A couple of years ago, I went to a meeting with my daughter and a woman was there who spoke of the "Drama Triangle". It was a very interesting presentation / discussion and shed light on what takes place when people do not handle their affairs properly. We need to order our lives so that we are not participants upon the triangle. If we find ourselves on the triangle, we need to get off asap and get our lives back in order. Some people are incapable of living life outside of the triangle and their lives are a mess ... never any peace, never any contentment, full of anxiety.
Here is a link to a website which discusses the triangle:
The Three Faces of Victim – An Overview of the Drama Triangle
Blain, talk to your sister. Encourage her to deal with James --- one way or the other. Tell her you will support her. But for you to do this for her places you on the triangle as "Rescuer". Stay off the triangle. Your sister is on the triangle now and she needs to get off.
Keep your heart and mind focused on Lord Jesus Christ and direct your sister to Him. Pray with your sister and pray for your sister.
Here is a link to a website which discusses the triangle:
The Three Faces of Victim – An Overview of the Drama Triangle
Blain, talk to your sister. Encourage her to deal with James --- one way or the other. Tell her you will support her. But for you to do this for her places you on the triangle as "Rescuer". Stay off the triangle. Your sister is on the triangle now and she needs to get off.
Keep your heart and mind focused on Lord Jesus Christ and direct your sister to Him. Pray with your sister and pray for your sister.