Help i feel like god has rejected me and im on my way to hell

Jere · Oct 26, 2016

I grew up in church got saved and baptized at a young age my parents later seprated and i moved in with my dad.
We stopped going to church where was mentored by my uncle which didnt believe n the bible and told me life was about sex money and knowledge. He got me in to drinking and smokng cigarettes and later was addiction to porn masterbation threw out my teen years from 15 till now i been watching porn everyday and smoking and did many sinful thing like had sex with diffrent girls and had a girl friend for many years having sex and had a baby out of wedlock. My life was getting destroyed from sin but recently starting seeng that these thng were not bringing happiness only jesus can. I am now trying to come back but my heart has really harden abd i have been a really evil person and practiced unrepentant sin. These preaching teach wHen you what i have done jesus shuts the door and gives you over to a Reprobate Mind which jesus rejects you even when you cry for reptants with tears. Im now mature enough to know understand what i have done but i think its too late and were livingbin the final hours.I cant sleep knowing im on my way to hell and my times running out.I want to repent but in the back of my mind i feel its too late. Here are the videos
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r9JywTliIVA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wchDBS6KBG8

NewWine · Oct 26, 2016

Stop watching the videos and delve into the Bible...especially passages that say things like "all fall short of the glory" and "with God ALL things are possible" Or maybe you could look for more obscure things like "They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength..." I won't say where they are found so you will actively search for them.
A life of following Christ isn't about warm fuzzy feelings, or going to hell or heaven....it's about building a real relationship with someone who's bigger than we are, who can unteach us the world's ways and reteach us His, one who loves you so much He sacrificed part of Himself in a horrid way, so we wouldn't have to suffer, one who knows the world is difficult and deceptive telling us we are a lost cause, when in reality, God calls us His.

That's what I would do anyways.....
Peace!!

Jere · Oct 26, 2016

im still confused.... when god gives you over to a Reprobate Mind are you then rejected by god or can you be redeemed.

blue_ladybug · Oct 26, 2016

Jere said:

If you sincerely repent, then you are forgiven by God.

Time is short, so repent now while you can.

HisHolly · Oct 26, 2016

Jere said:

I grew up in church and left when I was 18, not too long after I started stripping.. Had a wild, drunk, drugs, sex infested life.. And now I've been back with God for a few yrs.. And I'm closer and know Him way better.. You can turn back and you're not out of hope.

AuntieAnt · Oct 26, 2016

I'm a bit confused, Jere. You posted almost this exact same op on April 14, 2015. And you also included the very same Dave Wilkerson video.

Then you concluded on June 29th, 2015 this comment: (click on link below)

Will God take me back

Now here you are again proclaiming that you're in fear of going to hell and you're advertising the same Dave Wilkerson video.

Are you affiliated with the World Challenge Youth Ministry?

Just wondering.

If not, I suggest you speak to a professional Christian counselor about your anxiety regarding hell. Praying for you.

Jere · Oct 26, 2016

no im not and i really do need help because based on a Reprobate Mind teaching god has rejected me. Im really trying to find hope that i can be with god because its hard reading the bible and trying to seek him when in the back of my mind im condemned.

HisHolly · Oct 26, 2016

Jere said:

Read the rest of that. If you truly had a reprobate mind you wouldn't be worried about getting right with God.

SunsSunny · Oct 26, 2016

No no no ! God is always longing for you with open arms ! You are not rejected by God! John 6:37 has a few things to say about that! "Those who come to me (says Jesus) I will certainly not cast out." A righteous man falls seven times but gets up seven times, and it's not that 7 is the limit my friend, just look to Peter who asked how many times he should forgive a man, 7? Jesus replied 70 times 7! Meaning that you should have in you such a sense of abundant forgiveness that there is no limit. So if you asked is 490 the limit? Jesus would respond 4900 times 490! It is a lesson on the limitless of forgiveness! And if we are to be this forgiving, how much more so and ready to forgive is our father in heaven?

The story of the prodigal son, I'm sure you've heard of. He wished the most vile thing on his father in asking for his inheritance! It was as if he said to his father, I wish you were dead because all that matters to me is your money! If you sinned you have not sinned to the point where you wished God dead! And even if you had, he would forgive you, and long for you and seek you each day.... "And yet while he was far away" from returning home his father saw him . How can that be except that the longing in the fathers heart kept him looking to the borders with hope for reunion with his son?

You are God's son! He made you for his pleasure and delight, that the king of glory would delight in us! Do not despair or fear the clutches of the lusts of the flesh. If you are bound, pray to Jesus and confess you desire freedom, true love, and the true pleasures of obedience and loving and living a holy life as he is holy!

