Wife's Request To Spice Things Up Sexually

[Fenner]

My wife suggested we attend a swingers club to spice up out sex lives. She said we would just be there to observe. I don't know much about these places and I'm not sure I want to. Should I keep an open mind about this?

Um no, bad idea.

 

[GandalfTheWhite]

I have had people Pm-ing me out of the blue and asking for money to support some work that they are doing.

If I had a dollar for every person asking me for money...... I wouldn't have one dollar.

Except for Robocop he keeps on asking fortunately for me the Rand is worth nothing and the moron we have for a president is trying his best to get it to the same level as the Zim Dollar

 

[MessageOfTheCross]

Sexual immorality is the biggest killer of destiny in the world. This includes those behind close door sexual sins and sins of sexual thoughts. You can not play with it, toy with it, or flirt with it. Yes, I am talking to Christians who are reading this. The scriptures says, Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. 1 Peter 5:8 NLT

If your Faith is not maintained exclusively in Christ and His finished Work, you will not be able to resist temptation. Why? Because the enemies mention above applies pressure to the flesh that is weak. We must watch and pray as instructed by Lord Jesus to resist the enemy that will flee. "Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak." Matthew 26:41 NIV

 

[Utah]

Sexual immorality is the biggest killer of destiny in the world. This includes those behind close door sexual sins and sins of sexual thoughts. You can not play with it, toy with it, or flirt with it. Yes, I am talking to Christians who are reading this. The scriptures says, Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. 1 Peter 5:8 NLT

If your Faith is not maintained exclusively in Christ and His finished Work, you will not be able to resist temptation. Why? Because the enemies mention above applies pressure to the flesh that is weak. We must watch and pray as instructed by Lord Jesus to resist the enemy that will flee. "Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak." Matthew 26:41 NIV

No one who has faith in Jesus Christ is going to hell for masturbating. Let's get real.

 

[Mzdeplorable]

No one who has faith in Jesus Christ is going to hell for masturbating. Let's get real.

Well, that kind of person would be a fan of Jesus and not a follower. We are instructed to DIE to our flesh. Death is FINAL. I think you need to get real!! Its a matter of life or death. Do you prefer the fuzzy wuzzy feel good hyper grace message instead?

Take note of Gods words:

Mat 10:38 ... anyone who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me.
Gal 5:24 (Jer) You cannot belong to Christ Jesus unless you crucify all self-indulgent passions and desires.
Gal 5:24 (TEB) And those who belong to Christ Jesus have put to death their human nature, with all its passions and desires.
1 Pet 2:24a (Phi) And he personally bore our sins in his own body on the cross, so that we might be dead to sin and be alive to all that is good

 

[Demi777]

No one who has faith in Jesus Christ is going to hell for masturbating. Let's get real.

Unless that person cant stop and its a addiction...hmmm Everytime when something becomes a obsession u can be sure its putting you away from the narrow road with God.. (and no im not damning masturbation in general but im sure you see where im coming from on this). Dont let it control you and it it does, repent and stop.
I think MessageOfTheCross is just talking about how easy it is to fall into it and its better to just not play with it in the first place. Which if we look at the corruptness of the body of Christ I totally agree. Its slippery and falling into it happens fast and it destroys life daily (my dad is the best example of it).

 

[Mzdeplorable]

If faith is not maintain exclusively in Christ and His Finished Work, i.e., The Cross, i.e., The BLOOD of Jesus, the works of the flesh will manifest. Let me repeat what I said on previous threads;

Paul tells us this in the 5th Chapter of Galatians. The entire Book of Galatians, but especially the 5th Chapter, is a warning from Paul to the Church at Galatia, which is also meant for us. The warning is that if they place their faith in anything except “Christ and Him Crucified,” that “Christ shall profit you nothing” (Gal. 5:2).

The Apostle goes on to say that if the Believer doesn’t adhere to the Way of the Spirit, which is the Way of the Cross, then works of the flesh will manifest themselves. He said:

“Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the Kingdom of God” (Gal. 5:19-21).

Now let me say it again, because it is so very important:
If the Believer doesn’t understand the Cross of Christ, as it regards Sanctification, then, in some way, one or more of these “works of the flesh” are going to manifest themselves in his life. As stated, such is inevitable! The first four, “Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, and lasciviousness,” are obvious and easily understood. But the modern Christian quickly dismisses “idolatry, witchcraft, and heresies,” thinking they do not really apply today.

- Pastor Jimmy Swaggart

I agree with what you said but Im certain you could have quoted a MUCH MUCH better source. Swaggart?

 

[blue_ladybug]

I agree with what you said but Im certain you could have quoted a MUCH MUCH better source. Swaggart?

You remind me alot of blondieindahouse..

 

[Utah]

Well, that kind of person would be a fan of Jesus and not a follower. We are instructed to DIE to our flesh. Death is FINAL. I think you need to get real!! Its a matter of life or death. Do you prefer the fuzzy wuzzy feel good hyper grace message instead?

