Apparently silence is golden. Asking questions about something causes wars, or someone asking you if it's wise to post a particular thing. Apparently being a new Christian trying to get guidance is something you shouldn't do on this site. Only those who are mature should ask questions. I'll just observe from now on. I can't do anything wrong if I just watch.
Wanna bet?
That's been a big issue here for a long time. The Bible Discussion Forum is a free-for-all, kinda like the MMA octagon for the Christian set. I've often thought that a new Christian would look at that and say, jeez, if these long-term believers can't agree on anything, what chance do I have. And you have proved me correct. Sadly so.
But you're wise enough to know who is in it for real and who is in it just for the fight. Ignore the fighters and pm those who are honestly trying to help you. You shouldn't have to dummy up just because some people have acid in their veins. Discernment is one of the Holy Spirit's gifts. And I believe you know how to discern who is worth talking to and whom to ignore.
If someone picks a fight, click on their name, click view profile, then click "add to ignore list". Then you won't have them in your face when you are seeking serious responses. These people for the most part are NOT mature believers. Just cranky ones.
God bless you, my friend. Keep seeking the truth and you will find it.