Paul has written about men he handed over to Satan for bodily torment for the sake of the salvation of their souls. What you experienced as pleasure, what you took perverse lust in and satisfaction ... That was tore net. That was the effect of fleshly pleasures choking your spirit to the point of agony, despair , and longing... Till in this moment you decided you wanted freedom.

If if you want to come back, come back! Clearly your heart is not hardened! Do you want to live in freedom? Freed from the yolk of sin? Then you desire what's good ! Certainly your flesh which is your body of death does not desire these things! It never will! It is our earthly tent to be one day put aside so that we can be clothed in righteousness . As of now, we must live with this fleshly vessel which lasts for the flesh when in our spirit we lust for the things of God. It is a battle we fight every moe,not of our lives. But the very fact that you desire such things means you desire and have a heart cry for freedom.

the bible says that are minds are being renewed , and that we take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ . Well, we need Christ first before we can start filtering the mess in our heads. But with his help, you will begin to recognize the truth in your mind which is wisdom from God and leads to life and the evil which is to be bound and taken captive to the authority of Christ , destroyed ......

For now it seems to me you desire freedom! Pray this simply:
jesus I desire to be free, I believe in you, you died for me to have an enter all inehritance in heaven, in you is enteral life, and joy and freedom. Give me your strength to free me from the bonds of slavery and depravity which has held me captive. I was freedom in you, and all the promises you give to your sons and daughters who will inherit the kingdom of heaven!
In Jesus' name I pray .

if you prayed and meant that with your heart, his strength will come to liberate you. You will fight now with his assistance your daily battles. Take things one step at a time, one battle at a time. The devil loves to get us to look at the long road ahead and plan and worry and grow anxious . But the bible says each day has enough worry of its own. So focus on today, celebrate with God in victory, praise him and pick yourself up even in defeat , but walk with confidence that the darkness that once consumed you and tormented you as your master is now your enemy. And the King of glory is your ally and your God! Fighting for you and pushing back the darkness!

God bless you and keep you in his love my friend! Nothing can compare to his freedom and joy!
Taste and see that The Lord is good!!

PennEd · Oct 26, 2016

Jere said:

If you had a total reprobate, hardened heart you would not care one bit that you were sinning.

If you have accepted Jesus, you are a new creation. Realize that the new creation you are in Christ still resides in your dead flesh. Forget about feeling guilt, shame and condemnation! How have those feelings and thoughts helped you?

If you haven't asked Jesus into your heart and ask Him to be your Lord and Savior, then do this NOW.

Either way, take the focus off of YOU and what YOU have done, and put it on JESUS and be awed and grateful for what HE has done, and His incredible Grace to you.

It is the enemy that is accusing you. DON'T believe or listen to him.

Dear Heavenly Father, please give Your peace that passes all understanding to this young man. Let him feel your Presence and fill him with joy in the knowledge of You. In Jesus sweet Name I pray.

AuntieAnt · Oct 26, 2016

Jere said:

Where did you get that idea? God doesn't forsake anyone. Whoever calls on his name is saved. Nothing can separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus.

You're being deceived by a false view of God. Just because the Lord allows us to make mistakes and we most times have to learn the hard way, doesn't mean the Lord's letting go of us. What parent in their right mind would reject their child over mistakes they make? God is a greater, more loving Father than any of us mortal parents could ever hope to be.

As parents teach their children, so does God teach us with his Holy Spirit dwelling in us thru Christ Jesus. He is always merciful and kind and forgiving. A-L-W-A-Y-S! Even if you claim you're reprobate till the cows come home, it doesn't make it true. Nobody who is reprobate evens gives a darn about God. Evidently you care a great deal.

You're fine, dear son. The Lord won't forsake you ever. And as I suggested previously, if your anxiety continues, seek a professional Christian counselor. Blessings of grace and peace be to you in Jesus' holy name. *hugs*

wwjd_kilden · Oct 26, 2016

OP

Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.

I don't know whether you are mislead by one, or are one yourself, but the teaching you describe is false

blue_ladybug · Oct 26, 2016

Stop listening to the teachings of MAN, and START listening to the teachings of GOD.

Ahwatukee · Oct 26, 2016

Jere said:

Hello Jere,

First let me say, if God had removed his grace from you, you wouldn't be concerned about your sinful life with regard to Him. No one can come to the Son except the Father draws them. All manner of sins and blasphemy shall be forgiven. Peter asked the Lord, "Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother who sins against me? Up to seven times?” And Jesus answered, “I tell you, not just seven times, but seventy-seven times!" In other words, as many times as he comes and asks to be forgiven, then forgive him. It is the same with the Lord towards us.

