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It went okay.
I didn't stay for his reaction haha...
But, he's been the same. Which is bad and good.
He has this thing going on where he likes to come up to me and put his arm around me or his head on my shoulder and it makes me super uncomfortable especially after I said no.
And I try to tell him to stop but he will not listen.
But, he doesn't seem hurt or anything like that
I didn't stay for his reaction haha...
But, he's been the same. Which is bad and good.
He has this thing going on where he likes to come up to me and put his arm around me or his head on my shoulder and it makes me super uncomfortable especially after I said no.
And I try to tell him to stop but he will not listen.
But, he doesn't seem hurt or anything like that
He sounds creepy. And clingy. And like he thinks he can push you around.
I don't like him.
TELL, do not ASK, him that you're not comfortable with the head on shoulder and arm around you stuff. Don't say can you stop TELL him to stop. Maybe I'm misreading but I feel like you're super nice and too sweet which to stupid teenage boys is easily misread and I really think you need to learn now how to say "No. You're not doing that" while smiling but letting him know he needs to back the snap up. Willies idea is good and would most likely work too but learning to very firmly stand up for yourself will do you well.
I don't like him.
TELL, do not ASK, him that you're not comfortable with the head on shoulder and arm around you stuff. Don't say can you stop TELL him to stop. Maybe I'm misreading but I feel like you're super nice and too sweet which to stupid teenage boys is easily misread and I really think you need to learn now how to say "No. You're not doing that" while smiling but letting him know he needs to back the snap up. Willies idea is good and would most likely work too but learning to very firmly stand up for yourself will do you well.
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I mean and it's not awful, I've had guys try to do worse; Corbin, you were in high school (maybe still in high school I don't know) but you gotta know how some of the guys are.
So really what he's doing isn't awful in comparison.
That's not saying I like it or try to let him do it. It's annoying and I tell him to stop, but still
So really what he's doing isn't awful in comparison.
That's not saying I like it or try to let him do it. It's annoying and I tell him to stop, but still
Ok, before I was more or less joking. Now I'm not 
If you tell him to stop and he doesn't then he needs put in his place. Dont laugh when you say no. Don't even hint that you're kidding. If he puts his dumb head of your shoulder move and push him slightly back. If he puts his arm around you move away and push his arm off. Watch your body language. don't be kind. don't say please don't do that. just firmly say DON'T. who gives a rats rear if his feelings get hurt.
If you tell him to stop and he doesn't then he needs put in his place. Dont laugh when you say no. Don't even hint that you're kidding. If he puts his dumb head of your shoulder move and push him slightly back. If he puts his arm around you move away and push his arm off. Watch your body language. don't be kind. don't say please don't do that. just firmly say DON'T. who gives a rats rear if his feelings get hurt.