Take note of Gods words:

Mat 10:38 ... anyone who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me.
Gal 5:24 (Jer) You cannot belong to Christ Jesus unless you crucify all self-indulgent passions and desires.
Gal 5:24 (TEB) And those who belong to Christ Jesus have put to death their human nature, with all its passions and desires.
1 Pet 2:24a (Phi) And he personally bore our sins in his own body on the cross, so that we might be dead to sin and be alive to all that is good

You have said so, yet you don't believe. How sad. Here's a little reality check for you, every person that has two eyes and two hands has impure thoughts and has masturbated. That's as real as it gets. But glory be to God, Jesus' saving grace is sufficient for everyone who has faith in Him, except maybe you little legalists who don't give Jesus His full due for His complete work on the Cross. Thank God He doesn't judge me (John 5:24) even though you do.

 

[Utah]

Unless that person cant stop and its a addiction...hmmm Everytime when something becomes a obsession u can be sure its putting you away from the narrow road with God.. (and no im not damning masturbation in general but im sure you see where im coming from on this). Dont let it control you and it it does, repent and stop.
I think MessageOfTheCross is just talking about how easy it is to fall into it and its better to just not play with it in the first place. Which if we look at the corruptness of the body of Christ I totally agree. Its slippery and falling into it happens fast and it destroys life daily (my dad is the best example of it).

No worries, my little sister, my heart, mind and soul are focused on Jesus.

 

[Demi777]

No worries, my little sister, my heart, mind and soul are focused on Jesus.

Naw im not worried bout u falling into that anytime soon.
Just many ppl fall into it generally. careful careful. ((hugs))

 

[Utah]

I agree with what you said but Im certain you could have quoted a MUCH MUCH better source. Swaggart?

And you could have picked a MUCH MUCH better avatar. Ewwww!

 

[EmilyNats]

Here's a little reality check for you, every person that has two eyes and two hands has impure thoughts and has masturbated.

Um, I would beg to differ?

 

[eph610]

If faith is not maintain exclusively in Christ and His Finished Work, i.e., The Cross, i.e., The BLOOD of Jesus, the works of the flesh will manifest. Let me repeat what I said on previous threads;

Paul tells us this in the 5th Chapter of Galatians. The entire Book of Galatians, but especially the 5th Chapter, is a warning from Paul to the Church at Galatia, which is also meant for us. The warning is that if they place their faith in anything except “Christ and Him Crucified,” that “Christ shall profit you nothing” (Gal. 5:2).

The Apostle goes on to say that if the Believer doesn’t adhere to the Way of the Spirit, which is the Way of the Cross, then works of the flesh will manifest themselves. He said:

“Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the Kingdom of God” (Gal. 5:19-21).

Now let me say it again, because it is so very important:
If the Believer doesn’t understand the Cross of Christ, as it regards Sanctification, then, in some way, one or more of these “works of the flesh” are going to manifest themselves in his life. As stated, such is inevitable! The first four, “Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, and lasciviousness,” are obvious and easily understood. But the modern Christian quickly dismisses “idolatry, witchcraft, and heresies,” thinking they do not really apply today.

- Pastor Jimmy Swaggart

Swaggert has zero authority in matters of sexual sin until he himself is restored

 

[Spiritualpixie]

No one who has faith in Jesus Christ is going to hell for masturbating. Let's get real.

I couldn't agree more.
Otherwise we'd all have hairy palms and be blind.

 

[eph610]

Well, that kind of person would be a fan of Jesus and not a follower. We are instructed to DIE to our flesh. Death is FINAL. I think you need to get real!! Its a matter of life or death. Do you prefer the fuzzy wuzzy feel good hyper grace message instead?

Take note of Gods words:

Mat 10:38 ... anyone who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me.
Gal 5:24 (Jer) You cannot belong to Christ Jesus unless you crucify all self-indulgent passions and desires.
Gal 5:24 (TEB) And those who belong to Christ Jesus have put to death their human nature, with all its passions and desires.
1 Pet 2:24a (Phi) And he personally bore our sins in his own body on the cross, so that we might be dead to sin and be alive to all that is good

Are we talking about masturbation or hypergrace?

 

[Mzdeplorable]

No worries, my little sister, my heart, mind and soul are focused on Jesus.

Pot smokers say the same things. They are also just fans of Jesus just like they are fans of a football team

 

[Mzdeplorable]

I couldn't agree more.
Otherwise we'd all have hairy palms and be blind.

Is that something Christ would say? You sound like a fan......

 

[eph610]

Sexual immorality is the biggest killer of destiny in the world. This includes those behind close door sexual sins and sins of sexual thoughts. You can not play with it, toy with it, or flirt with it. Yes, I am talking to Christians who are reading this. The scriptures says, Stay alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. 1 Peter 5:8 NLT

If your Faith is not maintained exclusively in Christ and His finished Work, you will not be able to resist temptation. Why? Because the enemies mention above applies pressure to the flesh that is weak. We must watch and pray as instructed by Lord Jesus to resist the enemy that will flee. "Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak." Matthew 26:41 NIV

And yet the Church chooses not to have voice in how sex in the marriage covenant of one man and one woman, should be enjoyed and then some....Sexual immorality is running rampant because the Church lost their voice on the topic....and tuaght procreation and not having married heterosexual sex for the sake of just enjoying it....

 

[Mzdeplorable]

Um, I would beg to differ?

It makes him feel justified in his sin to include others. Many travel the broad road................they are fans not FOLLOWERS