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Account discovers 35k missing from your business and your soon to be ex and her mom were doing the books....er I mean cooking the books. When I was in the middle of it I just couldn't figure out why I couldn't seem to stay ahead of things. Be careful who you trust out there folks. And that's just last year. Now we gonna be looking at a couple years going back.
 
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The plot has definitely thickened.
 
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Wow.....I'm so sorry thats horrible.
 
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Deepdistress21

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Thats a very good point. Is this something you can pin on her and make her be accountable to it or no? Also what was your business?
 
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Thats a very good point. Is this something you can pin on her and make her be accountable to it or no? Also what was your business?
my accountant, attorney and I are going to meet to explore the options. I'm a contractor.
 
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Deepdistress21

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Well let us know how it goes :( you should build me a patio off my upstairs bedroom so i can have a hot tub under the stars outside my room.
 
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Well let us know how it goes :( you should build me a patio off my upstairs bedroom so i can have a hot tub under the stars outside my room.
I do electrical. lol. I can run power to your hot tub. :)
 

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I do electrical. lol. I can run power to your hot tub. :)
and shock yourself in the process? :p

I will be praying for ya Sirk. Hope they can figure something out for ya.
 
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Deepdistress21

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Sweeet. Now to find a builder :plol
 
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and shock yourself in the process? :p

I will be praying for ya Sirk. Hope they can figure something out for ya.
thanks man. We were talking about anxiety in another thread. When I first started on this journey thru divorce it took everything in my power to even go to the post office. I was so consumed with fear and anxiety. I would force myself to go and put the key in the box even tho my stomach was knotted up with this horrible sensation and my mind wanting to race with fantasized scenarios based on the worst possible outcomes. The only thought I could muster was...please God, help me. Then I would go open my mail at my moms house if there was something from the attorney. I was literally torn to pieces. It took all my power to even leave my house....sometimes I didn't even have the ability to do that in me...and I often didn't.

A week or so ago I suddenly had this realization that I couldn't even remember what it felt like to be happy and to feel safe. Even if I ever did in my whole life. That realization was an eye opener as to how damaged I was. Not just from that experience of the blended family thing and how that all went down, but just how looking back on my life, I actually helped create that kind of brokenness with the very people who create that kind of brokenness in their own lives..... Lol.....interesting huh? Just weird...like whoda think it? Lol

It has been a tough road. I am grateful for it and I know that I know that I am safe and gonna be alright.
 
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JUST MOVE ON PRECIOUS ONE, don't let the world dictate your future,
let Jesus do that, and all will be well...
 
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JUST MOVE ON PRECIOUS ONE, don't let the world dictate your future,
let Jesus do that, and all will be well...
I just wanted to share that as a testimony as to what unchecked, off the hinges anxiety feels like.
 

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Oh that's terrible Sirk, I'm sorry. I hope you can recoup your losses.
 

Angela53510

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Wow! Just horrible that your ex roped you off! I'm glad you caught it, and doing time sounds about right.

Have you sought help for this anxiety and depression, or is it improving since you realized she was the evil one? Not to stereotype, but this was just such a bad thing to do to someone you were supposed to love!
 
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Wow! Just horrible that your ex roped you off! I'm glad you caught it, and doing time sounds about right.

Have you sought help for this anxiety and depression, or is it improving since you realized she was the evil one? Not to stereotype, but this was just such a bad thing to do to someone you were supposed to love!
Its good to have some clarity as to why I was so defeated. I'm not really all that anxious anymore. This whole experience has toughened me up and made me smarter in a myriad of ways.
 
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Don't have anything deep or insightful to say. Just been moved to pray for you Sirk....remember no matter what The rest of the world thinks of you, God sees you as His beloved child.
 
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when Jesus chooses in His time to show us our worldly mistakes, then there is no doubt
that He is working on us to show us how to choose and use His Holiness in all of our
lives, no matter what area or how long we were stuck...His Love is awesome...
but, it does come with our understanding that He expects us to grow and move forward into His
will and ways, instead of our own past foolish ones...
 
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I didn't really post this thread for advice. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh. I think my intention was more to give hope to people who are struggling with similar stuff. It's been a long road for me. Did you know that when it person first gets saved it takes an average of 7 years to get healthy? I think it took about 30 for me.