God touching our hearts,or trying to steer us in the right direction,is not violating our freewill,but a guidance,but what we do with it is still our choice,which that guidance will always be for our benefit.
The things we see in society,and the world,signs that advertise,and advertisement in general,that try to influence us to buy their product,and people trying to influence us for whatever reason,would you say that is a violation of our freewill,for the choice is still up to us to heed them.
God is not violating our freewill if He tries to guide those whose hearts seek truth,and He wants to guide them to Him,and the truth,for they still have the choice in the matter,like the world is not violating our freewill by trying to influence us with whatever they are trying to influence us with,for we still have the choice in the matter.
For no matter what,we will be influenced by something as long as our brains are turned on,and working,but we still have the choice in the matter.
1Pe 2:12 Having your conversation honest among the Gentiles: that, whereas they speak against you as evildoers, they may by your good works, which they shall behold, glorify God in the day of visitation.
God visits all people to cause them to think upon the truth,but they still have a choice what they will do with it,for if God was violating our freewill,that visits all people to cause them to think upon Him,everybody would be with God,and nobody lost.
God can touch Lisa's heart to think upon you,for you like her,but He will not force her to make that decision to like you,which I believe we should not be concerned with it,but prayer for our needs,or pray for a wife,but do not pick out someone,for God knows the hearts,and He will take care of it,for He knows what two people would best like each other,and be compatible.
Is the teacher violating the students freewill that wants to learn that subject,so God does not violate a person that claims Christ,for they want that,so it cannot apply there,and God does not violate the freewill of the world,but will try to guide them if they seek truth,but they still have a choice in the matter,and it is always for their good.
Is God violating the freewill of the world by the Christians reaching out to them,again no,for they still have a choice in the matter.
If suggestions,and influences,are a violation of our freewill,then I suppose a lot of things is a violation of our freewill.McDonald's advertisement,stop violating my freewill.Hey do you want to go to summer camp,stop violating my freewill.
God does not force,only advertises His truth,but the choice is still ours.