Why do some Christians think modern crossdressing is an abomination?

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I'm trying my hardest not to let people get to me but sometimes i will defend myself against those who try to belittle me, put me down or judge me, this is why i have been so defnsive with people on here & all because i had the balls to open up to people & share about my faith, the only reason people are gtting defensive is because they can't accept me for who i am & probably because i've nade them look bad because they have dirty little secrets that they're ashamed of
 
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I was delivered from thinking I needed to be with women. Especially the ones who dressed as men. I judge no one. I was that way from early childhood till about 4 yrs ago. I see you're not getting the truth..
I'm trying my hardest not to let people get to me but sometimes i will defend myself against those who try to belittle me, put me down or judge me, this is why i have been so defnsive with people on here & all because i had the balls to open up to people & share about my faith, the only reason people are gtting defensive is because they can't accept me for who i am & probably because i've nade them look bad because they have dirty little secrets that they're ashamed of
 
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There are other methods for anxiety.. I just want you to know you can contact me for support should you want it.. If not I do hope you grow close to God and are set free . GBu
 
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Jesus is my saviour & I'm a cross dresser & He is fine with it
You should stop presuming to speak on behalf of Christ. Christ said '...and the scripture cannot be broken...'. You will have to stand before the Lord one day.

How would you like it if I did that for you, and said, "Polperro feels horribly guilty about his cross dressing. He brags about it on the Internet, but hides it in real life."?
 
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Perhaps you mistake judgment and belittlement with genuine concern? People are not taking the bible out of context when we understand the truth behind the scripture where it says men shall not dress like women and women shall not dress like men. God's truth does not change, and it has not changed since the beginning. God's truth stands the test of time. It does not change with the time or the culture, but stands consistent.

When people correct each other with scripture, it is not judgment. When people correct each other with scripture, it is not belittlement. I do not think I have seen any looking down upon anyone in this thread. Instead, I have seen concern by others when an individual states that something which the bible establishes as wrong is not wrong and that God is perfectly ok with that particular sin. That would actually be the very definition of agape love. Their concern for you is shown through their desire to help you and correct what is in error.

If you want help, we are here to help you with prayer and discussion of God's truth. Just ask!

I'm trying my hardest not to let people get to me but sometimes i will defend myself against those who try to belittle me, put me down or judge me, this is why i have been so defnsive with people on here & all because i had the balls to open up to people & share about my faith, the only reason people are gtting defensive is because they can't accept me for who i am & probably because i've nade them look bad because they have dirty little secrets that they're ashamed of
 
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In answer to the OP - because God says it is
 

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God knows me, he knows the things i'm into & why i'm into them & for the final time he is ok with my cross-dressing & if yo can't accept that & show a bit of brotherly chritian love then you aint a christian, keep on dogpiling onto me & i'll just laugh every time, you're all a bunch of judgmental hypocrites

aren't you judging people by calling them hypocrites? Isn't that the same sort of attitude you're complaining about?

I mean maybe it is true that some christians are being hateful or condemning. But not everyone who disagrees with you is condemning you. I do not think you will go to hell, as long as you are in Christ, but if you don't let Christ transform you, then your life on earth will definitely not be heavenly. And if you don't let Christ renew your mind then you will misrepresent God when you spread beliefs that are not from the Holy Spirit.

Tell me, if God wanted you to cross dress, why didn't he make you a hermaphrodite? Or why didn't he make you the gender that you want to dress as? Can you sincerely think about this and answer this?
 
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I am sure your really a nice guy. I am not questioning your character nor your intentions. But your actions are being luke warm. God has no middle line. I really dont understand why you are serving two masters in this.. Its not what God has intended.
We are not trying to belittle you, we are trying to get you to see how crazy it is what your doing by giving you these examples.
 

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I was reading over past threads here and am surprised at the reasoning used to condemn some cross dressers and transgenders. . . .

1 Corinthians 6:9-11 (NASB)
[SUP]9 [/SUP] Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals,
[SUP]10 [/SUP] nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.
[SUP]11 [/SUP] Such were some of you; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God.


It is an addiction to a particular sin, and it is repentable.
 
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Also today i have found another article which carries the same phrase:- 'God is both Male & Female', the fact that twice this week this fact ahs cropped up for me reinforces what I've been saying that God is ok with my cross-dressing. Because I feel that God has spoken to me for the 2nd time in as many days I'm walking on sunshine
 
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I found an excellent article online that suggests God is both male & female, in Him is the fullness of both(taken from the book of Genesis) So it should not be surprising to realize that we as humans all possess maleness and femaleness within us.So to sum up:- It is clearly obvious. If someone is a Christian and is also a cross dresser they are simply that - a Cross Dresser that is also a Christian. There should be no guilt or condemnation associated with that. And, in fact, with a better understanding of what the Bible is truly saying within the context in which it was written, other Christians need to take positive steps to bring cross dressing Christians into the fold of the church. We are not to judge one another. We are not to condemn one another. We are told, no we are commanded, to LOVE one another. "And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength; this is the first commandment. And second is this: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. There is no other commandment greater than these." Mark 12:30-31.

Therefore i'm not ashamed of being a cross-dressing Christian
I'm happy that you're happy, and I mean that sincerely. But don't give me any feminist theology garbage about God being both male and female. Let God be God rather than trying to pigeonhole Him for the cause.of political agendas. And for the record regarding Jesus' humanity, Jesus is a man, not a genderless human being, much to the chagrin of feminist warthogs.
 
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I've nade my choices in life, i'm a cross-dresser because it helps me with my anxiety issues, that is why God is ok with it, He spoke to me through the article & that has made me happy, then i found this thread & thought i would share what i had found only i wish that i hadn't bothered becasue of the fact i have been crapped on from the outset & all because you can't acept that ypu are wrong

This final part from the artilce sums it up nicely for me & not pne of you has me shown Christian love as indicated:-

It is clearly obvious. If someone is a Christian and is also a cross dresser they are simply that - a Cross Dresser that is also a Christian. There should be no guilt or condemnation associated with that. And, in fact, with a better understanding of what the Bible is truly saying within the context in which it was written, other Christians need to take positive steps to bring cross dressing Christians into the fold of the church. We are not to judge one another. We are not to condemn one another. We are told, no we are commanded, to LOVE one another. "And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength; this is the first commandment. And second is this: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. There is no other commandment greater than these." Mark 12:30-31

My final words to you all from God Himself:- IF YOU HAVEN@T ABYTHING NICE TO SAY THEN BITE YoUR TONGUE!
 
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I aint no TROLL & find that comment highly offensive & laughable at the same time, but considering the fact that God Himself has spoken to me twice in two days regarding my cross-dressing & saying to me that He has no issues with it, I'm a happy bunny!
 
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Thought I'd add some comic relief..... Don'tcha just hate it when the media cuts the good stuff out?

 
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I aint no TROLL & find that comment highly offensive & laughable at the same time, but considering the fact that God Himself has spoken to me twice in two days regarding my cross-dressing & saying to me that He has no issues with it, I'm a happy bunny!
And yet you ignore a post that doesn't criticize you for your choice of clothing, only to respond to negative posts. Maybe Stevie is correct with his discernment.
 
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If you're referring to the 'comic relief' post, there was no need to respond to that
 
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If you want to keep on dogpiling onto me bring it on, I aint bothered!, in fact I find it highly laughable!
 

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Maybe because they might think that picking up their cross should be worn like a necklace or others carry it around as a purse while some just walk around nude with a fig leaf in their hand.

But in reality don't we all shop at the House of New Orleans?