lots of people hurting just like I did...and I want them to find comfort and hope that with Jesus and a little determination, they can get emotionally well too.
I wondered if that lady thought about our interaction. Next time it happens, I gained a little confidence that I might take it a step farther. At this point I don't know how that will look but I trust the Holy Spirit will let me know.