To be fair, though, we all struggle with something. We all have a hurt, habit or hangup. There's a difference between asking someone to fix a problem for them, whether it's an addiction, a mental illness, trust issues, etc. And then there's coming into a relationship with these and working on getting over these. That would be like someone not wanting to be in a relationship with you because of your depression or your epilepsy. "Ohh you have epilepsy? Well I don't want to deal with that. That's too much baggage to work with." Doesn't sound too good, now does it? And yes I know epilepsy isn't an addiction, but I hope you know what my point is (that we ALL have something). Porn is never okay, don't get me wrong. But for a woman to just basically say "Eww you struggle with porn?" that's kinda a bit judgmental. There's a sexual integrity group for both men and women in Celebrate Recovery, as well as other 12-step self-help groups similar to Alcoholic's Anonymous.