Wife's Request To Spice Things Up Sexually

[Utah]

You just shattered your previous record for the most ignorant thing you've said. Congratulations sir.

Wow.

I'll let you in on a little secret - not all of us in the world think as you. Not all of us have the same "needs" or "desires". You really ought to know that by now, at your age, but now I am making assumptions.

Oh look, another shining beam of light.

 

[Utah]

There is something sick when an adult talks to a sixteen-year-old about masturbation. Are any of you her parents?

She's on the thread by her own free will-- deal with it.

 

[PennEd]

It is sick to tell a sixteen-year-old that everyone masturbates.

Yeah, so why don't you just keep repeating it a few dozen more times! If it's sick once, how much MORE sick is it for you to repeat. Unless of course you have some other agenda against this person.

 

[Tommy379]

Or maybe immoral sexual activity shouldn't be discussed at all, other than to point it leads to trouble. Good-night and God bless.

But see, the discussion had been about if masturbation was immoral or not, and that should not be a taboo subject. The problem is that it fell apart when the argument turned into who does it or not.

 

[Spiritualpixie]

He said that anyone who says they haven't masturbated is lying. You don't say that to a sixteen-year-old girl.

Why not???

It's true what he said!

She's probably seen far worst thing on the Internet. I think you need to evaluate what you consider 'morality'
She's had sex education in school (I presume) take a chill pill please and put your clean glasses on so that you stop seeing dirt and filth everywhere.

Again. How is it possible that underage kids are permitted to enter topics that have adult content?

 

[resurrection33]

She's on the thread by her own free will-- deal with it.

There are some things adults don't do.

 

[Utah]

He didn't say she'd soon be masturbating. He said get back to me in 16 year's and let me know how that non masturbating thing is going for you. What he's saying is you're not going to hell if you do it. She's right that people can get addicted to it, that's very true. We have some wise teens on here. This whole thread is a bit disturbing teenagers can obviously read it. I'd honestly rather a teenager know that they're not going to hell if they masturbate. He could say, go talk to your Mom and Dad but she's probably read this entire thread so I'd say him saying what he said isn't horrible. Oh my gosh, I gotta get out of her before I record my self screaming in frustration and post it.

Fenner, you're going to hell for defending common sense.

 

[Tintin]

Utah is a godly man of integrity. He's blunt and doesn't take crap from people, but he means no harm to young women. In fact, he does everything in his power to protect them from creeps.

 

[resurrection33]

Yeah, so why don't you just keep repeating it a few dozen more times! If it's sick once, how much MORE sick is it for you to repeat. Unless of course you have some other agenda against this person.

Part of my job is to let the sixteen-year-old know that she should ignore what Utah told her. The other part of my job is to discourage you people from leading the sixteen-year-old astray.

 

[Fenner]

Yeah, so why don't you just keep repeating it a few dozen more times! If it's sick once, how much MORE sick is it for you to repeat. Unless of course you have some other agenda against this person.

Exactly! I've read it over and over now. I think we all have to say you guy's were right we're all wrong, in order to get people to drop it...

 

[AuntieAnt]

PLEASE DO NOT FEED THE TROLLS!

 

[kaylagrl]

Part of my job is to let the sixteen-year-old know that she should ignore what Utah told her. The other part of my job is to discourage you people from leading the sixteen-year-old astray.

Then you've done your job on both parts. So we can drop the subject.

 

[jsr1221]

But see, the discussion had been about if masturbation was immoral or not, and that should not be a taboo subject. The problem is that it fell apart when the argument turned into who does it or not.

How did it even turn to that in the first place, though? The op wasn't even about that. He just posted and ran. I'm kinda curious how it shifted in the first place. Two different subjects.

 

[PennEd]

Part of my job is to let the sixteen-year-old know that she should ignore what Utah told her. The other part of my job is to discourage you people from leading the sixteen-year-old astray.

What do you mean "your job"? Who elected YOU hall monitor?

 

[Tommy379]

How did it even turn to that in the first place, though? The op wasn't even about that. He just posted and ran. I'm kinda curious how it shifted in the first place. Two different subjects.

I can't remember, that was 7 pages ago

 

[resurrection33]

But see, the discussion had been about if masturbation was immoral or not, and that should not be a taboo subject. The problem is that it fell apart when the argument turned into who does it or not.

I didn't read the whole thread. I was a little uncomfortable, though, when I saw a sixteen-year-old participating. That's when I discovered what Utah said to her. I don't think he was preying on her, but he certainly was leading her astray, even if he wasn't aware of it.

 

[Utah]

I think the current outrage is over of what Utah said to a 16 year old. A man that doesn't know a teenager should not be talking to her about her experiences down the road. That is beyond inappropriate. That is not his place. Some can even think borderline predatory. Do you really think a police officer would be okay with that?

Borderline predatory? Believe me if I was a predator or had the inclination of wanting to be a predator I'd do the honorable thing and commit suicide. Once again get real. Some of you are all uptight about my words to a 16-year-old when the real issue is perhaps the 16-year-old should not be on this thread in the first place. I don't mince words; if she's old enough to be on this thread then she's old enough to handle what is spoken.

 

[Utah]

It is sick to tell a sixteen-year-old that soon she will be masturbating.

I never said that so stop with your liable, inflammatory remarks.

 

[zeroturbulence]

Ok so after reading a bunch of this thread, let me just say...

 

[resurrection33]

Why not???

It's true what he said!

She's probably seen far worst thing on the Internet. I think you need to evaluate what you consider 'morality'
She's had sex education in school (I presume) take a chill pill please and put your clean glasses on so that you stop seeing dirt and filth everywhere.

Again. How is it possible that underage kids are permitted to enter topics that have adult content?

It is wrong to lead a sixteen-year-old girl astray.