The fact that you fear God and are concerned about you relationship with him, demonstrates that the Spirit is moving you to repentance. I received Christ when I was 15, but from then on my life was filled with sexual immorality, partying and everything else that goes with it. It seemed that I could never escape the sinful nature. And though those things were satisfying at the moment, afterwards I would be grieved in my spirit. I knew that the acts of the sinful nature leads to death and out of desperation I prayed that to God saying, "either this life style is going to kill me or you are going to help me to once and for all bring it under control. And finally after all that time of being a slave to the sinful nature, God helped me to break free of its hold on me. It was quite a battle, but I was determined to be free of it and have been for some time now.

When we receive Christ, we take on a new nature, which is the new person in Christ, while at the same time retaining the sinful nature. From that time forward the spirit wars against the flesh and the flesh against the spirit, for they are contrary to one another. Satan and the powers of darkness are the ones who are coming to you and telling you that you are beyond hope, that God will not forgive you because of your sins. It takes faith to override that and believe in what God's word says, which is:

"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (1 John 1:8-10)

Satan and the powers of darkness want you to remain living according to the sinful nature and they certainly don't want you to know that God is gracious and merciful to those who believe in his Son and will forgive our sins for the asking. Regarding this, scripture says the following:

"Let us then approach God's throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need." (Hebrews 4:16)

There is nothing that is happening to you, that has not happened to many of us, on one level or another. Go to God's throne of grace and confess your sins and most importantly, believe in His forgiveness, for Christ shed His blood in payment for all sin and is crediting with righteousness those who trust in him as the One who provided salvation for them. What is also important is that, as often as you fall along the way, go back to that throne of grace, asking for forgiveness. Because the powers of darkness are going to continue to tell you how unworthy you are and they would be correct. We are unworthy, but we are not saved by our worthiness, but by God's unmerited favor (grace) through faith. It is God who has done the saving.

May God's peace which transcends all understanding rest upon you.

missy2014 · Oct 26, 2016

I hope this video isn't from Paul Washer and the likes I'm a bit annoyed with their reformation take over the world thing. I like Paul Washer I like some of the things he says I like the idea of reformation ie Martin Luther but Paul and others associated Idk... They seem really anxious he said and this how he is like over emphasing and kinda not going some things about the right way he needs to suffer more for Christians by showing a lot more grace, mercy and pointing more to the God of All hope his sermon title or I think he said this " the gift that nobody wants" that's almost really offensive to me because that's incorrect its a half truth people hate God but THE BIBLE says God set eternity in the hearts of men" old testament when I will evangelise I never and God help me want to say truths Paul w says that to support his anxious incorrect possible wrong motives.if any group I go with its people like myself who have revelations visions of God heaven and Hell and they love lord so much i and you should stick with people such as those because their strong anointing is evident they love you and God. The apostles had a strong anointing but that all to God not them. Be Picky about feeling God's anointing the Christians you're around. Choo Thomas and Todd burpo or his son can't remember his name are a good start. My last church not current one laughed at people being 'rapture ready' I nearly cried I think I was angry I'm glad but sad God brought me out of that church.
Paul washer doesn't accept charismatics and there are charismatics who don't accept evangelicals. But scripture says we who have called on the Lord are All Saved.

missy2014 · Oct 26, 2016

* never want to say half truths

Jere · Oct 26, 2016

how do i know what the right one? im not sure if i can back to god or am rejected this haunts me because my sins were unrepented for many years.

blue_ladybug · Oct 26, 2016

Jere said:

Then it's high time that you repent of them RIGHT NOW. God never turns his back on one of his children, and YOU are one of his kids..

Now get off the computer, and go repent.

HisHolly · Oct 26, 2016

Jere said:

Repent now, it will cover all the years and believe, faith gets you right.. No one can make you, you've got to decide to just do it..

Aephus · Oct 26, 2016

Jere said:

Hey there Jere.

I don't believe God has forsaken you, nor that He has given you to a reprobate mind. I used to think the same sorts of things, and it wasn't until God really spoke to me and showed me that He still cared for me that it really set in. I really know that way of thinking, and sometimes it feels hard to move forward. But just know that God still loves you and desires you, and God can restore you. The enemy will do whatever it takes in order to deter you from going back to God, even if that means using scripture against you to make you think you're somewhere you're not. The enemy has been twisting what God said since the beginning of mankind, and even when Jesus was tempted in the desert by Satan himself, Satan used scripture to try and get Jesus to prove Himself to him.

I just want to encourage you and let you know that God still loves you. Nothing you do is ever a surprise to Him. Even knowing your every fall, He still went to the cross to pay for your wrongdoings, so that you might not have to taste the wrath of God and eternal separation from Him.

I would encourage you to get involved in a church that you trust, or tag along with a friend who goes to church. There are many people who will help you in your relationship with God and help you keep your focus on Him.

Check out 2 Peter 3:9. It really is the will of God that none should perish. God wills that you would be with Him.
Also, the fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5 is really also characteristics of God. As well as the description of love in 1 Corinthians 13.

The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy. He is a liar, a slanderer, an accuser, and a condemner.

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