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TemporaryCircumstances

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Maintenance guys got mad and started vented to me saying that they are maintenance guys they are supposed to maintain not install and the guy who built it got rich and left nothing for them.
I'm glad I could be there for him to get that off his chest ig :p
 

Born_Again

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Spent the last 3-4 days with the thought of my ex cuddling up with another guy, her new bf. It comes to me at least once an hour whether or not i'm thinking of her. And that she's apparently not speaking to me only makes it worse. Or better that i don't have to hear it. I don't know. I just know it sucks either way.
Add to that that i also keep having really weird dreams which have vibes that stick with me for hours, or sometimes the whole day, at the same time.
I prayed for months that God would remove my feelings for her, He did the opposite over and over. I thought maybe i just need to show that i'm always there for her and it would mean something one day. Now we don't talk and i have to think about her with someone else and i see where i've done no good for her, or myself. In fact she's just as bad, maybe worse, than she was before we dated. Not that i think that's my fault, but still.
It took me 40 years to finally feel confident God was leading me in a direction. After this it'll probably be another 40 before i would take that risk again.

Yeah, everyone says 'well at least you grew/learned something/etc...' as if that's supposed to help. It doesn't help.
Bro,
My ex intentionally made out with her new dude in front of me when I went to pick up the kids one day. Try that one on. But... Strangely, my ex and i get along pretty well. We sat and chatted for like 2 hours last night. The only reason our divorce got ugly was because the lawyers got into an ego measuring contest.

I learned something early on when we first separated; losing her sucked, yes. But i was more afraid of the change then I was of the divorce its self. Its been about a year and a half now. Yes, I am alone and she has someone but, I am happy and at peace with everything. I guess we all cope differently.

Hang in there, bro. God Bless!
 
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What a vain world.
*Drops mic on purpose.*
 
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TemporaryCircumstances

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I've always wanted to drop a mic after I say something :p
 
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Well, pick up the mic she just dropped, say something really profound and then drop it lol
*picks up the mic*
Something really profound
*drops the mic*
Haha yayyy my life is complete
 
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Ultimatum77

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Spent the last 3-4 days with the thought of my ex cuddling up with another guy, her new bf. It comes to me at least once an hour whether or not i'm thinking of her. And that she's apparently not speaking to me only makes it worse. Or better that i don't have to hear it. I don't know. I just know it sucks either way.
Add to that that i also keep having really weird dreams which have vibes that stick with me for hours, or sometimes the whole day, at the same time.
I prayed for months that God would remove my feelings for her, He did the opposite over and over. I thought maybe i just need to show that i'm always there for her and it would mean something one day. Now we don't talk and i have to think about her with someone else and i see where i've done no good for her, or myself. In fact she's just as bad, maybe worse, than she was before we dated. Not that i think that's my fault, but still.
It took me 40 years to finally feel confident God was leading me in a direction. After this it'll probably be another 40 before i would take that risk again.

Yeah, everyone says 'well at least you grew/learned something/etc...' as if that's supposed to help. It doesn't help.
Hmm well I don't know what to say but that cliches like " it will be alright" etc are just words without meaning and people generally don't want to hear it.....so I won't say that....

It may take some time to heal your emotions/heart. But I would suggest you find a place of solitude usually outside away from people surrounded by nature and no other people. It will help you think clearly and possibly confront and burry any issues from your past relationship. Drowning out or ignoring the issue by surrounding yourself with people or activities only temporarily distracts the mind. It's best for yourself to confront it head-on and take it down by the horns so to speak. Once you deal with it and eradicate any mental stumblingblocks, you will start to mend faster.

P.S. Don't clam up b/c one relationship burned out, maybe God has someone else for you, plus you are still young don't live another 40 years and then say "I regret" not taking a chance on someone else. Use your days wisely and with purpose. God Bless!
 

violakat

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Oh my word, this made me laugh.
It's perfectly acceptable for the neighbor's 2 year old boy to stand in the middle of the yard in nothing but his diaper, screaming at the top of his lugs in an incoherent babble. If I, at almost 40 years old stripped to my skivvies and stood in my yard doing the same thing, I would get tazered and hauled off to jail.

Double standards. Phooey.
 

Fenner

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My kid's like Pokémon , the card's, the show and they'll play Pokémon, like pretend to be them. I hear about Pokémon all the time, so much that last night I dreamt that I went to a Pokémon school and had to battle. I would turn into any Pokémon I needed to be. My guide was a Merman in the sky.

I told my kid's about my dream they think it's hysterical. I don't want to see Pokémon anything anymore.
 
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TemporaryCircumstances

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Haha
I would think it was hysterical too :p TBH
At least it was just a dream and not reality :)
 
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My kid's like Pokémon , the card's, the show and they'll play Pokémon, like pretend to be them. I hear about Pokémon all the time, so much that last night I dreamt that I went to a Pokémon school and had to battle. I would turn into any Pokémon I needed to be. My guide was a Merman in the sky.

I told my kid's about my dream they think it's hysterical. I don't want to see Pokémon anything anymore.
I wish I could have a dream like that! :rolleyes:
 

Fenner

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I have a random question, when someone posts one of those sticky threads and they stay in the same place for a long time is it the administrators that have to make it unstuck? Just curious.
 

Fenner

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My Husband is yelling at the contestant of Wheel Of Fortune, just say the hat, the hat. Boy We're getting old.
 
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I have a random question, when someone posts one of those sticky threads and they stay in the same place for a long time is it the administrators that have to make it unstuck? Just curious.
Yes...... :rolleyes:
 

Lynx

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Thought for the day: Grouchiness is like any other contagious disease - it spreads a lot faster when you keep your mouth open.
 
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Sadly, we were out of pineapples haha. But nah it was like 4am. I didn't want to leave them by themselves, so I stuck around for a bit to make sure he left and he eventually did. Weird tho lol
This is why http://christianchat.com/christian-singles-forum/137045-women-need-men.html

I've always wanted to drop a mic after I say something :p
Me too lol, but I always almost immediately feel bad for the mic, having worked with mics for quite some time lol. They can be expensive too ya know.